Originally posted by: Shwets1502
Let us not get too emotional about YoRi here. Consider only Yogi here. He is choosing his father over his love. Is he forced to choose? Yes, he is. But whose choice is it? Yogi can't leave his parents behind. He knows the extent of trouble and ridicule they would have faced in his growing up years. He is grateful for that and is willing to sacrifice his love for that. Fair enough. So he decides to get married? Who? Yogi decides. Reluctant, yes. But he isn't dragged physically and bound and made to get married. He is indeed in full consciousness of what he is doing. I don't care if Gunjan is right or wrong. But is Yogi right in getting into this marriage knowing he can't fulfil it, knowing he doesn't want to fulfil it? Perhaps not. Make this clear to Gunjan. That is how he can be on the right. Else, he is no different than Gunjan. He would indeed be ruining her life and she his. As I said, I don't care if what Gunjan is doing is right or wrong. Is Yogi doing the right thing?
Personally, I don't think Yogi is ready for marriage at all. He is completely dependent on the family now. If it's YoRi, he needs to tell he needs time tk settle down. That would show his maturity.
Less logic. More practical is what is needed. Marriage doesn't work merely on love. There are lot of other factors required to sustain. I have seen friends who were madly in love, getting married and getting divorced within a year. Adjustments, compromises, compatibility, balancing ego, work life, etc etc. YoRi are madly in love. But they need to talk about the rest. And I am not at all taking disability into account.
Morning ruined?? Why is that? Because I have a different view to yours?? Come on!!