Originally posted by: Mr-YK
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Okay this is in response to the statement that Yogi is going ahead with this marriage with consent or as previously stated "full consciousness."
Now this is completely wrong, Yogi is going ahead with this marriage to simply fulfil his father's wish as his father has done so much for him, cue the patient in Pari's hospital whose Parents left him for his disability. Yogi always had his father's love and in someway he is being emotionally blackmailed with this and then there is also the who will marry Poor Gunjan, with all these he has no choice but to go ahead, its not like he has any where else to go.
Now for "its Yogi who is ruining Gunjan's life" because he is marrying Gunjan whilst knowing he can't love her because he is in love with Pari. This is just crazy! Yogi does not hold any responsibility over Gunjan's happiness, just like Gunjan didn't take any responsibility over the pain she caused Yogi. Yogi is NOT obliged to love Gunjan. Especially when its much harder to do so with their shared history and Yogi's current romantic feelings. Also Gunjan is directly ruining her own life, whilst sitting on the biggest fact which is YoRi. Shiv told her concisely, that the choice is in her hands, no more dictating her life. Yet when the fact that YoRi is presented to her, she still doesn't speak up against this rishta. Even her parents have doubt about where Yogi's heart lies.
So with that, I've rebutted the false claims made and provided logical explanations.
My morning is ruined 👏
Let us not get too emotional about YoRi here. Consider only Yogi here. He is choosing his father over his love. Is he forced to choose? Yes, he is. But whose choice is it? Yogi can't leave his parents behind. He knows the extent of trouble and ridicule they would have faced in his growing up years. He is grateful for that and is willing to sacrifice his love for that. Fair enough. So he decides to get married? Who? Yogi decides. Reluctant, yes. But he isn't dragged physically and bound and made to get married. He is indeed in full consciousness of what he is doing. I don't care if Gunjan is right or wrong. But is Yogi right in getting into this marriage knowing he can't fulfil it, knowing he doesn't want to fulfil it? Perhaps not. Make this clear to Gunjan. That is how he can be on the right. Else, he is no different than Gunjan. He would indeed be ruining her life and she his. As I said, I don't care if what Gunjan is doing is right or wrong. Is Yogi doing the right thing?
Personally, I don't think Yogi is ready for marriage at all. He is completely dependent on the family now. If it's YoRi, he needs to tell he needs time tk settle down. That would show his maturity.
Less logic. More practical is what is needed. Marriage doesn't work merely on love. There are lot of other factors required to sustain. I have seen friends who were madly in love, getting married and getting divorced within a year. Adjustments, compromises, compatibility, balancing ego, work life, etc etc. YoRi are madly in love. But they need to talk about the rest. And I am not at all taking disability into account.
Morning ruined?? Why is that? Because I have a different view to yours?? Come on!!