Unfortunately I am one of the persons who got hooked to BB13 due to SidNaaz and got a rude awakening today. Wud like to point out a few things here:
1. I feel Sid did not react much becoz he is unaware of the extent of seriousness with which Sana confessed her love for Paras. In future too, Asim won't reveal Sana's words and based on what Aarti said to Sid, he cud very well assume it to be the casual 'I love U' she keeps saying to Paras in front of him too.
2. Looking back, I feel that after the Himanshi caused flip, Sana wanted to return as just good friends of Sid. Even during the Bhau speech, she had clearly said' Pyaar pyaar raha -for Paras and Dost dost na raha for Sid'. Sid took Sana's efforts to mean that she loved him and reciprocated accordingly. The next day after the patchup, Sana was kind of lost and not too happy, which she ideally shud hv been if she loved Sid. After Vishal's Sidnaaz reveal, she perhaps decided to go with the flow to extend her stay in BiggBoss.
3. Sid does seem to have seriously fallen for Sana, judging by all the changes in him in her presence and the leeway he allows her. Sana is wrong to have encouraged his physical touches and sweet kisses if she didn't want to have a relationship with him. Sid is not a person who will openly show his hurt but he does not seem at all frivolous in his relationship with Sana and the knowledge that Sana does not really love him might bring out his worst behaviour soon.
4. Sana is stuck on Paras from Day1 and in old unseens Sid tried a lot to make her understand that Paras didn't love her, had a girlfriend and was just using her. However, she had it in her head that Paras didn't have a good relationship with his girlfriend and so would leave the GF for her. After Arhaan's discussion with Paras 2 days back which Paras was recounting in front of Sana and Sid, Paras sort of implied that he wanted to break it off with Akanksha. Sana, the ever hopeful, took it as a good sign and this rekindled the feeling of love in her for Paras. Somehow, she has never considered the possibility of Paras having any romantic feelings for Mahira as even in a recent unseen she was complaining that since Mahira is just a friend, why does she have a problem with Sana getting close to Paras. In her mind, Sana has just been waiting for Mahira to be evicted to reinitiate he affair with Paras, with the hope that even outside Paras would continue it.
She does value Sid's friendship and just wanted to be good friends with him.
5. All this while Sid has been the only one asking all sorts of Qs about Sana, trying to see a future life partner in her. Sana has never asked any relevant, personal queries from Sid and even in unseens where Sid is talking about his childhood, parents etc Sana has either walked away or slept or been completely uninterested. A girl in love will never behave so.
6. Sana seems to be silly enough to think that her flip behaviour is being appreciated as cute by BB13 audience as she was telling Sid today. Someone needs to inform her how this foolish behavior is destroying all her credibility and likeability and would lead to neither of the 3 persons who adore her today - Sid, Vishal and Paras, taking her seriously any more.
7. I hope Paras, on his return, instils some sense into Sana and makes it crystal clear to her that his priorities are Akanksha and Mahira and that even with these 2 not being in picture, he will never be romantically interested in her - she desperately needs to be jolted out of her misapprehensions.
8. It was a pleasure to see Sid removing his protective layers one by one as he got more comfortable in their relationship. It took him time to get physically comfortable with her, initiate sweet little kisses, hug her tight etc - this change occurred only in the last 2 weeks and somewhere I feel this is what made Sana get a bit apprehensive - she wasn't at all comfortable with him lying on top of her or hugging her too tight - in most these scenarios she kept bringing up Paras, talking to him or even saying 'I love U Paras' randomly.
On nominating Paras, after his 3rd attempt at reconciliation failed, Sid kind of got the message that Paras meant much more to Sana than he had realized. It was quite apparent that the artificial layers of indifference started making their way back to his persona which led him to claim that what she does no longer bothers him.
9. To me, Sid and Sana seemed like the Shahid - Kareena pair of 'Jab we met' . Due to her Paras obsession, Sana is literally throwing away a chance to be really happy in life. Sid, if he continues to adore her the way he currently does, can give her a lot of love but in her blind worship/crush she is unable to see that.
It's equally true the other way around - Sid seems not to have found a companion yet who he would want to settle down with. From initial BB13 days itself, he seems to have been enchanted by Sana and she is a huge calming factor for him. Both could have grounded and provided stability to each other by taking their relationship forward beyond BB.
I was so looking forward to this happening and it did break my heart today, primarily for Sid, to see Sana foolishly squandering away both persons' happiness for a complete mirage.
I so wish that she is somehow taken out of BiggBoss for a few days and shown all the videos where Paras spoke against her as well as the ones which made people like us fall in love with their pair. She needs to realize that she means nothing to Paras and quite a lot to Sid.