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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nailah_EjFian

not only that Oppo, I remember Ekta and Eri done a live IV on women’s day back in 2018 about Women Empowerment.. EK and BT always preach on social message etc etc.. I am sure they mentioned about SELF LOVE as well..


so why send across an unrealistic and in my opinion wrong msg across to ppl? Where a woman is reduce to being a puppet.. and that she needs to accept any kind of insult, abuse towards herself and her family just to be with the man she loves!


Prerna’s character is a bit let down for me.. I was expecting a combo of Shweta Tiwari’s Prerna and Erica’s Sonakshi Bose.. Pre isnt even 1% of Sona..


anyone remember the fish scene during their engagement.. that was disgusting!



KZK's main target is now only to make happy the shippers audience , that's it . character growth , message nothing .. just free ka kuch romantic scene dal do .. sab khush. what is social message ? kzk2 atleast social message dene mai believe nei karte . one of the most regressive show in decade .. kzk2 agar 2001 era mai hote , toh i could make my mind, chalo woh jamane mai aise FL hotei hai .. but surprisingly 2001 was more more more more more upgraded and progressive for woman empowerment . logic BT mai kabhi nei the , but Woman degradation iss hartak kabhi nei the , jaise is prerna ka roz ho rahe hai on the name of love ...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Paricarocks

if a husband listens to mother and abandons his wife than a problem

If husband listens to wife abandons mother than problem

If a wife listens to mother and breaks relationship with husband thats okay🤔

Why cant husband and wife ignore both their mothers and be with each other..

Let mothers scream preach abuse the son in law or daughter in law... Goli maaro dnt pay attention..

Just have happy life with hubby wife and child

Her arguement was not illogical if veena as a wife would have been she herself would have done more than what prerna did..

Its always easy to preach but when same thing happens to u own ppl will behave differently

Thats what i always see in ppl around me...

You cannot just draw comparisons between the situations without bringing in the characters. The characters of the show do not bear any resemblance to real life because all of them are over the top. So I personally cannot connect with the point you have made.

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Posted: 6 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Paricarocks


Its always easy to preach but when same thing happens to u own ppl will behave differently


Seriously..yes it is..n it all depends on the level of emotional attachment that people have with each other..that's why they do everything ,make all adjustments and compromise to be with those who care ..when in love it happens automatically..moh showed that adjustment....those who dont are free to stay alone all through their lives...



I get mad when I read comments like anurag must abandon mohini..why should he abandon his mother? And his love ? Both? Why cant he make necessary adjustments and please both ? I am glad there is a serial which actually promotes this kind of progressive thinking that it is possible to maintain a balance between your spouse and your parents..kzk is all about what one should not do while in love..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Prerna is an insufferable crack pot....

She has crossed all levels of idiocracy...

She has made absolutely clear nothing matters other than Anurag..

If that is not being selfish I don't know what is...

But as made clear by many love transcends everything, but to me this is not love,

It is toxicity....

The funniest part is that I want them to get married now and put an end to this show...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: manzilmukul

She cannot breathe without Anurag. That was made clear from the trailer of the show itself. It’s about the story of star crossed lovers who love for each other! There’s absolutely nothing new which she voiced today....

Having said that, a love so strong and consuming needs a DISILLUSIONMENT of the highest order. There will be a time, she would herself cut her chords with Anurag!
Till date, it has been other people who have driven them away. This time, it will be Prerna herself. She has never been or will never be happy with Anurag. Love is not life!
Life becomes worth living due to love.....

Her hopes will be shattered badly, this time not because of anyone else, but Anurag and her own equation!!!

That will lead to their ultimate separation physically!

No offence but I have previously seen many of your posts stayting the same thing in other topics....

I just want to ask you and everyone who thinks so one thing...

What wrong did AnuPre did to deserve separation....I know they have issues....They get selfish when it comes to eachother...And yeah they are also obsessed with eachother... That's true....

But why do you always assume that they have to be SEPERATED FOREVER for that.... And how are you SO SURE that they WILL NOT BE HAPPY together?

I think they are the HAPPIEST when they are with eachother...but there is always somebody between them....

See I'm not saying that when they are together they will be always on cloud nine, they do fight, they do have issues and arguments and there might be such CIRCUMSTANCES where they may even HATE eachother...doesn't all this happen between all couples?

But their LOVE for eachother which only has strengthened because of all the challenges they faced will always make them stay together....that's the BEAUTY of a relationship isn't it?

They can both work on their issues and understand eachother better..no need of them getting separated and moving on in life....

Loving someone UNCONDITIONALLY is not wrong....and it's true that they do get wrapped up in eachother but whenever pre or anus family needs them they are ALWAYS THERE for them....

At the end of the day....the show itself is about THEIR Lovestory and it's about them facing challenges and coming out of it strong with their love for eachother as their strength.... (That's what they promised and that's what they are showing eventhough they get side tracked sometimes and have shitty writing most of the time.....)

And till now that's what happened too....with Komolika, Naveen Babu and Prerna's ex-husband and now Sonalika......

This SEASON is NOT about a failed Lovestory....and I think we can all say that now...with the way things have gone...but about a love so STRONG that it withstands the MOST DIFFICULT of situations and ends up even more Stronger...

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Posted: 6 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: sowmy20

No offence but I have previously seen many of your posts stayting the same thing in other topics....

I just want to ask you and everyone who thinks so one thing...

What wrong did AnuPre did to deserve separation....I know they have issues....They get selfish when it comes to eachother...And yeah they are also obsessed with eachother... That's true....

But why do you always assume that they have to be SEPERATED FOREVER for that.... And how are you SO SURE that they WILL NOT BE HAPPY together?

I think they are the HAPPIEST when they are with eachother...but there is always somebody between them....

See I'm not saying that when they are together they will be always on cloud nine, they do fight, they do have issues and arguments and there might be such CIRCUMSTANCES where they may even HATE eachother...doesn't all this happen between all couples?

But their LOVE for eachother which only has strengthened because of all the challenges they faced will always make them stay together....that's the BEAUTY of a relationship isn't it?

They can both work on their issues and understand eachother better..no need of them getting separated and moving on in life....

Loving someone UNCONDITIONALLY is not wrong....and it's true that they do get wrapped up in eachother but whenever pre or anus family needs them they are ALWAYS THERE for them....

At the end of the day....the show itself is about THEIR Lovestory and it's about them facing challenges and coming out of it strong with their love for eachother as their strength.... (That's what they promised and that's what they are showing eventhough they get side tracked sometimes and have shitty writing most of the time.....)

And till now that's what happened too....with Komolika, Naveen Babu and Prerna's ex-husband and now Sonalika......

This SEASON is NOT about a failed Lovestory....and I think we can all say that now...with the way things have gone...but about a love so STRONG that it withstands the MOST DIFFICULT of situations and ends up even more Stronger...

Hey Sowmi,

If I may just share something.. i haven't watched them from beginning but whatever I have seen of them.. they lack two most imp things any relationship needs..- TRUST & COMMUNICATION. Ek chhota problem.. instead of communicating and find a solution they sacrifice their love only.. lose trust.. even hit. So may be they are very much in love but like the other member said you can't live your whole life just with love.

In future also there is a possibility they'd repeat the same thing. They know thr familirs are not very much in agreement to their relationship, but they choose the easy way to seclude them and not resolve anything.. that's why I blv there isn't much of growth in them other then the baby bump.

And separated/united- I am not very sure of that if thats gonna happen or not so no point for me to say anything about that.

This is just my POV and don't intend to justify/attack anyone's personal views here..

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Posted: 6 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: opsora2090

Prerna's main happiness mainly lies on only Mohini's Bhar Bharke insults , Nivi's taunts, Komolika's harms , khudke family ka beijjati and being the Bodyguard of Basu Khandan . and she has summarized all of these things on the name of her eternal , divine Love Anurag . That is her entire life roaming around this planet from starts . and as a woman being she has no regret for this ever . aur bhaise bhi i believe, Everyone has full right to choose their own mistakes. then why not prerna . 👍🏼

I am an AnuPre shipper but i have to agree with you on this! Prerna can love and fight for Anurag as much as she wants but it simply irks me to see her act completely blind to MoNi's feelings for her.It wouldn't have bothered me so much if she had never answered them back.But she did!During the Sassy Pre track(I know opinions may be divided on this track)But at least she gave it back to them for a while.But after that nothing!No matter how much she and her family got humiliated not even once did she take a stand for them but justify Mohini's hatred as Halwa kaand!.No wonder anyone and everyone can get away with treating her like that.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: cassiop

Hey Sowmi,

If I may just share something.. i haven't watched them from beginning but whatever I have seen of them.. they lack two most imp things any relationship needs..- TRUST & COMMUNICATION.

Yeah that is the thing most people say and it's true also...

But as far as I know TRUST and Communication needs to be built and nurtured with time.... These two have had no happy time at all till now....and right now all they have for them is their LOVE... I think as time passes they will surely learn to trust eachother and communicate more .....

Ek chhota problem.. instead of communicating and find a solution they sacrifice their love only.. lose trust.. even hit. So may be they are very much in love but like the other member said you can't live your whole life just with love.

In future also there is a possibility they'd repeat the same thing.

That nobody can be sure.... Eventhough they do mistakes in the name of sacrifice....their motive is always love and they do support eachother when it matters the most... And rest all depends on how writers take them ahead...

Their relationship is work in progress....we can't decide anything now... How they behave in the future decides it .....

They know thr familirs are not very much in agreement to their relationship, but they choose the easy way to seclude them and not resolve anything.. that's why I blv there isn't much of growth in them other then the baby bump.

And separated/united- I am not very sure of that if thats gonna happen or not so no point for me to say anything about that.

This is just my POV and don't intend to justify/attack anyone's personal views here..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sowmy20

No offence but I have previously seen many of your posts stayting the same thing in other topics....

I just want to ask you and everyone who thinks so one thing...


None has been taken either! First of all, I would speak for myself as I have a very individualistic thought process, and I don't believe in groups or mass answers on behalf of anyone.

Secondly, I am glad that you took notice of my comments and posts which are barely a few in this sea of people in the forum. Makes me feel intrigued as to why me? But, I must have probably piqued your interest which is great. So, thank you again.smiley31


What wrong did AnuPre did to deserve separation....I know they have issues....They get selfish when it comes to eachother...And yeah they are also obsessed with eachother... That's true....


No one in this world deserves pain unless you are WRONG, don't repent or commit heinous crimes. There's a thing called Karma, and it comes in cycles. Could be this birth or another birth as well. Pardon if my spirituality isn't something you'd like to believe in.

Being SELFISH in love, most people do that, and I get it. I have done it myself, giving massive heartbreaks to my parents. But I say it because I have been there. What we see in Anupre is an all-consuming love, and the DISILLUSIONMENT has to happen within themselves. They can be separated but to cut off ties, they both need to look away from each other without any external force or destiny!

They do NOT DESERVE SEPARATION-no lovers do but they will eventually! Why? Because the show is propagated like that and yes, I want to see a different story between them. This is FICTION, and I am entitled to express my ASSUMPTIONS.


But why do you always assume that they have to be SEPERATED FOREVER for that.... And how are you SO SURE that they WILL NOT BE HAPPY together?

I think they are the HAPPIEST when they are with eachother...but there is always somebody between them....

See I'm not saying that when they are together they will be always on cloud nine, they do fight, they do have issues and arguments and there might be such CIRCUMSTANCES where they may even HATE eachother...doesn't all this happen between all couples?

But their LOVE for eachother which only has strengthened because of all the challenges they faced will always make them stay together....that's the BEAUTY of a relationship isn't it?

They can both work on their issues and understand eachother better..no need of them getting separated and moving on in life....

Loving someone UNCONDITIONALLY is not wrong....and it's true that they do get wrapped up in eachother but whenever pre or anus family needs them they are ALWAYS THERE for them....

At the end of the day....the show itself is about THEIR Lovestory and it's about them facing challenges and coming out of it strong with their love for eachother as their strength.... (That's what they promised and that's what they are showing eventhough they get side tracked sometimes and have shitty writing most of the time.....)

And till now that's what happened too....with Komolika, Naveen Babu and Prerna's ex-husband and now Sonalika......

This SEASON is NOT about a failed Lovestory....and I think we can all say that now...with the way things have gone...but about a love so STRONG that it withstands the MOST DIFFICULT of situations and ends up even more Stronger...


Happiness, the beauty of relationship, separation is SUBJECTIVE! I am SURE they cannot be happy because they both can not be alienated from the world around them. They both DO NOT POSESS the capabilities to FIGHT together and establish each other's love and stand TOGETHER. At least, it has been shown till now. If that grows, good for them and you who would like to see them happy together.


See, whatever you say, I AGREE entirely to it.

Loving someone UNCONDITIONALLY is not wrong, taking STUPID decisions in the name of that love is!

Being there for each other is NOT WRONG, not communicating with each other is!

Craving for each other is NOT WRONG, taking the burden of solving problems on their own is!

You see the beauty in their UNION, I see the beauty in their SEPARATION.

You think this season is about their journey, I believe that too; in a different way.

There's a BEAUTY in UNREQUITED love, there's absolute divinity in melancholy too.

I have seen and read such haunting storytelling elsewhere and hence my fixation on their ULTIMATE SEPARATION.

That's what I want Anupre to be and their love this season.

You ship them as a couple, I ship them too, in a different way.

The writing is SHITTY; We both AGREE.

You find their Union and being together beautiful! I find them BORING together.


To each, his own!

I don't have a personal grudge against Anupre. They are characters in a story and NOT REAL people BECAUSE THERE IS NO SEMBLANCE of these caricaturish characters in REAL life.

It equally stands TRUE for other STUPID tracks INTRODUCED for all other characters too!


So, in a NUTSHELL, I want to see Anupre LOVE STORY in a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT WAY! I don't want them to be together-not because I am a SADIST and wish bad upon people but I love my story characters to be a certain way and I had HIGH hopes given SEASON 1 legacy. But, alas, this show looks more like a mockery of everything! Devdas wouldn't be Devdas if they LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER! TITANIC WOULDN'T BE AS HAUNTING IF JACK AND ROSE DIED TOGETHER!

These weren't FAILED love stories but they were TRAGIC with the concept of SOULMATES!


So, in short, I signed up for their TRAGIC journey and the LOVE STORY OF A MAN (PRerna's Ex-Husband) WHO FELL IN LOVE WITH A WOMAN WHOSE HEART DIDN'T BELONG TO HIM!

That's precisely what I want to see and hence, you will see me NOT DEVIATING from my thought process in all my posts! I DON'T HATE ANUPRE! There's no reason two lovers shouldn't be together but circumstances forced them too.


You can ASSUME whatever you want from this SEASON. That's your RIGHT! I will keep ASSUMING and WANTING a DIFFERENT Story.

Hope you got your answer!

Edited by manzilmukul - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soulfuldream

Prerna is an insufferable crack pot....

She has crossed all levels of idiocracy...

She has made absolutely clear nothing matters other than Anurag..

If that is not being selfish I don't know what is...

But as made clear by many love transcends everything, but to me this is not love,

It is toxicity....

The funniest part is that I want them to get married now and put an end to this show...

u said it.

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