I’m done!!! Pooja could do soooo much better

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Posted: 6 years ago
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She’s so sorted and mature for age. She’s my favorite character, Can’t see this behavior... Pooja should be thankful to the entire family for the great upbringing n lavish lifestyle. she’s an apple of everyone’s eye. Instead she is misbehaving with everyone.

her reaction shouldn’t come up like this n committing suicide.... no ways!!! The family gave you new life when she was abandoned by her real parents(at least she should think this)

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Posted: 6 years ago
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No you are mistaken. See Pooja's reaction is natural and violent its because the news of her adoption was on newspaper. It was publicly declared. If YK had told her through sweet talk about her adoption she would have been emotional but mature at the same time and would have accepted it. But the truth came infront of her in an extremely ugly manner and that is the reason why she became uncontrollable !! When you dont expect something very ugly in a happy go lucky day and suddenly a very ugly truth comes front of you it will you shatter you from inside thats what happened with Pooja.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Colors2012

She’s so sorted and mature for age. She’s my favorite character, Can’t see this behavior... Pooja should be thankful to the entire family for the great upbringing n lavish lifestyle. she’s an apple of everyone’s eye. Instead she is misbehaving with everyone.

her reaction shouldn’t come up like this n committing suicide.... no ways!!! The family gave you new life when she was abandoned by her real parents(at least she should think this)

Sometimes the way it is shared makes a difference, had they slowly told her then she would have accepted subtly and slowly at her own speed. But here it came out of nowhere on a public platform, something she had been believing all her life is now all a lie. It’s not about whether they love her or what they have done for her it’s more about the question on her identity. She will understand and appreciate but the way it has come out to her is not right, and her reaction is normal, even the most sane matured individual would have felt cheated and embarrassed. Literally like her world came crashing down.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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A girl standing in the middle of road and found her adoption news in a newspaper,her identity for soany years vanished will handle things maturely? Is she a robot or parvati devi? Her reaction is absolutely justified. They way She's behaving with YK also, definitely she is thinking they've done an ehsan on her. It's very obvious, anyone except TV bahus would've done this in her place

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Posted: 6 years ago
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For more than 20 years, Pooja has lived as Pooja Sippy, daughter of Nishi Sippy and Yash Kapoor. Now she gets to know the person whom she believed brought her into this world and gave her an identity are not her parents in the first place. Then who is she? Before she got to know about it herself the whole world got to read about it. It's a person's identity that is being questioned and this is no small thing. Suicide is never a solution but can u imagine the frame of mind she must be in? Every time ur stuck in a situation the first person u think of is going to ur mom or dad for answers. Now who will she go to? Just think of it from her shoes also. This is the same girl who stood strong when she suffered a wardrobe malfunction. That is because she knew is a Sippy, she was Pooja Sippy whose family had her back. Now who is she? Yes for YK, Nishi and the whole Sippy family nothing has changed because they knew this from the beginning but for Pooja? How will she accept nothing has changed?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

For more than 20 years, Pooja has lived as Pooja Sippy, daughter of Nishi Sippy and Yash Kapoor. Now she gets to know the person whom she believed brought her into this world and gave her an identity are not her parents in the first place. Then who is she? Before she got to know about it herself the whole world got to read about it. It's a person's identity that is being questioned and this is no small thing. Suicide is never a solution but can u imagine the frame of mind she must be in? Every time ur stuck in a situation the first person u think of is going to ur mom or dad for answers. Now who will she go to? Just think of it from her shoes also. This is the same girl who stood strong when she suffered a wardrobe malfunction. That is because she knew is a Sippy, she was Pooja Sippy whose family had her back. Now who is she? Yes for YK, Nishi and the whole Sippy family nothing has changed because they knew this from the beginning but for Pooja? How will she accept nothing has changed?

Bang on!

We tend to look for our parents when in problem and here for her there is a void there. She is lost. Suicide is no solution but she is too broken to think beyond life.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Such situation happens my dearie. I mean though we look from outside and decide like she shouldn’t have done that, its not that simple. None of us would get it in the same way an actually depressed person feels it. But all this impulsiveness, sudden reactions, change of behaviours do happen, may be in a second or may be overnight or may be throughout the years. People tend to do crazy stuff when they are outta mind, that is depicted here. Given that pooja faced a total shocker rather than a gradual realization,i think this is how a character would react to such situation. I am not telling it is a good message to the society but still it raises awareness and it shows the nature of all humans. Just my thought🤗

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishra_bestluv

Bang on!

We tend to look for our parents when in problem and here for her there is a void there. She is lost. Suicide is no solution but she is too broken to think beyond life.

True yaar! Its harsh to judge Pooja and I am sure once she recovers her family will give her all the support she needs.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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True yaar! Its harsh to judge Pooja and I am sure once she recovers her family will give her all the support she needs.

It’s like no one would ever know until you are in her shoes to realise how it actually feels, her world came crashing in minutes 💔

It’s easier said than done, it’s unfair to judge her actions.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishra_bestluv

It’s like no one would ever know until you are in her shoes to realise how it actually feels, her world came crashing in minutes 💔

It’s easier said than done, it’s unfair to judge her actions.

I used to be very harshly judgemental about suicide but after i slipped into depression myself a couple of years ago, I know its not easy to deal with certain scenarios in life. For an outsider it will be like ooh, why did they do this, why did they take this drastic step blah blah but human mind is very fragile.

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