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Posted: 6 years ago

To help a depression patient, you first have to acknowledge that they actually have a problem. By telling them that it's in their own hands and they can just think the problem away will leave them feeling like a weakminded loser and make the situation worse.

Acknowledge. Then accept that you cannot firsthand understand but you are there to listen and you are there for them whenever they need a shoulder. If they share ( which is tough for a depressed person ), accept the intensity of his/her feelings and if that seem bad then convince them to get medical help.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Krishnpriya

Hello everyone 🙋

I wonder if I would still fit in here or not !😒

It's been looooooooooongggggg !

IF had some evolution I guess.smiley24

A lot of things have changed.

Madhuri Didi,are you still here ?

A warm welcome back to Krishnpriya ..🤗🤗

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: vyapti

Suta thank you. I actually draw very rarely.

And currently I am busy with duties of my old job and new job universes. I am very lazy you know.

Ok when ever you get some free time ...do remember there are people waiting here... keen to see your creativity

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: stormborn

To help a depression patient, you first have to acknowledge that they actually have a problem. By telling them that it's in their own hands and they can just think the problem away will leave them feeling like a weakminded loser and make the situation worse.

Agree with your words Storm.🤗I just wanted to say that , there is a solution to every problem on earth. If you can't find the solution on your own or solace for yourself, then is it not better to leave it to time to solve itself in its flow? To help a depression patient, it needs a correspondence between a psychological state and a physical event! We all know what it’s like to worry. Scary thoughts creep into our mind and we just can’t seem to shake them off. What if I lose my job? What if my marriage falls apart? What if I can’t pay off my debt? What if I die in the next moment? Some are illusory, some are real, depends on the situation of a person, but worrying is quite natural to each one, the level of worry decides your state of mind, and suggests the path of treatment.

To treat a depressed person, first we have to boost confidence in them, then only we can infuse some logical thinking into their minds, to take them away from their concerns and confusions.

It seems you are an expert in psychology, I always love to read your opinions on highly debatable points such as this.❤️

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Posted: 6 years ago

I may not have the same knowledge as you all. But I feel that worrying may be a part of clinical depression at least it was in my case. Again I am not a psychiatrist. But this is what I felt through introspection. And hormonal imbalance is not the right term to use I think. All neurotransmitters are not hormones. And why this duality between physical and mental aspect.

Our mind and body are inseperable. How much do we know our mind? We may feel like we are not worrying but that worry may be there somewhere deep within.

Positive thinking helps. But then again at that moment positivity felt like a mirage even bitter. But now I know how much positivity helps. I have learnt to accept positivity. Not because the world is positive but because positivity is my weapon to survive in this world.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: vyapti

I may not have the same knowledge as you all. But I feel that worrying may be a part of clinical depression at least it was in my case. Again I am not a psychiatrist. But this is what I felt through introspection. And hormonal imbalance is not the right term to use I think. All neurotransmitters are not hormones. And why this duality between physical and mental aspect.

Our mind and body are inseperable. How much do we know our mind? We may feel like we are not worrying but that worry may be there somewhere deep within.

Positive thinking helps. But then again at that moment positivity felt like a mirage even bitter. But now I know how much positivity helps. I have learnt to accept positivity. Not because the world is positive but because positivity is my weapon to survive in this world.

Bold, Ahh... this is the spirit Vyapti. How beautifully you described the state of mind of a worried person! Mind and body are inseparable, that is why it impacts the other in such a way. Now , really you talked like a psychiatrist and suggested remedies.🤗
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Krishnpriya

Hello everyone 🙋

I wonder if I would still fit in here or not !😒


It's been looooooooooongggggg !

IF had some evolution I guess.smiley24

A lot of things have changed.

Madhuri Didi,are you still here ?




There is no criteria here lady to fit or not fir. Feel free to drop in when you want to. Doors and windows are always open.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Madhuri you know when this thought struck my mind?

I was watching a serial Bhootu. There was a daialogue like this "Jab bhi tumhara dukh tum par habi hone lage, tumhari parishani nakami pahad ban samne khadi ho jaye tab ekbar ekbar ankh uthakar unke taraf zaroor dekh lena jinke jivan se wo sab kho gaya jo aaj tumhare paas hai. Dukhi rehne ki hazar wajah dhudne se pehle khush rehne ki wo ek wajah samajhna bohot zaroori hai."

A very common dialogue. Earlier whenever I heard the first part I used to feel bitter. How can I be happy by someone else's sorrow? But that day meri dimak ki batti jali.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: vyapti

I may not have the same knowledge as you all. But I feel that worrying may be a part of clinical depression at least it was in my case. Again I am not a psychiatrist. But this is what I felt through introspection. And hormonal imbalance is not the right term to use I think. All neurotransmitters are not hormones. And why this duality between physical and mental aspect.

Our mind and body are inseperable. How much do we know our mind? We may feel like we are not worrying but that worry may be there somewhere deep within.

Positive thinking helps. But then again at that moment positivity felt like a mirage even bitter. But now I know how much positivity helps. I have learnt to accept positivity. Not because the world is positive but because positivity is my weapon to survive in this world.

BOLD -- this is the essence i feel!! Great reading this from you Vyapti

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: vyapti

Madhuri you know when this thought struck my mind?

I was watching a serial Bhootu. There was a daialogue like this "Jab bhi tumhara dukh tum par habi hone lage, tumhari parishani nakami pahad ban samne khadi ho jaye tab ekbar ekbar ankh uthakar unke taraf zaroor dekh lena jinke jivan se wo sab kho gaya jo aaj tumhare paas hai. Dukhi rehne ki hazar wajah dhudne se pehle khush rehne ki wo ek wajah samajhna bohot zaroori hai."

A very common dialogue. Earlier whenever I heard the first part I used to feel bitter. How can I be happy by someone else's sorrow? But that day meri dimak ki batti jali.

same saying as always look down when you are at the pinnacle of success and you will feel blessed. Looking up is good but not with arrogance and pride (incorrect sense) here. That will doom your fall one day. Keep looking down on and off and you will tell yourself that i have so much that some dont have and I am indeed blessed. i feel "not worrying, having food everyday to eat, clothes to wear, a nice roof to live in" - is all we need man ... rest all is extra and if we have we are blessed!! Just my perception. I am not a very ambitious person, i never want to own things. I just want to be happy and keep my 3 family members happy! If someone asks me G, what is your goal in life, this would be my answer.

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