Kuch Na Kaho - Aa Jao Saarey - Update Page 1 - Page 67

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I know. Gur aaja. 🤗

Show ke liye load na le yar.

Dekh AD ne bola tha dhaain entry karega, he will. HS ends and something new awaits for him!

Dekh meri billi tere bandar ko miss kar rahi hai

Originally posted by: Manasi_D

Shit, I'm so sorry you had to go through all that! IIT admissions are a complete mess when it comes to the students' mental health. It's just a constant bombarding of Agar nahi kar sake toh life me kuch nahi ban paoge. Which is absolute BS.

It's not even that. It was the money that made me feel guilty. The fees was huge and I couldn't take it that I had learnt almost nothing in these 2 years, was not ready to face the exam. And I was literally failing in all preparatory exams.

Kuch nahi kar paayenge ki story is toh obviously there and totally valid. I had filled B.Sc ke forms (which was very insulting btw) as back up cause I knew I was doomed badly.

But it was the guilt that was eating me alive and hence I couldn't share my situation with anybody.

Crime drama mein Dev S1 (Colors) is a MUST WATCH.

It's so so so amazing. I can't describe. Unbelievably superb.

Originally posted by: Mannmohanaa

No yaa! Big loss I know. I should've watched it. But submissions kept me busy that entire month and I couldn't watch it. Waiting for it to come on TV.

Yeah. Watch it when you can. Touches upon a side of entrance exams so nicely.

Originally posted by: Mannmohanaa

Parents need to talk to their kids without pressuring them. And it's better to wake up before rather than realizing it after result and then falling into another loop of drops and what not.

I'm not an engineering student. From what I see, instead of fearing JEE as a life or death exam, they should look up for career counseling. 10 lakh or so students appear for JEE, only few thousands make it to IIT and NIT. Rest of the people are not failures. . Majority will never make it to IIT. Life doesn't end if one doesn't go to IIT. So if someone gets into IIT, they're exceptional, those who don't are Normal people, not failures.

Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

I'm not an engineering student. From what I see, instead of fearing JEE as a life or death exam, they should look up for career counseling. 10 lakh or so students appear for JEE, only few thousands make it to IIT and NIT. Rest of the people are not failures. . Majority will never make it to IIT. Life doesn't end if one doesn't go to IIT. So if someone gets into IIT, they're exceptional, those who don't are Normal people, not failures.

Exactly. But I'll tell you what happens.

The coaching classes, just for money making, convince you that you can crack JEE if you're smart and hardworking. Like I was a topper of my 10th board exam so the high spirited me felt that I can do this. Then goes 1 year into the prep. And also, 12th board prep is going on somewhere in the background.

After 1.5 years, you realise that JEE nahi ho paayega. Then what option do you have? 12th board you haven't studied so you can't get good admissions in normal science. JEE ki halat itni buri hai that you can't even get admission in a decent engineering college, forget IIT.

Lol you know, I didn't even qualify for JEE Advanced which is the exam for admission in IIT. I flunked in Mains itself.

You're left with no option but to take a drop and reappear everything again, which is again such a big hit on confidence, time and money.

But thankfully for me, the State exam for Private engineering colleges saved my skin. I scored average in that and I got admission in a great college.

Originally posted by: Mannmohanaa

It's not even that. It was the money that made me feel guilty. The fees was huge and I couldn't take it that I had learnt almost nothing in these 2 years, was not ready to face the exam. And I was literally failing in all preparatory exams.

Kuch nahi kar paayenge ki story is toh obviously there and totally valid. I had filled B.Sc ke forms (which was very insulting btw) as back up cause I knew I was doomed badly.

But it was the guilt that was eating me alive and hence I couldn't share my situation with anybody.

Same thing happened with me during my CA Intermediate. I was so sure I wasn't gonna clear. I was doing BAF degree along with it, and on it's own, BAF is pretty much the same as BCom. So, I was worried like anything that I wouldn't clear CA Inter, and my parents' money for all the coaching would be wasted.

Thankfully I cleared jaise taise. Wouldn't wish those sleepless nights on anyone. 😒

Originally posted by: Mannmohanaa

It's not even that. It was the money that made me feel guilty. The fees was huge and I couldn't take it that I had learnt almost nothing in these 2 years, was not ready to face the exam. And I was literally failing in all preparatory exams.

Kuch nahi kar paayenge ki story is toh obviously there and totally valid. I had filled B.Sc ke forms (which was very insulting btw) as back up cause I knew I was doomed badly.

But it was the guilt that was eating me alive and hence I couldn't share my situation with anybody.

And my story is bit different. I have always been more interested in literature. But my grades used to be good, I hated maths , and I had no idea about other fields so I ended up in MBBS. As the years passed in MBBS, I realized this isn't what I want to do. Now I'm at the end of the tunnel, so I'm going to complete it anyway. If only I had appeared for career counseling, I would have chosen something different.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Yeah. Watch it when you can. Touches upon a side of entrance exams so nicely.

I've heard that.

I dunno but a film needs to be made solely on the coaching frauds that happen for JEE. How they manipulate you, and there are no back ups. And you feel cornered by everything.

Originally posted by: Manasi_D

Same thing happened with me during my CA Intermediate. I was so sure I wasn't gonna clear. I was doing BAF degree along with it, and on it's own, BAF is pretty much the same as BCom. So, I was worried like anything that I wouldn't clear CA Inter, and my parents' money for all the coaching would be wasted.

Thankfully I cleared jaise taise. Wouldn't wish those sleepless nights on anyone. 😒

It happens with everybody cause :

1. Failing is never an option

2. You can't talk to your parents about it

3. There are no back ups.