Kahaan Hum Kahaan Tum 100th Episode Special Discussion Thread - Page 16

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

I am not saying Raima is not wrong in any way. She should have agreed to go back but if ur friend tells u without u this marriage is not happening wont u feel obliged to stay back? Yes she too should be clear and tell Rohit upfront but please don't tell me Rohit has not taken her for granted. She was his ex girlfriend. A woman he once wanted to marry. I will not blame Sona here coz she is sensitive enough to understand if anything is offending Raima but sorry to say Rohit is not so. When everybody here has put their points forward saying y Raima is at fault, I too expressed my opinion on how others around her are also at fault. I did not realise I am making a criminal offense by pointing it out but seems like everyone feels that way over here. So I guess one should only participate in the forum if you are pro the lead couple but if u have anything to say that is not in their favour, you become the bad guy. And you should probably be banned from saying anything. Thanks for pointing that out. Point noted duly!

Why are you taking this personally..you put across your views and i disagreed about it...that does not mean i disrespect you..

And do read the earlier pages ..i have pointed out the exact same thing about rohit..his insensitivity towards her..as i said rohit definitely is at fault but raima too is for letting herself in this situation...

Am not pro anyone..what is wrong is wrong even if it involves rohit sona ..i will call it out irrespective of my fondness towards them...what rohit did at the sangeet with raima was uncalled for..i completely agree

Originally posted by: sun29

Why are you taking this personally..you put across your views and i disagreed about it...that does not mean i disrespect you..

And do read the earlier pages ..i have pointed out the exact same thing about rohit..his insensitivity towards her..as i said rohit definitely is at fault but raima too is for letting herself in this situation...

Am not pro anyone..what is wrong is wrong even if it involves rohit sona ..i will call it out irrespective of my fondness towards them...what rohit did at the sangeet with raima was uncalled for..i completely agree

Sorry I guess it came out in the wrong manner. Its just everywhere I have been I have seen a common pattern. I am not supporting Raima entirely either but when most of the members gang up on a character (again not u, this is more general), I know I will be in minority but I don't hesitate stating my opinions. Even I too have said in many posts that Raima should have some self respect and move out of their lives coz being in her shoes, though I would have stepped back realizing the man I loved did not reciprocate to my feelings, I wouldn't stick around either. Its not realistic that anybody makes peace with it so quickly. Maybe over a year or two, when life gives u another chance at love, you can bring yourself to happily participate in your exes events like Raima is doing now. Everybody put their points forward on how Raima was wrong in deciding to stay back etc etc. I agree with them and as such didn see a point in reiterating them. But I also wanted to point out where other characters were wrong. I donno if I made a mistake doing so. But again sorry dear. I lashed out at u without fully understanding ur point.

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

I am not saying Raima is not wrong in any way. She should have agreed to go back but if ur friend tells u without u this marriage is not happening wont u feel obliged to stay back? Yes she too should be clear and tell Rohit upfront but please don't tell me Rohit has not taken her for granted. She was his ex girlfriend. A woman he once wanted to marry. I will not blame Sona here coz she is sensitive enough to understand if anything is offending Raima but sorry to say Rohit is not so. When everybody here has put their points forward saying y Raima is at fault, I too expressed my opinion on how others around her are also at fault. I did not realise I am making a criminal offense by pointing it out but seems like everyone feels that way over here. So I guess one should only participate in the forum if you are pro the lead couple but if u have anything to say that is not in their favour, you become the bad guy. And you should probably be banned from saying anything. Thanks for pointing that out. Point noted duly!

I'd say Rohit does take Raima for granted - and that can be attributed to his emotion radar being dysfunctional. 😆 Like this guy couldn't read his own feelings after falling in love with Sona that he gave her all different names (special friend, best friend, different friend, etc. 🤣), he couldn't read Sona's feelings after she'd fallen for him so I don't think I can expect him to understand that he's hurting Raima by behaving like this with her.

As to Raima, while she big-heartedly stepped back, and she's happy for Rohit's happiness, in some corner of her heart she does miss him - and it's only natural. She isn't standing up for herself because that will mean pushing herself away from him and she doesn't seem to want that. Were it not for YK's mom, Raima would be happy in her world with her bittersweet memories and eventually move on, but the lady is not letting her do that.

So eventually, either Sona will end up telling Rohit to mend his behaviour with regards to Raima, or Raima will succumb to the bitterness (I hope, not).

With regards to stating your opinion about anyone apart from the leads, that's what forums are for - everyone can state their opinions and they're bound to vary. If they were the same, there'd be no discussion! So no, you're not the bad guy, Mandy and neither are you banned. :)

Originally posted by: -Sarcy-

I'd say Rohit does take Raima for granted - and that can be attributed to his emotion radar being dysfunctional. 😆 Like this guy couldn't read his own feelings after falling in love with Sona that he gave her all different names (special friend, best friend, different friend, etc. 🤣), he couldn't read Sona's feelings after she'd fallen for him so I don't think I can expect him to understand that he's hurting Raima by behaving like this with her. I have also emphasized on this dear. Rohit as a character is insensitive (not a bad thing per say) and eventually ends up hurting people around him. Everyone around him realized Sona loves him but this guy!

As to Raima, while she big-heartedly stepped back, and she's happy for Rohit's happiness, in some corner of her heart she does miss him - and it's only natural. She isn't standing up for herself because that will mean pushing herself away from him and she doesn't seem to want that. Were it not for YK's mom, Raima would be happy in her world with her bittersweet memories and eventually move on, but the lady is not letting her do that. Yes and that's what I tried to point out too. Raima was vulnerable, both emotionally and physically and not like she did not try to resist. She tried but Siyappa was successful in getting to her.

So eventually, either Sona will end up telling Rohit to mend his behaviour with regards to Raima, or Raima will succumb to the bitterness (I hope, not). I hope Sona addresses this and only she can knock some sense into Rohit's head. Y should every character turn dark?

With regards to stating your opinion about anyone apart from the leads, that's what forums are for - everyone can state their opinions and they're bound to vary. If they were the same, there'd be no discussion! So no, you're not the bad guy, Mandy and neither are you banned. :) 🤣Sorry yaar, I lashed out 😆 That was me being a prickly little hedgehog I guess 🤣 Sometimes I cannot argue with the members also dear. Because in majority of the shows we have seen the third angle turn negative and do all horrible things. And that is why everyone anticipates for the worst. Every forum I see the third angle bashed so badly. Even in my previous forum, BP the lead character Zoya gets engaged to a guy chosen by her father Arshad and also she takes this decision coz she was angry with the hero Adi. Arshad was just a decent guy who agreed to marry a girl chosen by his family and he liked her. A typical arranged marriage setup but in the end when he sees Zoya hesitate to say QH he realises she loves only Adi and steps back like a gentleman. But man the bashing this guy got - he should see the love Zoya has for for Adi and go away and what not. What love should he see? Bechara knows nothing about their history together and Zoya constantly tells him that is not the case and she is marrying out of her own will. But no, he should develop a 6th sense of his own to deduce what audience knows and act accordingly 🤣 The list doesn't here. There are tons of such shows where the show introduced a decent third angle but they were bashed mercilessly. Going by what we are seeing there is a strong possibility of Raima becoming a vamp. We got hints already. So my comments are only based on my assessment of the situation till now. When Raima becomes negative I will state my opinion on that too. I believe in crossing the bridge when we get there and that's what I am doing.

My comments in blue 😊

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

Sorry I guess it came out in the wrong manner. Its just everywhere I have been I have seen a common pattern. I am not supporting Raima entirely either but when most of the members gang up on a character (again not u, this is more general), I know I will be in minority but I don't hesitate stating my opinions. Even I too have said in many posts that Raima should have some self respect and move out of their lives coz being in her shoes, though I would have stepped back realizing the man I loved did not reciprocate to my feelings, I wouldn't stick around either. Its not realistic that anybody makes peace with it so quickly. Maybe over a year or two, when life gives u another chance at love, you can bring yourself to happily participate in your exes events like Raima is doing now. Everybody put their points forward on how Raima was wrong in deciding to stay back etc etc. I agree with them and as such didn see a point in reiterating them. But I also wanted to point out where other characters were wrong. I donno if I made a mistake doing so. But again sorry dear. I lashed out at u without fully understanding ur point.

Please do not apologize..i think it was just misinterpretation of what we both wanted to put across

The truth being the writers are solely responsible for this..given how raima was part of the story from day one...they should have put more effort in this track instead of rushing into marriage..it was so unreal ..her being okay with rohit moving on and now being friends within days of coming out of a coma...had they put effort to deal with her feelings for atleast a couple of weeks this track would have come out much better...and just to have the character around they are resorting to more ridiculous scenarios

Rohit does take raima for granted ..it is true and raima still has feelings for him which is natural..will he ever realize his insensitivity is for the writers to decide ,which hopefully they do address before wedding

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

Rohit also shouldn't have taken Raima for granted yaar. I mean teekh hai she is now your friend but she was the girl you loved. Just because you fought with Sona you can't fall back on Raima. Raima should just go back to Chandigarh.

But she should also have brains and realise she has no rights over Rohit now or Sonakshi will be his priority because they are in love and she is his fiancee. And not be agreed to be treated like a second class citizen, she is supposed to say stuff like how it is, Rohit always called her brave and stuff, then she should not keep mum now. Tell Rohit off!

Originally posted by: sun29

Please do not apologize..i think it was just misinterpretation of what we both wanted to put across

The truth being the writers are solely responsible for this..given how raima was part of the story from day one...they should have put more effort in this track instead of rushing into marriage..it was so unreal ..her being okay with rohit moving on and now being friends within days of coming out of a coma...had they put effort to deal with her feelings for atleast a couple of weeks this track would have come out much better...and just to have the character around they are resorting to more ridiculous scenarios

Rohit does take raima for granted ..it is true and raima still has feelings for him which is natural..will he ever realize his insensitivity is for the writers to decide ,which hopefully they do address before wedding

@bold - thanks for understanding dear! But regardless I was rude, so I had to say sorry 😊

Yes writers are responsible for this mess and how a character is perceived is entirely in the writer's hand and I can say this since I am one by hobby too. Not only was it unnatural for Raima to move on so quickly, it is weird she is staying in Sippy mansion. What some of the members pointed was right - by what right is she staying there? Even Raima said yes for whatever reasons how could Tanushree allow that? She did not allow Rohit to even see Raima once in the last 4 years. Even if she now knows what happened four years ago and maybe she doesn't entirely blame Rohit as it was circumstantial how is she entertaining his whims? Ok on the first day when Raima went to Sippy mansion and Rohit shut her up saying she can do what the hell she wants and he doesn't care, I understand. Taking Raima away would have been stupidity especially since her health was deteriorating and Rohit was having the best medical care given to her under his roof. But after that she could have taken Raima back? How can a wedding home be a good place for her daughter to recuperate? She had breathing problems and she was jumping around with an oxygen cylinder 😵 And for 4 years she never left Raima's side but y is she now leaving her all alone especially when Raima needs her now more than ever? Before she was in coma and there was nothing Tanushree could do other than hope and pray her daughter recovers. But now she is out of coma, how come she is not taking a keen interest in seeing her daughter regains her health fully and heals emotionally and physically? Agreed she had accepted that in 4 years a lot has changed and she even accepts Rohit moved on but for her daughter those 4 years never existed. So Tanushree has to spend time with her to ensure Raima can deal with this situation. And how come her father is not around? Isn't he eager to see his daughter up and running after seeing her lying like a vegetable for 4 years? And how far is Chandigarh from Mumbai? It will barely be half a day's effort for him to come meet his daughter.

And most importantly she is seeing how Sulochana is being a bad influence on her daughter. When Siyappa was speaking her rubbish Tanushree did not appear taken in. Infact she rolled her yes like WTH is it. As a mother she should intervene too and put a stop to this nonsense coz all this negativity will hamper Raima's recovery. Raima has just now regained some of her health but how can she risk it by letting her relapse? This is just inconsistency in storytelling bas. Warna from no angle is anything logical.

Originally posted by: -Sarcy-

Imagine if Pari was Sulochna's daughter... 🤣

Arrey wah sahi hai 🤣 I would say purrfecttttttt in MD style 😉

Originally posted by: girl94

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