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Posted: 6 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav


You are free to disagree with me or in fact everyone, but the fact is, Naveen Babu is as forgettable as some Ronit in KZK2.0 and as I said, if and when there will be any kzk3.0, people will still look forward to see who plays Bajaj and Komo, and give two hoots about Naveen, because to get audience gripped to the character, one needs to play a multi dimensional character like the ones I mentioned, not the creepy and pervert Naveen Babu types, with whom the only question audience will have in mind is whether he will end up as a rapist or not (as that's the next level of his already repulsive actions). And no one waits to see that kind of character ever. Audience is repulsed from such character, not attracted. There's a reason why Gabbar and Mogambo are celebrated till eternity, and not Ashutosh Rana from Dushman.

Unfortunately there are people here who want to see Naveen and found him a better villain than a Bajaj (who is not a villain but that’s how they see it). It’s actually disheartening that they wanted a pervert like Naveen back whom, like you said could potentially be a rapist with the way he objectified women. It was disgusting but...!

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Posted: 6 years ago
#92

Originally posted by: MishtyShona

Prerna will never ever learn. Because she is blinded by her toxic love for Anurag. She cannot see anything beyond it. Not even her parents insults hurt and sufferings. She will sacrifice her parents in order to be in the good books of Mohini just so that she is accepted into BB. This way she can stay close to Anurag. She was more interested in saving her relationship with Anurag than worry about her mother being in jail. She is a pathetic portrayal of 21 century women!

Prerna has Zero self-respect and self worth. Her only identity is that she is Anurag's lover/mistress and mother to their illegitimate child. The only inspiration she is capable of giving to people is how to be Sassy without having any real substance i.e., zero self respect and self worth. Empty vessels make more noise, she is like that, she take a high moral ground when she has no morales herself and is all big talk and no real action.

In fact she is a college dropout with no dreams or aspirations other than serving the members of BB. Prerna's real status in Basu Bari is that of a Glorified Maid or Glorified Governess and she takes up this position with pride. Intact, it is a job that she has taken it upon herself just to be relevant in BB and find an excuse to live there. Otherwise BB has loads of paid maids. Her own mother and granny are old and may require her help and care is of no concern to her. Her old mother is working to make ends meet, bit she being an educated women cannot be bothered to work and earn for her mother. For her, it is more important and prestigious to work as a Governess at BB and day dreaming about Anurag 24*7 than financially help her mum and granny! She neglects her own family members to care of people who don't really care 2 hoots for her and barely tolerate her due to their son.

I cannot digest the fact that she called herself Anurag's wife! It shows that she never paid attention in school and college, else she would know some basic things.

Dhaaga marriage broken by Anu himself. Putting Sindoor in front on an idol does not make u married. Had that been the case, all actresses would have had multiple marriages with all the actors they have enacted marriage sequences with. I was hoping she would have this much basic common sense that Sindoor marriage has no validity whatsoever. Haan, Dil behelane ke liye and one night strand ke liye theek hai yeh reason. Bus!

However, even after knowing that Sonalika is Anurag's wife now she claims she is his wife as well. It is a fact that Komolika is indeed the legally wedded wife and Prerna does not know that Sona's marriage is a sham or that Sona is Komo. So, Prerna basically does not care or respect another women's marriage too. All she cares is about her relationship with Anurag. What if Sona was a real and genuine person! She would still try to break that women's marriage for her own selfish needs! So, Prerna is doing what she accused Komolika of doing to her, trying to snatch another women's husband. In fact, I don't think she really cares about others feelings. If I remember correctly, Anurag and Prerna had a one night strand while Anurag was still engaged to Mishka!

And the worst part is despite being shown the door, she will justify the actions of BB people and later try to claim her non existent Haq on Anurag. The truth is by all accounts Sona is the legally wedded wife while Prerna is just Anu's lover-cum-mistress. I am using the term mistress or the other women for Prerna coz that is what the society will deem her to be since Anurag is married. The samajh has already seen her raasleela with Anurag when she was married to Bajaj. So to the society, she is someone with loose morales, zero self respect and zero self worth.

A women this blind and shallow will never learn. I hope the makers stop portraying 21 century women like this. It is a joke and an insult. What kind of message are the makers trying to convey? I so so so wish Prerna's trials and tribulations now result in her waking up from the slumber, get her head out of the clouds and she has a self realization of some sorts and finally grows a spine.

I apologize for hurting anyone's sentiments. While I do agree some of the words I used for Pre leave a bad taste, but that is what she is portrayed in the show!! The worst part is she has brought the treatment she is subjected to, to herself and will still justify her so called Kaka Babu and Kaki ma no matter what. I doubt she will ever learn or grow a spine!


Best post of the day I have read today. 👍🏼 The bit about not giving two hoots about the feelings of others is so so right and I have said the same quite a few times here already. This girl doesnt know anything about marriage, does not care for it, does not regard it, I dont understand why she wants to get or stay married to Anurag anyways. Agar mann mein 'married hai' maan lene se married hai, tou itna taam jhaam kiun har 3 mahine mei. 🤪


I am waiting for the track or day when she realizes what she has become or what she always has been. And tries to upgrade herself.

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Posted: 6 years ago
#93

Originally posted by: Reemz11

Well Mohini and even Moloy asked her to leave today. First Prerna refused to till the doctor said Anurag’s life is in danger so she’s decided to leave. Basically she can take the stress on her and her baby as long as Anurag is ok. Fine she loves Anurag more than herself but the baby? Does that not get any priority? Obviously not.

can you believe it? Both parents of basu asked her to leave and she still refuses to go. I know in the REAL world when someone throws a person out their house that person feels shame and disgraced. What does prerna feel exactly? Her feelings, existence is based on basu only and without basu is she an empty vessel? It looks that way. Mohini can shout at the top of her lungs for prerna to leave and she would still stand in the door. Sad! I'm more concerned for the baby. Prerna fell twice on her stomach and haven't eaten a proper meal. She is always crying and stressed out. I'm surprised the baby is still there and there is no miscarriage. Any normal person would say "I got a baby inside of me to take care of and look after" but again basu comes first before her mom, family and child.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I am confused after reading the replies here... Is Prerna's lack of self respect the problem or her putting Basu above everything else?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

I am confused after reading the replies here... Is Prerna's lack of self respect the problem or her putting Basu above everything else?

unfortunately the two are interrelated because it's for that reason she lacks self respect which is why both are discussed.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#96

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

I am confused after reading the replies here... Is Prerna's lack of self respect the problem or her putting Basu above everything else?

Seems like Basu's are the issue, if it's were self respect, then mr.bajaj will be out of the picture😆

Edited by ifmember - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#97

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

I am confused after reading the replies here... Is Prerna's lack of self respect the problem or her putting Basu above everything else?

Everything problem actually ....😆

Every and anything that can help to lay a ground to make Basu’s look Bad and gives reasons to make Bajaj look Superior ....

but ofcourse with tunnel vision 😉......

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: ifmember

Seems like Basu's are the issue, if it's were self respect, then mr.bajaj will be out of the picture😆

Exactly ifm Basus and Prerna have been like this and no-one denies that Mohini hates Prerna from the first episode itself. But how does that mean Anurag and Prerna don't deserve their share of happiness which lies in each other. I don't think it's so difficult to see that for Prerna Anurag is above everything.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I tried to avoid this post, but just couldn't with the moral compassing done here. What's with always dragging Pre to behavioral school? I won't even go into how literally everyone else around her has failed her and used her to their convenience. Anurag not apologising for what he thought of her and not being smart enough to connect the dots and find her reasons for betraying him. Her own mom and sister for cursing her despite knowing her nature. And I know for a fact that no matter whoever she is with, she will have to keep going through humiliations ("creativity" in ITV), so I think one should not jump the gun and be smug that certain other people would respect her much more. I didn't see Bajaj giving hell to his Maasi when she put Pre's mother in jail for attempted murder. I didn't even understand his stupid clause of you can share about everything with me, except Anurag.🤦🏽‍♀️ You're free, but please stay in my cage!


Pre ko ye karna chahiye wo karna chahiye. Blergh!


You are right, she does not at all care about her self-respect and most of us cannot really imagine any real woman doing what she does. She seems like a pushover victim of blackmailing by all and sundry.


But, it is what she is. She has been sacrificial right from the first episode, when she surrenders herself to a shady stranger for the sake of her loved ones - earlier it was for her parents and family, later it was for her love Anurag. That is her core inherent nature, she can go to any lengths to protect her loved ones even if it means to decimate herself. And she's determined. And she will keep doing this, is what I have accepted.


I am irritated by this trait of hers, but I cannot hate or preach her. I don't want to shake her by her shoulders and forcibly make her realize her self-worth. I want to maybe just hug her, and let her know she's loved too and free to do her own thing as and when she wants. And the fact that, even as such an impractical character, she evokes this emotion in me proves what a great actress Erica is! 👏👏

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Posted: 6 years ago

I can totally deny it! The so-called respect from all the Bajaj family was fake! Maasi & Taanvi were so fake in their pretend love for Prerna. They were scheming to get rid of her ever since they met her.

Bajaj had zero respect for Prerna, as an individual or as a woman. He completely disregarded any of her feelings, desires and self-respect and the fact that she was pregnant! He pretty much bulldozed her in a marriage of convenience with him! He wanted what was best for him. No respect for her at all!.

Prerna gets humiliated by the Basus. But she was even more badly treated by the Bajajs.

Stop pulling wool over your eyes! See Bajaj for what he was! Glad he is gone!

Originally posted by: Reemz11

Maybe you missed what I said? I said fine, ITS HER CHOICE - I’m not saying she had to stay with Bajaj! And maybe you missed the episodes where Prerna had no problem with what Bajaj did? This topic is in reference to how much Prerna gets humiliated by the Basus. Did Bajaj or even Masi humiliate her? That’s what the topic is about. You can’t deny that she got far more respect from the Bajaj family than the Basus.

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