Ravan dahan and Kartik gussa on Kairav - Page 2

Why makers so this type of tracks it's so horrible it's a show but it gives so much anxiety

When kartik gussa on kairav is justify every parents reacts like this esp. father but it doesn't means child go to this extreme ya bacho ka gussa hona ya tear phots in anger is some way also acceptable but only for few min and second becoz baache maan mein zyada time bhat nahi rakhte they forget easily and realise that is for their welfare so shoeing like this or make huge mass it's not justify it's happens mostly in life but it's doesn't means child react like that for long

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

My only daughter who is a five year old goes to a corner,stops interaction for some time when we both seriously argue on something.She thinks that her Mama and Papa are really having trouble. It takes quite an effort from both of us to let her believe that we didn’t mean that..It is natural for them to think so.I understand Kairav who listened to Naksh’s words blaming Kartik. Kids are not mature enough to judge situations and persons.

But dear how long? few Hours, a day or week?? Holding grudges with father for days ? Kids say papa ap bure ho and they just forget and come n hug and say i love you papa , in matter of time . And he dint do anything when they were actually fighting at Goenka’s but all of a sudden out of nowhere he has started hating his father just by listening two three discussions from behind.

Muje pain hoga par koi bat nahi? Only a seriously disturbed child will think like that and i am relieved mine is just 2.5 , she cant understand these dialogs. Imagine what will kids learn from this? They don’t understand right or wrong or the after effects. But these dialogs , they will get it immediately. Every kid is scared of getting hurt, my daughter keeps saying ouchie ouchie even on a lil bit of hurt. And when i say be careful , u might get an ouchie she backs off immediately.

But Here he said ‘ pain hoga, par koi nahi goya nahi jana ‘ . They are showing this on national television. What has happened to the writers?? I used to watch only yrkhh , in between i watched only Dahleez which was also a star plus show.otherwise typical ekta kapoor drama shows arent of my taste .I liked this show because of its positivity and the way they used to show things with so much sensitivity but they have ruined it and its an Ekta Kapoor show now , may be worst :( . Previously the The dialogs were damn relatable and real. Now everything is so negative and you being a mother of 5 year old i am surprised how you are defending this disturbing behavior of Kairav again and again .

4 saal ke bacche ka gussa bhi age jitna he 4th standard fail writers ko dikhana chahiye.

4 saal ke bacche ka photo fadne jaisa ya i hate you bolne jaisa gussa annoying lagta hai.... uper se harry potter ka acting scene ko another level par lekar jata hai.

4 saal ke bacche ke dialogs mai bhi koi innocence nai hai and acting mai bhi koi innocence nai hai.

Bacche ko bacche ke jaisa dikhayege or dialogs bolega to better hoga.

I think iss chouthi fail writer ko lagta hai ki audience bhi uski tarah chouthi fail hai to bacche ke naam par kuch bhi dikhayege to sab chalega.... 😡

Originally posted by: Sur89

But dear how long? few Hours, a day or week?? Holding grudges with father for days ? Kids say papa ap bure ho and they just forget and come n hug and say i love you papa , in matter of time . And he dint do anything when they were actually fighting at Goenka’s but all of a sudden out of nowhere he has started hating his father just by listening two three discussions from behind.

Muje pain hoga par koi bat nahi? Only a seriously disturbed child will think like that and i am relieved mine is just 2.5 , she cant understand these dialogs. Imagine what will kids learn from this? They don’t understand right or wrong or the after effects. But these dialogs , they will get it immediately. Every kid is scared of getting hurt, my daughter keeps saying ouchie ouchie even on a lil bit of hurt. And when i say be careful , u might get an ouchie she backs off immediately.

But Here he said ‘ pain hoga, par koi nahi goya nahi jana ‘ . They are showing this on national television. What has happened to the writers?? I used to watch only yrkhh , in between i watched only Dahleez which was also a star plus show.otherwise typical ekta kapoor drama shows arent of my taste .I liked this show because of its positivity and the way they used to show things with so much sensitivity but they have ruined it and its an Ekta Kapoor show now , may be worst :( . Previously the The dialogs were damn relatable and real. Now everything is so negative and you being a mother of 5 year old i am surprised how you are defending this disturbing behavior of Kairav again and again .

Well for the starting point. The kids who has seen his mother crying from starting...tends to develop a pervasiveness over mother .... also from what kairav has seen he really has seen them fighting and kartik shouting all the time. Throwing things or shoving her. Age has nothing to do with maturity. It is a whole new concept for indians...because we tend to almost always connect maturity and understandih with age. We tend to also connect emotions with age...which is wrong. A person having trauma or behaviour problems have nothing do with his or her age. I have seen and experienced both these things....so i kind of relate from the anger..and distress of which kairav is going through.

You talk about effect to kids i agree...but what of all thoese kids who daily go through these things. Has kairav ever seen love between his mama papa.he has seen him throwing things and shoving her...ofcourse he is bound to understand something is wrong. You would be surprised how much a kid listens and sees....we as adults always think about how kids are oblivious to everything ....they are not. My own little sis who is just 6 thinks his father alwaus shouts on mom because he has a loud voice . Or if they argue she listens and think father is hurting her mother.

It would be great thatif they show us how trauma effects a child. Because people suffer from it. Its not fiction. They should show us how kairav as a son thinks and then parents make him understand...and become pillars of his life.

Originally posted by: Fireiswithinus

Well for the starting point. The kids who has seen his mother crying from starting...tends to develop a pervasiveness over mother .... also from what kairav has seen he really has seen them fighting and kartik shouting all the time. Throwing things or shoving her. Age has nothing to do with maturity. It is a whole new concept for indians...because we tend to almost always connect maturity and understandih with age. We tend to also connect emotions with age...which is wrong. A person having trauma or behaviour problems have nothing do with his or her age. I have seen and experienced both these things....so i kind of relate from the anger..and distress of which kairav is going through.

You talk about effect to kids i agree...but what of all thoese kids who daily go through these things. Has kairav ever seen love between his mama papa.he has seen him throwing things and shoving her...ofcourse he is bound to understand something is wrong. You would be surprised how much a kid listens and sees....we as adults always think about how kids are oblivious to everything ....they are not. My own little sis who is just 6 thinks his father alwaus shouts on mom because he has a loud voice . Or if they argue she listens and think father is hurting her mother.

It would be great thatif they show us how trauma effects a child. Because people suffer from it. Its not fiction. They should show us how kairav as a son thinks and then parents make him understand...and become pillars of his life.

Normally child (specially 4 years old) become quite and parents can sense that sadness and anger of child because of her/his quite/cold behave or if they see such scene or feel something unusual then some kids cries their heart loud at 4.

I can understand side effects on kairav but the way he is reacting can only happen in daily soap i think because daily soap ke bacche kuch zyada he over mature hote hai or i should say age se pehle bade jaise behave karte hai like dadi amma/dadaji type behave before age.

Being mother of child , i found it very unusual when kid is showing his anger/sadness with i hate you line and tearing photos etc...that was looking pathetic for 4 years old.

Agar baccha 10-12 saal ka hota to yeh reaction fir bhi thoda digest hota but 4 saal ka baccha aise react kar sakta hai?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hamari society mai maine kabhi aisa dekha nai hai shayad isiliye mere liye yeh bahot zyada fake reaction hai 4 saal ke bacche ka.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Normally child (specially 4 years old) become quite and parents can sense that sadness and anger of child because of her/his quite/cold behave or if they see such scene or feel something unusual then some kids cries their heart loud at 4.

I can understand side effects on kairav but the way he is reacting can only happen in daily soap i think because daily soap ke bacche kuch zyada he over mature hote hai or i should say age se pehle bade jaise behave karte hai like dadi amma/dadaji type behave before age.

Being mother of child , i found it very unusual when kid is showing his anger/sadness with i hate you line and tearing photos etc...that was looking pathetic for 4 years old.

Agar baccha 10-12 saal ka hota to yeh reaction fir bhi thoda digest hota but 4 saal ka baccha aise react kar sakta hai?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! hamari society mai maine kabhi aisa dekha nai hai shayad isiliye mere liye yeh bahot zyada fake reaction hai 4 saal ke bacche ka.

Mene dekha hai when kids of 3 to 5 years old are abused and they start behaving like this. They develop an angry mind. But you know what they went to over over i hate you wali bat par.... they could hav3 shown us build up of kairavs anger...and then sidha wo kartik se bolta but then mein sochti hu ki maybe he wont because kartik truly scared him when he scolded. Tanmay se connect krna b mushkil hai or ek aise bache se jisne do teen din dekha or phir react kiya strongly usse b connect krna mushkil hai.

Lets see if they show something positive.

You do get angry but they need to be consoled in better way.

My mum once scolded me and I ran away from home,,, to my grandma's home which was 1 block away 😆