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Originally posted by: naq5

They have a loan on themselves for the shop. Its not just about babitas choice everytime. A 20 lakh something loan I think. And if she sits at home and doesn't see to her business then she will land up in major trouble.

Shop total value is 10 lacs.

Loan is only for 2 lacs and not more. They arranged rest of the money. I am sure they must have paid it by now.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

What is HS doing that Babita cannot think about anything else? Is it really all about Sex? 🙄 ...

And so what if it is? Shuru shuru mein aisa hota hai, and then things settle down. Let them enjoy it while they can. Waise bhi panditji ne unko old feel karwaya tha. They are showing that in the second marriage a couple can have just as much of it as the first time.

And if Babita wants it and is enjoying it, so what? Her life, her wish. Apne husband ke saath hi to hai. She lived without a man for so many years, and after Dheere Jalna, there was no going back once her desires were awakened.

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

but why one or the other have to be outsider especially now... Why can't the grow as a family.... That's what is bothering me....

It's about tic tac toe, until all three align they will never win.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I don't see anything wrong in Babita not wanting to continue with the catering business.. She just wants to bask in the love of her husband and have a regular housewifey life.. Babita never really wanted an independent or working wali lifestyle.. she had to turn to it due to her halaat., For her, the dream was always to have a love-filled life with her husband and family.. Is it about sex? No.. Its about that fulfilled house wali feeling that she had always craved for.. As long as it is her and her choice alone, i have no issues with that

I agree with this. Emancipation is not just about having a career, it's about having the freedom and space to do what you want, without any compulsion or obligation.

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

I kinda think its adorable how Babita talks about Hanuman now😆 She really has come out of her shell as far as expressing herself is concerned.. Maybe that sometimes backfires or creates a ruckus but at least she is now a lot more open instead of living in suffocation

I agree. This was the same woman concerned about her daaman.

Good thing she never called HS bhaisaab from day 1. 😆

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, sex and doing whatever she says. :P

But honestly, jitna bhi isne kiya hai Babita ke liye, it's far more than whatever Ashok did for her. Giving her the freedom to express her desires, the space to explore herself without judging her etc.

I absolutely hate the writers for putting her wish to enjoy a marital life in such a negative light. I don't know why they couldn't have shown her maintaining the business alongside her wanting to be with HS. It's not like she does anything while she's at home.

It will happen eventually, I think. She will find the balance, especially when HS gets fired.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

sirf hamare bacche paagal hain jinko padhai aur projects se phursat hi nahi milti. And yahan toh mini is more than a super woman😆

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It never has been about Babita's choice actually.. Babita has always done what situations made her do.. she never had the luxury of actually making a choice

I think the loan is paid off and even if it isn't, it wasn't 20 lacs

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I know it's not but my point is that it should be Babita's choice as to what she wants to do with it. If she doesn't want to run it anymore, then fine. That's her choice. She shouldn't be forced to run it when she doesn't want to.

Exactly. For once she can do what she wants in life. I don't think HS would care either way, would he?

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

https://twitter.com/OnlyBlackSheep/status/1182714060107735040?s=19

So out of context but I liked it so sharing 😆

Villain HaNita🤣

This is gold. People are so creative!