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Story mein kuch nahi bacha hai that we are focusing on Kammo and Khatri now LMAOOO 🤣🤣

Way to ruin your own show, cvs.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Lol I guess some people cannot fathom that Babita is above Mini for HS 😆.... I know I made a comment about their sex life because I was annoyed that Babita would lose her identity for so called love.. but I think this is just the honeymoon phase. Let the enjoy it. I just hope she’s brought back to earth and realizes that there are other equally imp things in life.

I agree with yours and kheer’s point on sex and companionship.

I don’t think Babita is above Mini or something.

I love my daughter the most but I also love my husband and value him just as much as my daughter.

And I don’t have issue with their sex either. If they would have gone on honeymoon, they would have gotten time for each other. Since they didn’t, and are here, we see them focusing a bit much on each other. Which is fine.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I didn’t like Babita’s dialogue that

Khud ko bhulke pyar karna ka maja n all.

What? Lady you just spent an entire year to find an individuality. To become independent.

Koi khud ko bhulke pyar vyar nahi hota. A person needs an individuality. Her own self worth is much more than being someone’s wife.
Don’t go on same route you had hard time coming out from. Seriously though.

This is like watching episode 1 Babita.

And Poor Mini. She was so excited. And looked extra pretty.

Writers are sadistic. I can’t believe they are making Babita go back to being how she was on start of the PB.

Khatri ko dekhke aschha laga. And Kammo ne kya mast sunai. Meri salary se ghar chal raha hai. 😆 Lage hath seva bhi karva li Khatri se.

And bechare thane wale.. Roz lunch mein khate hai.. wahi khana party mein bhi khayenge. 🤣

I got the feeling today's scene with Babita in la-la-land over HS was put in to show us how despite all the financial freedom she has, her heart still longs for a simple grehesti. She doesn't want too much in life but now she's possibly about to make the same mistake she made the first time - putting too much emphasis on the marriage itself and not her own identity.

It's also clear she's not over her past because a lot of what she said to NB showed that she was comparing what she didn't get to what she has this time round. I completely understand her point of view but one day she will have to figure out if this is what she really wants.

By the way, who's paying for the household expenses now? Babita or HS? Who's buying their groceries?

Originally posted by: tantal

But don't you feel that there is a distinction between first marriages (no strings attached, made for each other union) and second marriages with children, where there are more than two persons coming together in a family for the first time? If Babita was lonely and unloved for a long time, so was Minnie. She was deprived of a dad's love and the warmth of a complete family. Why shouldn't her needs and expectations also play a part in this marriage? If the sole purpose of Hanita getting married was to be with each other and push Minnie away then they should have made it clear to her from the start.. that you will have to be a teesra in this marriage and only we two matter in this family.

I feel there should be no distinction in first or second wedding.. 17 years is a long time to live a lonely life.. I see nothing wrong if two people sre basking in on the happiness of finally belonging to each other

As for Mini, Mini's expectations regarding wanting a father are not very clear.. I don't even know if she wants a dad's love.. because let's face it.. dad's love does not come alone.. it comes with his strictness and authority too? Would Mini be willing to settle to that? I doubt.. let me give you an example.. do I think Babita was wrong in asking Mini not to meet Micky at all? Definitely.. but would it be too difficult if Mini stays away from Micky for a little while.. once Babita cools off, she can explain her POV and then continue her friendship (the same approach that Babita should have taken the first time around)..but no.. mini continues to meet him ad usual.. mini does not respond well to being told what to do

Mini's idea if complete family seems to be incomplete without Khuranas which definitely cannot work

Lastly, it literally has been a few weeks to their wedding.. for the longest time, it was actually only Mini that mattered to the two of them.. ever since they met, they only talked about Mini.. I cannot fault them much if they want to focus on their relationship for a while.. especially since they do not even know that Mini is still hung up on Kammo's words.. letd fsce it.. if the CD fiasco and Kammo incident had not happened, Mini wouldn't even have minded the navratri puja incident or similar other instances that much

Is it unfortunate that Hanuman Babita have missed to catch how the recent events have affected Mini's psych.. definitely.. but that does not make them evil, egoistic, self absorbed or sex hungry.. it makes them humans

Originally posted by: inlieu

She's a great performer. So underrated - I've never seen a false moment when she acts.

undoubtedly yes .

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I don’t think Babita is above Mini or something.

I love my daughter the most but I also love my husband and value him just as much as my daughter.

@bold this is what they are trying to show, I think. Babita will have to find her way towards this point and Minnie will have to learn that she's a priority but not to be compared with her mother's husband.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, my favorite scene was Kammo's surprised expression when she said, hain?? ab humhe babita pehenji ka ghar ka bhi banwana parega??

Hands down the best bit of today's episode for me. She already thinks they're too busy in their kissy kissy bang bangs. Ab khaana banane ke liye time bhi ni hai.

She really was superb in that scene. I can't believe I'm saying this but Kammo and Khatri made this episode a good one for me.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I know it's not but my point is that it should be Babita's choice as to what she wants to do with it. If she doesn't want to run it anymore, then fine. That's her choice. She shouldn't be forced to run it when she doesn't want to.

They have a loan on themselves for the shop. Its not just about babitas choice everytime. A 20 lakh something loan I think. And if she sits at home and doesn't see to her business then she will land up in major trouble.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Khatri has started predicting and foreshadowing like NB now. What the EFFF?

His intention was wrong but some of his words were right.

This is the very Khatri that made Babita determined to have her shop in every city and hoardings everywhere. Now that she is taking it easy, vultures like him are circling her shop. Achieving something is much easier than maintaining it, whether it's career or relationships. She has to learn this over time.

I was also really glad to see NB observe Babita very closely. She's a wise woman, she picked up what she needed to.

Originally posted by: shazam1

Regarding women empowerment wasn't there a tweet by the PH that its not their intention to have a social message of any kind and whatever audience takes from the tracks is their own imagination or something like that. "watch at your own risk"!!

This is the strangest thing. Their whole theme is about women empowerment yet now they claim it's not?