Sassy prerna.... - Page 2

Originally posted by: SehLengeThoda

I'm unable to connect with so called selfless love between them because they lack communication.

I connected with them in previous season because after she married bajaj, the next day bajaj returned basu publication file to the basus and they realised why she married bajaj in the very next episode.

That is what is required for a show for the tracks to progress and develop unlike here where it's been more than three months now, but basus are yet to know which include anurag why she married bajaj in the first place and what sacrifice she made to save anurag.

And she is still hiding the pregnancy issue with them.

It shows the cvs have no idea what to do, how to proceed. Then how can they expect audience to sympathise with prerna with her sacrifice.

Wahi toh anurag ithna claim kartha hai Mai pyaar kartha hu...tum hi meri soulmate ho..mujhe pata h tum kya feel karthi ho mere liye..tab bhi samaj ni paya..

We didn't see prena return the basu publication file or not dikaya hi ni

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

Revenge over her grieving family is what she chose and no matter what adjective is used to describe the same, I do not appreciate it. Why did not this woman care about her family that had lost one of its member, and put her brain in financially holding her family together which I believe at that point of time should have been at a much higher priority than some revenge? Here, I call her selfish. She kept her breakup above her family in need.

Well, I don't think I am dictating anything. I am just stating what I feel.

Neither did I appreciate Prerna selling herself for her house (in a way I did) nor do I appreciate Anurag selling him for her house. I really can't appreciate his stupidity that got her back her home, I am sorry. I cannot. People go through financial crises and BAD ones. If everyone starts using this thing to get through them, I don't know what this world would be.

Yes, of course, no matter how stupid they seem, there is no denial that they have done stuff for each other being selfish for the other's comfort but that doesn't mean that everyone has to appreciate this stupidity, right?

This is Pre2 and she was never shown to be career minded. Her identity is with being a family person who goes out of limits for them. Going to BB after that heartbreak was the most she has done for something she wanted. Purely just for herself. It was her need to get over her heartbreak and make those responsible pay for it. That is what people liked. She didn't go their to woo Anu at all. We see in the forum everyone always talking about she not doing anything for herself or not voicing out. She did both of that during that time.

No I have no problem with people finding them stupid or not appreciating them as characters. But many time I've see people say Anu does not deserve Pre for xyz reason when they both have done so much for each other. That was what I was alluding to.

Originally posted by: SehLengeThoda

As I said the creatives never ever properly sketched her character that I feel no sympathy on her for her present situation.

Being a hardcore RB fan of s1, when RB married her during their first marriage by taking over the Basu publication and had a deal with prerna, I truly connected with her, sympathised with her whenever she used to be sad thinking about her kid prem and how she had to sacrifice everything for the basus.

But here somehow I just can't connect with this prerna, even though this time it was not just about basu publication but also anurags life.

It shows how much they failed.

I do agree. Her character is roughly and poorly written, not that any other character is written nicely anyway but anyways, people do not feel her pain because a lot of times Madam herself has forgotten and looked a little too comfortable with her new life. How do we sympathize her when she is doing rock and roll in one episode and crying for Anurag in the second one? It's truly a task to understand what exactly her state of mind is. 😆

I haven't even watched the season one but I don't think I would have been able to watch and like it even back then. CVs, this time, has done a really bad job and when I say BAD, I think I should stick to it because no adjective would anyway be able to express how bad this actually is. 😆

Sassy Prerna is doing beizzati of the word Sassy!

Originally posted by: SheAish

This is Pre2 and she was never shown to be career minded. Her identity is with being a family person who goes out of limits for them. Going to BB after that heartbreak was the most she has done for something she wanted. Purely just for herself. It was her need to get over her heartbreak and make those responsible pay for it. That is what people liked. She didn't go their to woo Anu at all. We see in the forum everyone always talking about she not doing anything for herself or not voicing out. She did both of that during that time.

No I have no problem with people finding them stupid or not appreciating them as characters. But many time I've see people say Anu does not deserve Pre for xyz reason when they both have done so much for each other. That was what I was alluding to.

I am afraid you are not getting my exact point. I have no issues with she not being career oriented. It's absolutely okay by me because I feel it is an individual choice. Here, I am talking about getting a job because her family needed it. A lot of people have to do a job, when they do not want to, whatever may be the reasons and doing a job, doesn't require you to be career oriented. At times, you have to keep aside your desires because there is an emergency and need of money if I talk about this particular situation.

I will keep even that aside. What about the grieving family that she left to deal on their own for the sake of her revenge? I don't appreciate people/characters who do not care about their family who is still trying to cope up with a loss of a loved one and put something as ridiculous as this above them. No, I by no means, am saying that she should do this and she should do that. I am saying, I do not appreciate such ones. I know what and how it is do deal with a loss of a loved on. I am sure a lot of us do and we know how hard it is and considering it, I will never appreciate Prerna in this.

It doesn't matter to me that she did both at that time back then because the time was wrong. She was needed some where else. She needed to do something else. So even if she thought about herself that time, and voiced out her opinions as you said, - it's beyond me to even accept it let aside appreciating.

Quoting your last paragraph, I would urge you to stick to the points the person your quoting has written because what other people write here usually is not relevant to my post. It only adds up to the confusion.

Originally posted by: SheAish

Look I'm not saying she did the most ideal thing. To be honest, I didn't like that she believed that Anu betrayed her after such a short time after having already risked his life twice for her.... I didn't like that lack of trust.

But then again I put myself in her shoes and she is stuck with a child on the way and the father is clearly saying he moved on and found someone better for himself. People in abject heartbreak and during times of extreme strife do things that any rational outsider would not do. Her own mum pushed her to do what she wanted and urged her to go there and claim her rights after the pundit said both of them are married in the eyes of god. Yes, her family needed her too...but she already was in a soup of her own with the pregnancy and she is not the only family member that is capable of earning for the family. She HAS ALREADY proved how much she values her family by agreeing to marry Naveen babu (again stupid decision..but intention and act itself is for the family not hersefl)

I'm not such a great person that I know for sure I would act with complete rationality and keep putting everyone else above my own sorry state at that time....So I choose to give her the benefit of the doubt.

And yes, you are right, I'm sorry I added in issues that were not discussed here so let me leave it as it is.

Originally posted by: SheAish

Look I'm not saying she did the most ideal thing. To be honest, I didn't like that she believed that Anu betrayed her after such a short time after having already risked his life twice for her.... I didn't like that lack of trust.

But then again I put myself in her shoes and she is stuck with a child on the way and the father is clearly saying he moved on and found someone better for himself. People in abject heartbreak and during times of extreme strife do things that any rational outsider would not do. Her own mum pushed her to do what she wanted and urged her to go there and claim her rights after the pundit said both of them are married in the eyes of god. Yes, her family needed her too...but she already was in a soup of her own with the pregnancy and she is not the only family member that is capable of earning for the family. She HAS ALREADY proved how much she values her family by agreeing to marry Naveen babu (again stupid decision..but intention and act itself is for the family not hersefl)

I'm not such a great person that I know for sure I would act with complete rationality and keep putting everyone else above my own sorry state at that time....So I choose to give her the benefit of the doubt.

And yes, you are right, I'm sorry I added in issues that were not discussed here so let me leave it as it is.

Oh goodness, don't even get me there. I had written so much about her back then. I was so utterly disappointed how easily she got convinced that he betrayed her. There was no limit to my disappointment towards her. It didn't matter much to me then what he did because in a way, it was for her but I couldn't just accept that she accepted it that too so easily.

But later, as you have mentioned, when I got to know about the kid - I could see where she was coming from and then, I lost all that I had for Anurag and this way, I am over both the characters that I once adored. 😆

No but I still don't agree to the going BB part back then. I believe, nobody needs to be a great person to put family above themselves. To be honest, I don't expect people to either but then, I don't appreciate it either. I have kind of somewhat experiences. I put my family above me and I always will even when it would be the time to choose between something that's related to me and them. Again, I am not saying that Prerna should have done it but I don't like that she didn't. That's about it.

It's okay. No issues about that, but I am bound to feel that a reply to me is about me so it tend to increase confusion if you would write what a mass thinks here. It's really just about that.

PS: I know, that this is a EK show and there is no way, they could have ever shown this and this drama was always supposed to be this dramatic way. I know all of it but my disappointments have no end after a particular point in this show.

Originally posted by: SehLengeThoda

I'm unable to connect with so called selfless love between them because they lack communication.

I connected with them in previous season because after she married bajaj, the next day bajaj returned basu publication file to the basus and they realised why she married bajaj in the very next episode.

That is what is required for a show for the tracks to progress and develop unlike here where it's been more than three months now, but basus are yet to know which include anurag why she married bajaj in the first place and what sacrifice she made to save anurag.

And she is still hiding the pregnancy issue with them.

It shows the cvs have no idea what to do, how to proceed. Then how can they expect audience to sympathise with prerna with her sacrifice.

Sorry I didn't reply earlier. I don't like ignoring people who quote me so don't think I was ignoring you deliberately. I was just a little caught up replying to IAdoeYou.

Anyways, I can understand people not being able to connect with characters and their actions. We all are different people, so our own experiences and how we approach things and understand things would be different.

I'll just reiterate what I said to IAdoreYou.

Pre2 as a character for the first time did something for herself when she went to BB after the Pandit told her they were already married in the eyes of God. She has always done things for her family. She even thought of career in terms of just helping out her family. NOT for herself or her own growth. So for such a character to take a step for something she wanted for herself ie revenge and to claim her rights as even her own mom urged her to do. it was a big deal given her character.

I know it was a plot device to keep Anupre interacting in the face of Anukom marriage, but if you look at the situation and give the characters some leeway to act which ever way they want in times of extreme grief and depression (she just lost her dad and on top of that she got dumped by the guy she loved and then she found out she was pregnant) , then its not that difficult to understand their actions. I myself might not like her actions, but I can at least understand where they are coming from if nothing else.

Honestly given her circumstances at that time, I don't know how I would have behaved if it were me. I'm not a very confrontational person so coupled with that all that pre just experienced at that time, I think it kind of admirable that instead of wallowing away or even just ignoring Anu she went and confronted that family and demanded she be treated the wife that she believs herself to be due to that Pandits words and the urging she got from her mom. After all she is not the only family member who could help shoulder her family responsibilities. She also has a brother and a sister and she was already pregnant and a liability so keeping herself away would also lessen family burden too if nothing else.

Originally posted by: SheAish

Anyways, I can understand people not being able to connect with characters and their actions. We all are different people, so our own experiences and how we approach things and understand things would be different.

I couldn't read the whole of this because I am in a rush but this is something that I truly believe in. Where we come from, in what environment we have been brought up, how we have seen things from our birth, what kind of experiences we have had, the people in our life, the incidents in our life make us different in how we perceive and understand something. It indeed makes a huge impact on our perception of a something.

i dont feel prerna did good by going to basu mansion that time. I would have preferred if she had choosed to forget anurag and leave it to god to punish him for his deeds. She should have supported her family, believed in herself and move on. Bahut break ups hote hain logo ke....if every girl goes and starts living with the person who betrayed....then life of those girls will also be spoiled who have actually married them. Prerna dint knew that anurag has married komo for a reason....they were normally married according to her......then trying to break another women marriage when the guy betrayed you isnt right for me personally.