Blame game

So i spoiled my mood today by seeing the clips of episode of manish and kdadi shouting at naira..then kartik completing the process. I almost laughed at the way kdadi said " naira doesnt have to tolerate anything ...she got the kid and everyones sympathy , my kittu is the one that suffered the most "

Well for the starting i fully acknowledge that cvs are whitewashing the character of naira ( for running away ) i am disgusted that cvs would show this because no matter what naira is a human...no one is even ready to listen to what she has to say. Thats inhuman. No one deserves to be treated this way by not even listening to the pleas of a mother...i understand kartik was away from kairav because of naira...but today when manish said " tum kartik ki galati ko bhula hi nahi payi ho ...revenge lena chahti ho " that made my heart and head ache at the same time. Like man naira is the one who held your family together. They deserve vedika only. I wish the custody would go to kartik...and kairav becomes miserable without a mother. Naira as per rumors will go into trauma. I cant believe that they once ...not even once thought about how naira sent those papers. I dont understand...should naira just stay kartiks wife ? Not take any divorce? Stay married to a already married man ? What was she supposed to do ? What about her moving on ? Their ladla kittu has a girl on his arm... in every separation track...why not naira. So if this goes on is naira supposed to just stay married to kartik while he makes babies with vedika ? What are they even showing.

Blame game didnt make any sense.

Also kartik today when was talking to naira....that made me loose a connection..because this is going above my head. Even enemies listen to what other person wants to say. I really wish naira goes missing ....and thus kartik realises...or atleast he acknowledges that vedika was the one who gave papers to naira.....sigh.

If not i am giving up. Because their is no option left. Also has anyone seen vedika getting dahi shakkar for good luck so that kartik can bring kairav home....she literally wants to feed him. W*F ewwwwwwwww.

Kartik is wrong on multiple level but naira is also wrong at multiple level.

Kartik is kairav’s father and law gives both the parents equal rights on child. Why naira doesn’t inform kartik about leaving city with THEIR child kairav before calling to hospital for medical certificate???????

This decision of moving out of city was related to kairav too and before taking any decision for child, it is must for both the parents to discuss.

Why naira didn’t inform/discuss with child’s father kartik about she has planned to leave city with THEIR son kairav ???

Why she made first call to hospital authorities before inform/discussing with Kartik about kairav???????????

After Chipkali ‘s suicide drama , she was right in sending divorce papers because that can be her call BUT when matter is related to kairav , before asking hospital authorities, she should talk with kartik at very first place.

When matter is related to THEIR child, before deciding anything or making calls to anyone, both parents must know what other is planning for child’s future.

But here naira did totally reverse, fact is first she arranged kairav’s medical certificate to move out of city and then she planned to inform Kartik at later stage. Here she is very very very wrong.

First stage should be being parents both should get a chance to share their views about kairav should move out of city or not. But here again naira decided everything regarding kairav all alone without discussing with kartik before calling for medical certificate.

Why can’t naira give equal decision making rights to kartik when it is related to THEIR child? Why is she always in mood to just inform him things related to kairav but she will not give Kartik any decision making rights of kairav???? Either everything she assume by herself or everything she decides by herself when it comes to kairav.

Originally posted by: Fireiswithinus

So i spoiled my mood today by seeing the clips of episode of manish and kdadi shouting at naira..then kartik completing the process. I almost laughed at the way kdadi said " naira doesnt have to tolerate anything ...she got the kid and everyones sympathy , my kittu is the one that suffered the most "

Well for the starting i fully acknowledge that cvs are whitewashing the character of naira ( for running away ) i am disgusted that cvs would show this because no matter what naira is a human...no one is even ready to listen to what she has to say. Thats inhuman. No one deserves to be treated this way by not even listening to the pleas of a mother...i understand kartik was away from kairav because of naira...but today when manish said " tum kartik ki galati ko bhula hi nahi payi ho ...revenge lena chahti ho " that made my heart and head ache at the same time. Like man naira is the one who held your family together. They deserve vedika only. I wish the custody would go to kartik...and kairav becomes miserable without a mother. Naira as per rumors will go into trauma. I cant believe that they once ...not even once thought about how naira sent those papers. I dont understand...should naira just stay kartiks wife ? Not take any divorce? Stay married to a already married man ? What was she supposed to do ? What about her moving on ? Their ladla kittu has a girl on his arm... in every separation track...why not naira. So if this goes on is naira supposed to just stay married to kartik while he makes babies with vedika ? What are they even showing.

Blame game didnt make any sense.

Also kartik today when was talking to naira....that made me loose a connection..because this is going above my head. Even enemies listen to what other person wants to say. I really wish naira goes missing ....and thus kartik realises...or atleast he acknowledges that vedika was the one who gave papers to naira.....sigh.

If not i am giving up. Because their is no option left. Also has anyone seen vedika getting dahi shakkar for good luck so that kartik can bring kairav home....she literally wants to feed him. W*F ewwwwwwwww.

Very well said yes W**.

So i spoiled my mood today by seeing the clips of episode of manish and kdadi shouting at naira..then kartik completing the process. I almost laughed at the way kdadi said " naira doesnt have to tolerate anything ...she got the kid and everyones sympathy , my kittu is the one that suffered the most " --- I don't think she has any sense of what is right and wrong. she has grown up in age but actually not in mind . Bude log hamesha most of the times right ke saath they will stand by.she doesn't have any shame at all.I am not able say anything its better to ignore she is one such disgusting character.

Well for the starting i fully acknowledge that cvs are whitewashing the character of naira ( for running away ) i am disgusted that cvs would show this because no matter what naira is a human...no one is even ready to listen to what she has to say. Thats inhuman. No one deserves to be treated this way by not even listening to the pleas of a mother... --- Yes No one s there to listen to her or better say none of them are humans at all.Sab Swardhi matlabhi log hain.

i understand kartik was away from kairav because of naira...but today when manish said " tum kartik ki galati ko bhula hi nahi payi ho ...revenge lena chahti ho " --- Why cant you ask your son the same question Manish beta you should ask him better because he is doing that by taking revenge on Naira. Karthik will have the correct answer to it

that made my heart and head ache at the same time. Like man naira is the one who held your family together. They deserve vedika only. I wish the custody would go to kartik...and kairav becomes miserable without a mother. Naira as per rumors will go into trauma. I cant believe that they once ...not even once thought about how naira sent those papers. I dont understand...should naira just stay kartiks wife ? Not take any divorce? Stay married to a already married man ? What was she supposed to do ? What about her moving on ? Their ladla kittu has a girl on his arm... in every separation track...why not naira. So if this goes on is naira supposed to just stay married to kartik while he makes babies with vedika ? What are they even showing. - Yes Vedika is the correct one for them .They dont even deserve Naira. Today also karthik said the same thing .Just imaggine how it felt when you went away

Blame game didnt make any sense.

Also kartik today when was talking to naira....that made me loose a connection..because this is going above my head. Even enemies listen to what other person wants to say. I really wish naira goes missing ....and thus kartik realises...or atleast he acknowledges that vedika was the one who gave papers to naira.....sigh.

If not i am giving up. Because their is no option left. Also has anyone seen vedika getting dahi shakkar for good luck so that kartik can bring kairav home....she literally wants to feed him. W*F ewwwwwwwww.

@sweet tania - first of all two wrongs doesn't cancel out. Naira didnt want to leave right away or go to goa. I havent watched it but as shivangi said that naira didnt want to leave with kairav as she understands what is kartiks place , she also said that how kartik thinks naira wants to take away his son which is not the case . She was thinking of her kid when she was shoving her self respect down her throat and watch the father of her kid with a another woman. And no matter how or what she did it would still pain..

Second i agree with what you said but i want to really ask that did naira not call kartik repeatedly to make him aware that hospital didnt sent the report because she wanted to go away. Also medical certificate is not a big thing they already registered kairav in the school....and also a mother has every right to take the decisions...its her kid...kartik also took kairav back to gv without informing naira. He also didnt disucss the custody case....and not even once thought how this will effect kairav . Did he think? No. He was like how dare she sent me divorce papers...therw was no mention of custody...from naira. So i dont think kartik has thought what a 5 year old kid would think and feel when kartik so roughly will snatch kairav away from naira. He is selfish.... naira repeatedly said no about custody....she is a mother...but she deserves the divorce. So i dont understand how these two things match up.

About kdadi and manish i am very sorry to say but they are bloody hypocrites. They care for no one. They dont get to taunt naira on every step when their son walks away freely with a candy named vedika. They dont get to taunt her when they were the reason kartik doubted naira. Cvs have never shown kdadi punished for what all she did with naira...also they dont give two hoots about kairav....they just care because he is the chirag....would it be a girl thwy would have just behaved like they did on sex determination. I didnt see manish regretting to do that to naira. Which no women should go through. He doesnt get to taunt her because the person he is talking is close to him because of naira. He doesn't get to taunt because no matter what rights he has on kairav .... it will not be more then his mother.

Also she did talk to kartik and tried explaining him that vedika is the reason...did he listen ? Did he acknowledge the fact that what he is doing is wrong ? I dont see a single person blaming kartik .... or the reason why she ran away in the first place. What she did was wrong...she is punished more then enough but without listening...to what she has to say just slap papers on her face is cruel.

And i am sorry again but the main culprits for the reason for separation or these fights are never blamed. No matter what we say in real life also ..in laws and paternal home people both of them matter and are responsible for relationship being strong and even for relationship breaking.

Ps - i dont know even naira really packed her bags and was ready to leave for goa and thus she made that medical certificate...because this is not migration certificate....( Which is required from school which they registered kairav just recently...to move from udaipur to goa they would need it..) also the medical certificate is needed for school. So i dont know if she was planning on leaving and that was just a thought or something.

Originally posted by: Akshaya143

yes, i agree with you but for me it is maybe not white washing naira... Makers want show that all goenka's bhadas hai naira ke ooper nikaal rahe hai taaki jab kaira milan tab kis baat ka gussa naira ke ooper na rahe.. Because it is not small thing that running away without facing situation and yaa karthik is equally fault... But till now no one confronted naira about her fault so now they want open all things sad part is that their ladla karthik fault will comes last that he is easily forgivable

I have no problem with anyone getting angry with naira...but no one blames their ladla kittu a slightest and that makes it look so bad.

Also maybe you are right about how this will help after kaira milan...so that no one gets angry on her...good point.

These two have actually made a joke out of relationships .

Originally posted by: Fireiswithinus

I have no problem with anyone getting angry with naira...but no one blames their ladla kittu a slightest and that makes it look so bad.

Also maybe you are right about how this will help after kaira milan...so that no one gets angry on her...good point.

Originally posted by: Dvanshi123

These two have actually made a joke out of relationships .

They have. I agree. I have never been more disappointed..with yrkkh. Instead of this whole separation track they could have just shown us more tracks which are taboo in our society.

Originally posted by: Fireiswithinus

They have. I agree. I have never been more disappointed..with yrkkh. Instead of this whole separation track they could have just shown us more tracks which are taboo in our society.

I so agree. Getting married and getting separated is all they know . Worst was destroying mansi and anmol' s wedding and the baby stealing track.