Originally posted by: BombayGirl10
Hey sorry, i am butting in this convo. But i just couldn't hold my self back after seeing this comment. What you said about real life is true fact. No girl would want to sympathise with this kind of guy in real life because females are becoming mature about their decisions in real life and not taking things for granted. As for the show goes i don't think what you say applies to prerna at all (as per story). When she found out about her pregnancy and anu's marriage that time it was perfect for her to take full charge of what she wanted to do with that kid and that reason was justified. Consummating without protection and that also consent from both is absolutely between them and no person should judge about what people should and shouldn't do since they made the decision on their own. Blaming anu solely that he impregnated her and wants to take away his rights only applies if the person knows that you got pregnant and dumbed or decided to abandon you after the revelation but that was not the case here. You only do blame game when you have spoken the truth but another person is not ready to accept it. If this goes to court though no law is logical in EKTA world but as normal logical situation both parties are at fault. The court will ask PRE why she hide it it in the first place if she thought the guy was at fault from start till now. later if she thought anu is a characterless guy(just referencing it) then why again started seeing that guy and decided to get married to him after he left you for another woman and later you marry someones else without justifiable reason to hide the pregnancy from him. Her case got weaker because she had a chance to come clean but she didn't reasons known to her. I have seen comments about how a woman gets right in India fine i am not aware of that but that doesn't automatically take rights of fathers away. In any case, Anu is wrong or should held responsible for whatever you mentioned above is when he knows that PRE is pregnant and no one imagines that all consummation leads to pregnancy possibility yes but that doesn't mean guy alone is at fault. Anu can also fight that PRE had kept the pregnancy secret and has taken the discussion without his acknowledge and married someone else even though they were on the talking term and he was ready to corporate but never even gotten any chance. Both are at fault but more so PRE as per the story.Joint custody is maybe a solution to this unless they mutually agree to it but pre taking a decision on behalf of Anu without his acknowledgement and giving that child bajaj's name is plain wrong. Makers have not disclosed the reason behind her hiding truth CVS might come up with some story but how convincing and truthful it is time will tell and then people are free to judge pre and anu both. Until then both are equally at fault and more for pre.
Sorry for long post in my no means i want to fight i just wanted to write what my view was for what you wrote. šš¼ have a great day.
Edited: your post above make more sense as per ekta logic šš¼ but lets see how things unfoldes and we are sure its going to be more drama.