Sept 27th: Homecoming - Page 23

Originally posted by: inlieu

It was still not a full hug between Hanita but the closest we'll get for now! LOL. I don't know if it was my imagination but when there was some awkwardness when Babita's hand touched Minnie's cheek and then his chest.

Nope, wasn't your imagination😆....thoda awkwardness tha....could also be cuz her hand kinda got stuck in b/w after she cupped Mini's cheek and she didn't know where to put it😆

Waise bhi her and HS have only now started to get touchy with each other....adjustment period chal raha hai😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yep, quite possible.....but I think even with Mickey around, Mini wouldn't have been at ease....he was there at the shaadi also but she didn't confide in him.....Mickey might have tried to talk to HS if he was here.

But jaise bhi hua, glad the reconciliation managed to happen abhi....

Waise toh HS-Mini ka usual favorite topic is Babita only.....lol that is what they mostly talk about.....but hopefully some other event happens in Mini's life that they can then talk about....like the training happened for the sake of that competition she wanted to win.

I think she will start talking to HS about her concern for her grandparents and her conflict with Babita over it.

This time I wonder if he will automatically side with Babita like he did that other day.

In donon mother-daughter ke cold or hot war ke beech thanedaar ho jaayega halal.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Nope, wasn't your imagination😆....thoda awkwardness tha....could also be cuz her hand kinda got stuck in b/w after she cupped Mini's cheek and she didn't know where to put it😆

Waise bhi her and HS have only now started to get touchy with each other....adjustment period chal raha hai😆

I don't know if it was Babita or Paridhi. We'll never know.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

GK seems to be from some village outside Patiala....that's the sense I've gotten from whatever little Laala has talked about her.....it would be quite funny if she's in the same city and he's still writing letters to her😆

Well, she asked him to write love letters to her. I have loved everything I've heard about her so far. The look on Lala's face when he talks about her is just so awwdorable.

There was such a sense of all three just breathing in this moment...soaking in a sense of peace after many days of turmoil and distance...all three of them holding on to each other or leaning on each other in some form

I love their expressions in this bit....so cute

And finally the "Yeh MERI Veer Balika" moment....lol

Yeah, just look at Minnie's smile when HS introduces her as his Veer Balika.

In the apology scene, the way his voice sounded when he stopped playing the CD and said Veer Balika....OMG.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think she will start talking to HS about her concern for her grandparents and her conflict with Babita over it.

This time I wonder if he will automatically side with Babita like he did that other day.

In donon mother-daughter ke cold or hot war ke beech thanedaar ho jaayega halal.

LOL I don't think he's gonna automatically side with Babita like he was hyperly doing the day after the wedding😆

He's going to try a balancing act....abhi abhi toh Veer Balika waapis mili hai....he will feel the pressure to take her side too😆

Dekhte hain kaise handle karta hai....yo test hai aapka, Thaanedaar saab....ab maa-beti ki zimmedaari uthaayi hai toh yeh sab part of the parcel hai😆

On a more serious note.....I think what NB said to him that day about his own connection to his grandparents despite what his father did to his mother....that will definitely come into play for HS and he will understand Mini's side of things.

If he was clever, he would play the father card....remind Babita of her own condition that he has to be father first.....toh bol do ki I'm being a father and supporting my daughter.....so you can't say ki daughter ki mother haath se gayi😆....trap her in her own words😛

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL I don't think he's gonna automatically side with Babita like he was hyperly doing the day after the wedding😆

He's going to try a balancing act....abhi abhi toh Veer Balika waapis mili hai....he will feel the pressure to take her side too😆

Dekhte hain kaise handle karta hai....yo test hai aapka, Thaanedaar saab....ab maa-beti ki zimmedaari uthaayi hai toh yeh sab part of the parcel hai😆

On a more serious note.....I think what NB said to him that day about his own connection to his grandparents despite what his father did to his mother....that will definitely come into play for HS and he will understand Mini's side of things.

If he was clever, he would play the father card....remind Babita of her own condition that he has to be father first.....toh bol do ki I'm being a father and supporting my daughter.....so you can't say ki daughter ki mother haath se gayi😆....trap her in her own words😛

LOL! Yes, tough balancing act indeed. I wonder if he will go to NB and complete that conversation she had started while tying his safa. I love the mother-son discussions by the way. NB is a like a treasure chest full of pearls of wisdom. There's so much HS and we can learn from her.

I would love it if he played the father card and put Minnie's happiness first. I would love for him to keep telling Babita in every other sentence that Minnie is his first priority, until she gets really mad at him one day.

Sometimes I feel he's depicted a bit like some of the ITV bahus, but less mahaan. He goes through all the trials and tribulations to be accepted by his spouse, cries rivers the entire time, is so sensitive and so caring to everyone, rarely demands anything for himself, goes out of his way to help mother-daughter, goes through agnipariksha (or in PB lingo amrit manthan), and has to think about everyone's welfare while hiding his own pain.

I mean I know the CVs like breaking stereotypes but sometimes I feel they are going a bit too far with that.🤣

Originally posted by: inlieu

LOL! Yes, tough balancing act indeed. I wonder if he will go to NB and complete that conversation she had started while tying his safa. I love the mother-son discussions by the way. NB is a like a treasure chest full of pearls of wisdom. There's so much HS and we can learn from her.

Sometimes I feel he's depicted a bit like some of the ITV bahus, but less mahaan. He goes through all the trials and tribulations to be accepted by his spouse, cries rivers the entire time, is so sensitive and so caring to everyone, rarely demands anything for himself, goes out of his way to help mother-daughter, goes through agnipariksha (or in PB lingo amrit manthan), and has to think about everyone's welfare while hiding his own pain.

I mean I know the CVs like breaking stereotypes but sometimes I feel they are going a bit too far with that.🤣

LOL I don't really get the feel he's like an ITV bahu.....I've seen shows where they've shown the ML like that and trust me, HS's case is definitely not like that.

I don't think he's doing a typical tyaag to be accepted by his spouse....he chose this, pursued it out of love....he cries because he's emotional....but he's equally capable of anger and frustration....ITV bahu is not allowed to depict those traits.....especially against pati😆

Despite my sarcasm sometimes, I don't think HS is really a tyaag ki murti....he does bend over a little too much for Babita sometimes but overall he's still got his spine and he totally pushes back from time to time.....tyaag ki murti hota toh he wouldn't have blown up over the honeymoon issue....ek kone mein baith ke rota apni kismat pe....lol....but he expresses his thoughts and emotions candidly....that trait specifically cancels any possibility of him being an ITV bahu.

Some people....yes even men....are very much like that in real life....they take on the burden of thinking about everyone, trying to keep everyone together.....while still having traits of short temper, anger on the side.....both sides can co-exist in one person....which is why that doesn't make them self-sacrificial saints....it just makes them good human beings who think about others.