Kuhu a character beyond redemption - Page 2

Originally posted by: Ms.akabane

i agree and i kind of feel sad to even say that..her characterization is turning more and more worse day by day..whatever weird reasons she might have for hampering mishti's happiness i wnt go there but what about abir? seriously? that guy made u his bro..truly fought for ur happiness,always looked out for u and cared for u selflessly..y would u do this to him?? damnit girl..for me she's indeed beyond redemption..i even find kunal better than her..atleast he is consistent with his feelings and openly admitting to abir that he doesnt want mishti in abir's life..but kuhu..she's a backstabber behind that bro facade

I just feel bad for the way her character graph is progressing it's just going downhill. I geniuely want good stuff for her because the character and the sister bond has so much potential.

Bold: That's my point too that what bone does she have to pick with Abir a character who has always supported her. Not even once even in today's episode she felt bad for Abir.

Yeah I would take overt enemies any day over backstabbers

Originally posted by: misaki

First thing I'd like to point out about this reply is how completely unfair and biased this analysis for Mishti, Abir and Kuhu is.

Kuhu has always been portrayed in the 'contrived' manner that you are talking about from the very first episode especially when it comes to Mishti. She is always the one who creates problems that directly hurt her sister and then momentarily feel bad about it after which she forgets about them altogether. Not once has she repented or shown real remorse over her actions.

Abir and Mishti on the other hand I beg to differ, have never been shown in the contradicting manner that Kuhu has always been deliberately portrayed by the makers. Whenever Mishti and Abir have shown concern or happiness for their respective siblings it's always been in the most natural and relatable manner. They have never been consciously responsible for any harm/pain that their siblings have suffered unlike Kuhu and Kunal. They have never once been jealous over their sibling's happiness or blamed them for their problems.

This parallel that you are trying to draw between what Kuhu did and what Mishbir did makes zero sense. On one hand we have Kuhu, plotting, actively scheming and manipulating people around her to completely destroy someone else's happiness. On the other hand, two people in love with each other, taking the decision of making their 'personal' relationship public. Mishti and Abir had every right to make that decision for their relationship. I mean, what did you expect them to have done? Remain a secret forever? How does that make sense? What exactly is contradicting or contriving about that move? It was something that was expected of them unlike Kuhu.

Besides, the post I don't think was about making Kuhu into the "only villain" in Mishbir's love story. We are well aware about how difficult their journey ahead is. We just didn't expect Kuhu to go to such lengths to cause pain to the two people who have always wanted the best for her. That is the issue we have with her character. We can understand Kuhu wanting to still save her sham of a marriage but not at the cost of destroying two other people's happiness. What she did yesterday was more than just wanting to save her own relationship. Whatever her skewed reasons are for wanting to believe in Mishti being the bane of her existence, her going as far as destroying not one but two people's chance at true love and happiness is something we didn't expect her character to be reduced to. She plotted to get the family witness the intimate date that Mishbir had planned to ensure BP and BM felt betrayed by Mishti and never believed in Mishbir again. She knew what she was doing. She manipulated Kunal into thinking Mishti was yet again the only reason why the two brothers were growing apart, there by ensuring Kunal continued to blame Mishti for all his problems in life. She did that fully aware of what she was doing. That's not an innocent girl pushed into doing something she didn't want to do. That is a girl who knows exactly what she is doing. That is not immaturity, that's pure evil. What she is doing is in fact exactly what Meenu does but worse because the two people she is scheming against have no idea about it.

How exactly are Abir and Mishti to be blamed for all the mess that Kuhu and Kunal are directly responsible for? Did Mishti and Abir force the two to get married? Kuhu forced every single person in her family including Mishti to help her get married to the man of her dreams. Mishti went as far as humiliating the family that she cared so much about, only for the said sister's happiness. Kunal convincingly played the part of a 'man in love' to convince Abir for the marriage. Abir keeps going above and beyond in order to keep his brother happy. The reason he stood by Mishti wasn't to support Mishti or aggravate Kunal. He stood by her because she was right and Kunal was wrong as simple as that. Besides, how was he to know that Kunal was doing all of it because of his concern over Mishbir's growing closeness? What was Abir supposed to do? The only reason he kept meeting Mishti was because of Kuku's relationship. You make him sound so selfish when he was nothing like that at all. He isn't Edward Cullen to read the guy's mind.Can the guy catch a break?

Getting annoyed by their interference in their siblings life I can understand but saying Mishbir are responsible for the pain they are currently going through while excusing the actual culprits is not just unfair but completely absurd.

What an absolutely brilliant respone👍🏼 I agree with you since the start Kuhu's characterization has been weak. Her blame Mishti reasons are very immature. On the other hand like you said Mishbir have always been conscious of their sibling' s happiness. Abir was about to leave in Kusthi engagement track when Kunal told him he doesn't want another failed relationship. Mishti also said after email fiasco that the only reason she didn't let Abir confess "Teri waja say Kuhu mainay aaj tak Abir ko apni baat nahi puri karnay di"

I don't see what's wrong if for once Mishbir are prioritizing themselves. They have every right to make their relationship public to think about it and to plan for it. They both geniuely do care for their siblings hence they both expressed their fears. There is no rule that whatever you say should be direct result of thoughts you are harboring on that day or the scene before that. On a subconscious level #Mishbir always have been aware of how their relationship might affect Kuku them voicing it out in middle of their dates doesn't make them hypocritical or glorify them. Actually they have been doing this since day 1 so it was totally in character.

Bold: Exactly whatever Kuhu did was pure evil. She was fully aware of the consequences of her actions yet she still went ahead with it. The dahi handi fall was done under a on act of jealousy and rage but this one was a cold and calculated move against two of the purest characters of the show. It just was really hard to digest. I am sorry to all Kuhu admirers but I just couldn't excuse her actions under the guise of her trying to save a sham marriage.

Yass a 100 times Yass to your last two paras. It's not Mishti's job to read their siblings mind and act according to their wishes .Heck both Kuku are adults why don't they have honest conversations with both their respective siblings. Did Kunal even tried once to make Abir realize how affected he was by the rejection well nope he just expressed his displeasure and then was all in Kuhu pretend love/bhai bachao plan. You are right Abir boy ain't a mind reader how was he supposed to know about Kunal's rejection issues. Also has Kuhu ever sat down with Mish and have a heart to heart on why she actually resents her so Mish can clear her doubts. Can the Mah families actually stage an intervention so both sisters can work on their issues instead we have characters like Varsha and Jasmeet that are encouraging Kuhu's actions.

Originally posted by: Namzie1226

Couldn't agree more, Zara! Kuhu is a backstabber and that makes her dangerous.

She has total disregard for anyone's feelings except her own. I honestly have never liked her but didn't think she will stoop this low. Her character is continuously getting worse. Everything has to be about her. Doesn't matter what anyone has done for her, she selfish and as long as it helps her, she is nice to the person.

She is a chameleon, changes her colours to suit her needs. This is how horrible a person Kuhu is. There is nothing worse than a person pretending to be something else and turns around to backstab the ones who are family.

I absolutely despise her!! I have disliked her from the very first episode and I see that my dislike wasn't misplaced. I really hope that everything Kuhu has done against Abir and Mishti, be revealed to everyone. Especially in front of Abir and BP!! Varsha should see that she has failed as a mother and raised an absolutely useless daughter.

I hope that makers start on her redemption. I am not going to buy if they try to whitewash her. I honestly don't think I am ever going to like Kuhu!!

Bold:👍🏼 All of this. This is the reason I just can't connect with her because she isn't consistent and she plays behind everyone's back. I am just gutted because I geniuely felt that the sister's bond had so much potential but we might never get one on the show at this rate. Kuhu's redemption needs to be well-earned. For now I have given up on the character.

Originally posted by: EtTuBrutus

I completely agree that Abir has always underestimated Kunal's issues and hate for Mishti and thats partly why the issue is getting compounded but can you please explain how Abir is supposed to know Kunal is that affected when he proclaims he loves Kuhu and desperately wants to get married to her? He looked very happy throughout all the marriage functions. Even when he ran away, he only gave silly excuses without getting to the root of the problem. What stopped Kunal from saying that he absolutely cannot stand Mishti and he agreed to marry Kuhu just to protect bhai from her? Why is all the burden on Abir to find out what goes on in Kunal's mind and then resolve it?

Coming to Kuhu, yes everyone is selfish and wants to preserve their marriage first. But how far can you go to ensure that you are happy? Instigate the family, your husband, mother and everyone around to separate your sibling from a guy you call bhai and who has stood up for you multiple times in the past, just to safeguard your own marital life?

Bold: Seriously I don't get why people just except Abir to be the one to always understand and fix things. The poor chap is still under the delusion that Kunal loves Kuhu how is he suppose to know that his precious little bro is pretending even in Abir's wildest dreams he would never have thought that Kunal would do such a thing. Another thing that irks me is that even everyone in the fam expects Abir to pacify Kunal. Like not once is Kunal made to understand that he should initiate the patch-up process.

Yass to all that you said about Kuhu you can't save a failing marriage by hurting other people. It's like your own house is burning but since you can't see other people being happy you seek to burn another person's house hoping that yours will get saved.

Originally posted by: samyuktha0411

Thanks for Making this post. Totally Agree with you.

Exactly Kuhu is a character beyond redemption.

Meenakshi and Kunal are way better than Kuhu. Kuhu is downright selfish and Jealous and thinks ONLY about herself.

I knew Kuhu was self centered but the extent that she went to in last night's episode sealed the deal for me. I just can't seem to relate with her character anymore.

Originally posted by: Fauzi

Zara.. Thank you so much for making this post... I Have been fuming after watching yesterday's episode... And after today's episode tho  🤬🤬

She's downright selfish... What she's talking is completely diabolical... She's saying she's feeling bad for hurting Mishti but then again she's hurting Abir also.. And the reason she's giving for doing this is her marriage will fall apart...

WTH!! Kunal is hell bent on spoiling their marriage.. Am waiting for the day she knows this..

If Kunal has a problem with Mishti shouldn't she be trying to make him see reason Atleast.. Didn't Abir and Mishti help her get married to her so called love of her life... Then what rights does she have to try to stop them from getting together..

I feel benba and Kunal are far better.. They are Atleast consistent on their actions... What kuhu, varsha and jas are doing is extremely hypocritical.. And makes them untrustworthy..

That's the thing na Kuhu uses people as per her convenience. I wish instead of fueling Kunal's hate she should have tried to make Kunal see reason on how his hate for Mishti is misplaced. I know it's far fetched but someday I want Kuhu to tell Kunal to move on from the rejection and to not dwell on it. I wish she could help Kunal be a better version of himself instead of resorting to desperate measures of trying to save her marriage she really needs to try to change Kunal's mindset.

Originally posted by: beguiling

I would like to start off by saying that I absolutely hated the contrived manner in which Kuhu was projected today. It was annoying to hear her feel concerned for Mishti when the problem (for whatever reasons) was caused by her in the first place.

Usually this contrived manner of showing characters as 'great' is used for Abir and Mishti, like how conveniently they showed MishBir wanting to seek BP and BM's blessings right after Abir makes his relationship with Mishti public. When until that point they had no issues hiding their relationship from their respective families. It also seems far from convincing when Mishti says yesterday that she is feeling worried for Kuhu when it didn't come across as that way at all. She was thinking about her date, about how BP and BM would react to her relationship with Abir, the dailogue about feeling worried for Kuhu was dropped in just to show how she is the big hearted girl always worried for her sister.

I don't think Kuhu is a character beyond redemption. Mishti and Abir were always only going to have conflicts because of external factors and in the current case the external factor (as pointed by the writers) happens to be Kuhu.

Then again there is this point that Abir never really seriously considered what impact him being with Mishti would have on Kunal. Right after the engagement broke off, Kunal was made to feel that Mishti is taking Abir away as Abir openly sided with Mishti right from the start and didn't show consideration for how Kunal feels about rejection.

Had Kunal been given the time to come to terms with the rejection without having to feel worried for how his brother is being with Mishti, probably his dislike for Mishti would not have gone magnified to the extent that he can't stand the sight of her and loses his temper almost everytime she is around.

I personally think it totally makes sense for Kuhu to think that if she is to try and save her marriage the first and foremost thing that needs to be done is that Mishti should stay away from the family. She doesn't have problem with Mishti and Abir being together, she has problem with how it impacts her relationship. More than what is Kuhu's undoing, Abir right now is only facing the consequences of his ignorance for his brother's feelings.

I agree with you on how Kuhu has poor characterisation but what you said in the bold part is not how I see Mishbir. I think the buildup of Mishbir trying to make their relationship public was shown very convincingly. After the Mumbai trip their reliance on each other and their feelings for each other have increased its one of the reasons they both said they will miss Mumbai. On top of that the scene with BM and BP convinced Mish that now it's high time that their relationship is out in the open as they need their elder's blessing. I see no harm in a couple planning ,thinking and talking about their future. Also the mention of Kuku and their well-being didn't feel forced the whole reason Mish wanted to meet Abir was because she knew he was feeling low due to his failed attempt to pacify Kunal.

Also about your other take on Abir. Well Abir is free to make his own decisions and Abir didn't openly side with Mish he just stood for what's right. Kunal just misinterpreted it as Abir picking Mishti over him. Did Kunal ever sit down with his brother and confess to him on the way he had been affected by the rejection or the way he feels about Mish if he had I am sure Abir would have put a rest to his doubts. Instead we had a Kunal who actively played Abir by convincing him that he is head over heels in love with Kuhu. Also Kunal being angry whenever he sees Mish is his probelm it's something he needs to figure out on his own it's not Abir's job to tell Kunal to move on. Kunal is a grown af adult it's high time he makes rational decisions.

For me Kuhu trying to save a sham marriage doesn't make sense at all. Kunal has legit treated her like trash and yet she is still trying to get in his good books to what end she will go? She has already killed her self respect for someone who is not worth it. Why is this girl wasting herself? I get it that one has to safeguard their relationship but not on the expense of other peoples happiness. This way Kuhu will never be happy she will always be guilty. I just wished they had shown her in a better way.

Originally posted by: beguiling

I would like to start off by saying that I absolutely hated the contrived manner in which Kuhu was projected today. It was annoying to hear her feel concerned for Mishti when the problem (for whatever reasons) was caused by her in the first place.

Usually this contrived manner of showing characters as 'great' is used for Abir and Mishti, like how conveniently they showed MishBir wanting to seek BP and BM's blessings right after Abir makes his relationship with Mishti public. When until that point they had no issues hiding their relationship from their respective families. It also seems far from convincing when Mishti says yesterday that she is feeling worried for Kuhu when it didn't come across as that way at all. She was thinking about her date, about how BP and BM would react to her relationship with Abir, the dailogue about feeling worried for Kuhu was dropped in just to show how she is the big hearted girl always worried for her sister.

I don't think Kuhu is a character beyond redemption. Mishti and Abir were always only going to have conflicts because of external factors and in the current case the external factor (as pointed by the writers) happens to be Kuhu.

Then again there is this point that Abir never really seriously considered what impact him being with Mishti would have on Kunal. Right after the engagement broke off, Kunal was made to feel that Mishti is taking Abir away as Abir openly sided with Mishti right from the start and didn't show consideration for how Kunal feels about rejection.

Had Kunal been given the time to come to terms with the rejection without having to feel worried for how his brother is being with Mishti, probably his dislike for Mishti would not have gone magnified to the extent that he can't stand the sight of her and loses his temper almost everytime she is around.

I personally think it totally makes sense for Kuhu to think that if she is to try and save her marriage the first and foremost thing that needs to be done is that Mishti should stay away from the family. She doesn't have problem with Mishti and Abir being together, she has problem with how it impacts her relationship. More than what is Kuhu's undoing, Abir right now is only facing the consequences of his ignorance for his brother's feelings.

I agree with you on how Kuhu has poor characterisation but what you said in the bold part is not how I see Mishbir. I think the buildup of Mishbir trying to make their relationship public was shown very convincingly. After the Mumbai trip their reliance on each other and their feelings for each other have increased its one of the reasons they both said they will miss Mumbai. On top of that the scene with BM and BP convinced Mish that now it's high time that their relationship is out in the open as they need their elder's blessing. I see no harm in a couple planning ,thinking and talking about their future. Also the mention of Kuku and their well-being didn't feel forced the whole reason Mish wanted to meet Abir was because she knew he was feeling low due to his failed attempt to pacify Kunal.

Also about your other take on Abir. Well Abir is free to make his own decisions and Abir didn't openly side with Mish he just stood for what's right. Kunal just misinterpreted it as Abir picking Mishti over him. Did Kunal ever sit down with his brother and confess to him on the way he had been affected by the rejection or the way he feels about Mish if he had I am sure Abir would have put a rest to his doubts. Instead we had a Kunal who actively played Abir by convincing him that he is head over heels in love with Kuhu. Also Kunal being angry whenever he sees Mish is his probelm it's something he needs to figure out on his own it's not Abir's job to tell Kunal to move on. Kunal is a grown af adult it's high time he makes rational decisions.

For me Kuhu trying to save a sham marriage doesn't make sense at all. Kunal has legit treated her like trash and yet she is still trying to get in his good books to what end she will go? She has already killed her self respect for someone who is not worth it. Why is this girl wasting herself? I get it that one has to safeguard their relationship but not on the expense of other peoples happiness. This way Kuhu will never be happy she will always be guilty. I just wished they had shown her in a better way.

I am sorry yaar I know that you like Kuhu and I get it and I apologize if I hurt your sentiments through this post but I wanted so much more our of Kuhu's character. It's just sad.

Beautiful post👏👏👏....I understand kuhu hates mish n she feels she is saving her marriage with kunal by doing everything to stop mish from entering RV house....but my biggest problem is why can’t she see how she is betraying abir in the entire process.....it is not only about mish only.....what about the bro equation she shares with him?...why can’t she see the collateral damage she is causing....even if she feels mish is doing some dramatics with abir....who has given her the right to take away love from abir....it is not like she does not know how much abir loves mish....he is damn serious about mish when he is willing to speak to BP...she knew that she is destroying his happiness n yet proceed with it....i always thought she respects abir but alas it was only abir who is actually maintaining the relationship....it was abir only who always treated her like a younger sister...

Her so called marriage wouldn’t had been possible if abir didn’t beg her so called mom varsha in the temple.....n bravo she is sabotaging his relationship to save her so called marriage which is already in shambles🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Right now, feeling so disgusted with her n varsha😡😡😡...thank you for this post as i could rant here...hope thats ok🤪

Originally posted by: Believer09

Beautiful post👏👏👏....I understand kuhu hates mish n she feels she is saving her marriage with kunal by doing everything to stop mish from entering RV house....but my biggest problem is why can’t she see how she is betraying abir in the entire process.....it is not only about mish only.....what about the bro equation she shares with him?...why can’t she see the collateral damage she is causing....even if she feels mish is doing some dramatics with abir....who has given her the right to take away love from abir....it is not like she does not know how much abir loves mish....he is damn serious about mish when he is willing to speak to BP...she knew that she is destroying his happiness n yet proceed with it....i always thought she respects abir but alas it was only abir who is actually maintaining the relationship....it was abir only who always treated her like a younger sister...

Her so called marriage wouldn’t had been possible if abir didn’t beg her so called mom varsha in the temple.....n bravo she is sabotaging his relationship to save her so called marriage which is already in shambles🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Right now, feeling so disgusted with her n varsha😡😡😡...thank you for this post as i could rant here...hope thats ok🤪

You can vent out as much as you want the only reason I made this post was to vent out my frustration. Exactly I am just disgusted on how almost everyone ignores Abir's happiness they all just take him for granted. Kuhu isn't even bothered one bit that in her quest to save her marriage she is hurting not just one but two people. A person that you rightly pointed out legit begged for her ristha and even guaranteed her happiness and safety. What is Abir's fault in all of this and it's not like she hasn't seen the extent of Abir's feelings. She saw him chiding himself after she pushed Mish and she saw him confessing in public that he loves Mish so why is she just ignoring all of that.