That time she was not a mother. Bache ko apne hath mein lena mehsoos krna or just pregnant hona do bahut different experiences hai.
Baccha hath mai ho ya uterus mai ho.... Bacche ke future ko safe rakhna maa ki responsibility hoti hai. Jis din apke tummy mai implantation hota hai usi din se aap mother bann jate ho or aapka har ek action aap ke bacche par asar karta hai. Jab aap apni marzi se ek nanhi si jaan ko apne ander implant karte ho tab se uska future aap ki responsibility bann jata hai.
Stepmother ko wo nahi layi hai...she went to stop the marriage...kyuki usne kartik ko ye kehte hue sunna ki he wants to move on or ye wo apne liye chahta hai..toh naira ka nature kabhi bhi kisi ki kushiyon mein taang adane ka nahi hai. Wo kyu sochti ki kartik usse yad krke rota hai ? Wo wapis ayi thi... batane bhi ki wo pregnant hai even after question hum ye bhool thodi skte hai ki wo wapis ayi thi.
Apne bete ki khushiyon ki hifasat karna bhi naira ke nature/character mai hona chahiye tha.Apne bete ki khushiyan kartik ke sath hai or yeh baat usko pata tha fir bhi apne bete ki khushion ka ek baar bhi nai socha or shaddi hone diya. Woh wapas ayi thi or half hearted attempt kar k goa chali gai. Chupna/bhagna/chupana kabhi bhi kisi bhi reason se sahi nai ho sakta.
Misunderstanding hui usse whi jiski bat wo aaj kr rhi hai. Usse abhi tk ye nhi pta hai ki kartik was forced to get married.
Are in real life log apne bcho ke liye domestic abuse seh lete hai. I have a friend whoese father beats her mother and still they are together because they have 4 kids.
Toh ek aurat jo independent hai....akeli hai uske liye bahut zada asan hai faisla krke chle jana but ek jaan jab aapke apne hatho mein hoti hai tab aap apne self respect ke bare mein sochte zarror hai par kuch nhi kr skte. Uski kya galati. Shaq kra kartik ne...dimag mein dala dadi ne.... wo toh wapis ayi thi. Situation aisi hogyi ki usne glt sun liya.
5 saal tak duniya se/family se chupte rehna , apne zinda hone ki baat ko chupana dunia ki kisi adalat mai sahi nai mana jata .... Sherni hai na to wapis ayi thi to sab ko face kyun nai kiya ? Logo ka to kam hota hai shaq karna/sawal karna , sherni ko bhi face karna ana chahiye .Yaha to sherni goa ja kar chup gai.
Kl ko agr wo try krti hai jane ka toh usse kairav ke bina jane ko bol dege...toh koi b maa apne bache ko chor kr jati hai ? Wo bina khaye peeye reh legi...chaar batein sun legi...pride ko nigal legi...lekin apne bete ko akele nhi choregi.
Rhi bat kairav ko smjhane ki....toh puri life uski usne spne dekhe hai mum papa ke... or naira is guilt mein hai ki agr wo wapis door legyi toh sab wapis tut jayega...tum ek chaar saal ke bche ko zabrdasti lejaoge ? Kya kahoge ? Aisa bacha jo bimar hai.
Char saal ke bacche ko samjana itna bhi mushkil nai hota since woh sirf 4 saal ka hai. 4 saal ka baccha sahi galat nai samajta lekin parents to 4 saal ke nai hai na. Jab aap 4 saal tak chup kar rehne mai dimag laga sakte ho to definitely 4 saal ke bacche ko samja bhi sakte ho.Stories banane mai aise bhi naira expert hai so it's not big deal for her.
Vedika ka pyar dekhkr hasi ati hai. Shi mein...bahut hi dil kush krne wala pyar hai...jha sirf apne liye aap apke hi pyar ke bche ko usse door krte hai. Wo toh ye b nhi chahti ki naira singhanias ke pass jaye...bas kahi door chali jaye.... wah... finally she said ...what she thinks. I hated that how she said about making kairav a dhal that was such a disgusting dialogue...because no mother does that.
Chipkali is selfish but chipkali ko current wife banne kisne diya? Chipkali ka shaddi kabhi nai hota agar naira apna sab energy chupte rehne mai nai lgati to...time bhi tha...pata bhi tha...fir bhi chipkali ka shaddi kartik ke sath uske whatsoever reasons ki wajah se hone diya.
Also mein toh puchna chahti hu..ki kya krna chaiye tha naira ko...kl ko agr kairav ki sensitivity problem wapis le ayi tab everyone will say ki gyi hi kyu thi apne bache ke bare mein sochna tha...usse phir apne papa se alg krdiya...or nhi kr rhi abhi toh hum self respect pr bol rhe hai.
Pehli baat naira jisko fans sherni bolte hai usko 5 saal pehle sabko face karna chahiye tha or chup kar to bahot he galat kiya. Dusri baat jab 5 saal baad wapas ayi tab sirf or sirf kairav ke future ke liye shaddi ko rok lena chahiye tha. Tisri baat abhi vedika usko jane ko bol rahi hai to iss bar kartik se kuch bhi nai chupana chahiye or kartik ko baith kar vedika ka kya bol rahi hai woh bata dena chahiye . Kartik ko batayegi to shayad kartik custody bina koi rasta nikalne ka soch sakta hai kairav ki happiness ke liye and we all know how much he loves his son.
BUT these all 3 points helps only when jab naira thoda mature ban kar baate chupana bandh kare.
Agr naira ke pov se dekha jaye toh wo toh har jgh se fas gyi hai. Stand ek bar ke liye le legi uske bad agr kartik ne koi mehnga ya acha lawyer krdiya or custody loose krdegi toh uske pass uske bache ke alava hai kaun ? Koi nhi.
Dusri bat agr wo nhi kre ..kartik ko bataye ko kdadi or sb usse dosh denge vedika or kartik ke bich ane ka..
Rhi bat uske mahaan bnne ki... toh atleast wo baki logo ki trh bekar toh nhi hai.
Jo insan itna insensitive ho jaye ki family ko apne aap ko mara hua samaj ne de or sab se chupta rahe usse bekar to koi or ho he nai sakta....5 saal choro ki tarah chupti rahi family se... isse bekar act kya ho sakta hai.
Edited by sweet_tania - 6 years ago
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