And here start the controversial episodes of khkt. First of all, I would request all the forum members to be team ronakshi forever and not divide between team Rohit n team sonakshi. We have to preserve the peace n fun of this wonderful forum and not turn this into battlefield unlike many other forums. It is going to be a rollercoaster ride for ronakshi as well as us and we all have to sail through it together. One of all the characters is bound to create some negativity among the viewers, most probably Rohit, because we expect all good things in favour of ronakshi from him and expectations will lead to certain disappointments. But those who can see through the negativity and find some sense in a character's behaviour, let's also help others to see it n keep this forum peaceful.
Anyways, enough of my gyaan. Coming to the episode, we have only watched the precap. Let's wait for tomorrow before we jump guns on Rohit. Maybe he'll apologize to her right away, or after his church visit, or never. Let's see. But one thing is sure that he's gonna go through such emotional imbalance more frequently now that he is kinda realising his love, he is still stuck in the guilt for raima, raima is going to make a reentry, he is trying to deny his feelings for Sona, yet can't control them...omg too much mess!!
As much as I expect him to behave sane to the best of his ability, for one, I wouldn't want Sona to ignore him or create distance. I am claiming this from my personal experience. When we r trying to move on, we need unconditional support from the one with whom we r moving on. In this process, we say such things or do such things which really hurt our partner, but that's the acid test of our new relationship. Bearing those hurtful words or things doesn't mean that person is being mahaan or doormat. It only means that person is giving u space and time to sort your emotional mess. Moving on doesn't happen in a moment. Even if u have completely moved on before u enter a new relationship, u r bound to remember similar things in the past relationship when u face those in Ur new one. Only with time u forget the memories of past and embrace Ur current relationship. And trust me when ur partner gives u this support and space, u love them like never before. U have that sense of gratefulness for Ur partner forever. U don't face any insecurity ever, because u have experienced that Ur partner didn't leave u out of insecurity or jealousy when u were talking things about Ur ex partner. We definitely won't see this in a show, but in real life, there r times when u back off in the middle of Ur intimate moments during the initial phase of relationship remembering Ur past or speak out something about past that spoils the current moment. Imagine if in such moments, Ur partner understands u, holds u closer, comforts u, says its ok rather than immaturely distancing from u, wouldn't it be easier for u to go for this new beginning? U will absolutely fall more for Ur new love!!
Rohit is confused and stuck between past and present. But Sona has a clarity about her own and Rohit's feelings as well. She has that trust in him. So tomorrow if she forgives him, stands by his side, gives him time and space, please don't misunderstand her that she's being Parvati. By this, she'll be creating the strongest base for their relationship where there will be no chance for any third person. After all, a relationship is not about Ur and my things, it's about our things! U can't say sort out ur own mess and then come, u have to sort all the mess together to make Ur relationship beautiful!!
And trust me, Rohit is not someone who will be oblivious to the suffering of Sona. He might hurt her in the heat of the moment, time and again he might, but he will be well aware of that and he will take responsibility of that, he will make amends, no matter whether they are in friendship or in a relationship!
Let's pray in the ear of ganpati bappa, may things go as smoothly as they can!!
Seher Hone Ko Hai
