Kuhu what a character - Page 3

Dunno what she did currently but i was highly impressed with her "go to hell" attitude with kunal , who ordered her to not return after pagphera. Way to go ! She is always stupid when it comes to mishti.

Originally posted by: beguiling

This might be taken otherwise (and I do not mean to say it in the sense that I don't think Mishti could have got grievously injured) but in the whole pushing incident I actually felt more for Kuhu than for Mishti. The very fact that the incident wasn't seen as a way to turn Kuhu into a vamp but rather further more impart depth to the character is something I really appreciate. I would say the writers still went overboard because the scene STILL looked forced (atleast to me) but well yeah kudos to them for not handling it in the stereotypical way. Time and again it has been shown that while Kuhu may say horrible things to Mishti but when it really comes down to harming her sister she never really means to do it, unlike Meenakshi and Kunal who actually bloody well want to and do harm others.

I wish the writing gives the same sensibilities to Abir and Mishti as well to realize where they went wrong. It was honestly horrible the way they were shown sneaking into a married couple's life in today's episode without even pausing to think that it is not right to do so. Even more horrible was how Abir sorta manipulated his way into not revealing the truth to Mishti that Kunal had ran away from the wedding on the wedding day. The excuse that Mishti is not ready to hear the truth sounded so lame. When Kuhu could accept and try to deal with the fact that her then groom-to-be and now husband had actually fled away from the wedding as he didn't intend to marry her, then why won't Mishti be able to handle the truth? If Abir thinks the two sisters can't really deal with such bitter truths in life than he clearly undermines their capability to face reality. Moreover, Abir had no right to hide such a truth especially from Kuhu let alone from Mishti (whom he himself earlier asked to be honest with him no matter what the situation) Let's just say he didn't tell the truth to Mishti because she had met with an accident and such a piece of information would have further stressed her more. But what of the time when she had not met with an accident? We don't really see Abir wanting to share the truth then either and am not even bringing up Kuhu because fortunately or unfortunately she learnt the truth on her wedding night from Kunal himself. (I do wonder if Kuhu thinks that the Rajvansh family was not aware that Kunal had ran away because she doesn't seem to be questioning the family members on why such a truth was hidden from her and Kunal also didn't specify whether the family was aware or not)

I tend to not say too much when it comes to Kuhu as a character since I really can't bring myself to think of her as anything more than a person who has been the biggest abuser and cause to Mishti's insecurities and self-doubt. However, I sometimes do give her the benefit of doubt in circumstances that are clearly out of her control. I understand where the girl is coming from but unlike a lot of people in the forum, I never excuse or defend her for the things she does, intentionally or not. I absolutely despised how the creatives handled the fall and post-fall situation in last 2 episodes. If they were going with Kuhu redemption, this was the absolute worst way to do it. The girl could have literally killed her sister. But as usual, just like everything Kuhu says and does, the situation was twisted into something 'not that serious' while it could have been anything but that in real life. As someone rightly pointed out, the girl clearly has issues that needs immediate mental therapy. She has absolutely no right or reason to hate on her sister or be the constant cause of heartache most times.

While I don't disagree with Mishti interfering in Kuhu's life, I constantly wonder why people don't see how interfering Kuhu is in Mishti's life the same way. The girl keeps competing with every thing Mishti does. Dance, Singing, job, even a relationship. She is obsessed with wanting to out-do Mishti that she can't even stand her sister being happy in love. Basically, Mishti can never be happy as long as Kuhu is not winning over her in some sort of way. You can call it immature but I call that needing help. If that isn't toxic mentality that needs help, I don't know what is.

As majority opinion is among all the fans, I too agree that Mishti and Abir need to stop interfering in Kuku's relationship/marriage. However, I have to point out that Abir and Mishti did not sneak into Kuhu or Kunal's room, the way you put it. Mishti was clearly trying to sneak out of the house when they accidentally came across a clearly 'open to be viewed' room of Kuku. They did not go out of their way to see what they were doing. They didn't have to, since the binds were clearly not closed. (with a huge secret as their pretend marriage in line, I wonder why Kuhu and Kunal never bothered to close the binds to their room.🤔) So yes they accidentally got to know about the current problem in Kuku's married life. Being the overbearing mother hens that both are when it comes to their immature siblings, they felt the need to do something about it as they always do. I am however not defending them or calling them right. Only pointing out the situation as how it happened and how I see Mishbir as siblings. Kuhu and Kunal have always been dependent on their siblings to right their wrongs. They are partly responsible for the marriage as well, therefore I see why they would want to do something about it. Again, not saying it is right but only that they haven't crossed any lines 'yet' or invaded their privacy intentionally. If anyone crossed a line with invading another couple's privacy, it's Kuhu, Meenu and Kunal, by threatening Mishti or trying to sabotage Mishbir's relationship time and again.

Talking about Mishbir, rationally thinking, I completely agree that Abir had not an entirely convincing reason to hide the truth from Mishti yesterday. However, Mishti does tend to blame herself for everything unfortunate happening around her. (Again, I don't see how people don't understand where this girl is coming from if they can see where Kuhu is coming from? What would a girl's first thought be if everyone else around her have constantly been blaming her and calling her the cause for every unfortunate thing that happens in their life? ) So I can understand why he hesitated in wanting to reveal a truth that big to her when she was clearly in self-blame mode back in the car. Sometimes when you hide a truth for too long, it becomes difiicult to find the right moment to come clean about it. Since the comparison was definitely made between the sisters here, I'd like to add my 2 cents as well. You seem to forget that the very first thing Kuhu did when the truth was revealed was to blame Mishti for it and we know exactly how well she has been dealing with it so far. Definitely not what I'd call exemplary. Of course, understanding Mishti the way he does, Abir knew that is exactly what Mishti would have done as well. She is clearly still sick and I don't blame him for not wanting to reveal something that would definitely cause her to lose a night's sleep over.

What I'm trying to say is, it's not what I 'expected' Abir to do but I understand why he did it. Besides I'm more concerned in the creatives using this particular truth to create misunderstandings between the two. I can already see how horrible and annoying that particular phase is going to be. I just hope they justify it better than the way they handled Kuhu redemption.

Originally posted by: misaki

I tend to not say too much when it comes to Kuhu as a character since I really can't bring myself to think of her as anything more than a person who has been the biggest abuser and cause to Mishti's insecurities and self-doubt. However, I sometimes do give her the benefit of doubt in circumstances that were clearly out of her control. I understand where the girl is coming from but unlike a lot of people in the forum, I never excuse or defend her for the things she does, intentionally or not. I absolutely despised how the creatives handled the fall and post-fall situation in last 2 episodes. If they were going with Kuhu redemption, this was the absolute worst way to do it. The girl could have literally killed her sister. But as usual, just like everything Kuhu says and does, the situation was twisted into something 'not that serious' while it could have been anything but that in real life. As someone rightly pointed out, the girl clearly has issues that needs immediate mental therapy. She has absolutely no right or reason to hate on her sister or be the constant cause of heartache most times.

While I don't disagree with Mishti interfering in Kuhu's life, I constantly wonder why people don't see how interfering Kuhu is in Mishti's life the same way. The girl keeps competing with every thing Mishti does. Dance, Singing, job, even a relationship. She is obsessed with wanting to out-do Mishti that she can't even stand her sister being happy in love. Basically, Mishti can never be happy as long as Kuhu is not winning over her in some sort of way. You can call it immature but I call that needing help. If that isn't toxic mentality that needs help, I don't know what is.

As majority opinion is among all the fans, I too agree that Mishti and Abir need to stop interfering in Kuku's relationship/marriage. However, I have to point out that Abir and Mishti did not sneak into Kuhu or Kunal's room, the way you put it. Mishti was clearly trying to sneak out of the house when they accidentally came across a clearly 'open to be viewed' room of Kuku. They did not go out of their way to see what they were doing. They didn't have to, since the binds were clearly not closed. (with a huge secret as their pretend marriage in line, I wonder why Kuhu and Kunal never bothered to close the binds to their room.🤔) So yes they accidentally got to know about the current problem in Kuku's married life. Being the overbearing mother hens that both are when it comes to their immature siblings, they felt the need to do something about it as they always do. I am however not defending them or calling them right. Only pointing out the situation as how it happened and how I see Mishbir as siblings. Kuhu and Kunal have always been dependent on their siblings to right their wrongs. They are partly responsible for the marriage as well, therefore I see why they would want to do something about it. Again, not saying it is right but only that they haven't crossed any lines 'yet' or invaded their privacy intentionally. If anyone crossed a line with invading another couple's privacy, it's Kuhu, Meenu and Kunal, by threatening Mishti or trying to sabotage Mishbir's relationship time and again.

Talking about Mishbir, rationally thinking, I completely agree that Abir had not an entirely convincing reason to hide the truth from Mishti yesterday. However, Mishti does tend to blame herself for everything unfortunate happening around her. (Again, I don't see how people don't understand where this girl is coming from if they can see where Kuhu is coming from? What would a girl's first thought be if everyone else around her have constantly been blaming her and calling her the cause for every unfortunate thing that happens in their life? ) So I can understand why he hesitated in wanting to reveal a truth that big to her when she was clearly in self-blame mode back in the car. Sometimes when you hide a truth for too long, it becomes difiicult to find the right moment to come clean about it. Since the comparison was definitely made between the sisters here, I'd like to add my 2 cents as well. You seem to forget that the very first thing Kuhu did when the truth was revealed was to blame Mishti for it and we know exactly how well she has been dealing with it so far. Definitely not what I'd call exemplary. Of course, understanding Mishti the way he does, Abir knew that is exactly what Mishti would have done as well. She is definitely still sick and I don't blame him for not wanting to reveal something that would definitely cause her to lose a night's sleep over.

What I'm trying to say is, it's definitely not what I 'expected' Abir to do but I understand why he did it. Besides I'm more concerned in the creatives using this particular truth to create misunderstandings between the two. I can already see how horrible and annoying that particular phase is going to be. I just hope they justify it better than the way they handled Kuhu redemption.

Kuhu is definitely not redeemed in my eyes until she asks for forgiveness in front of everyone for the email fiasco(since it happened infront of everyone) and also the fall. It was a criminal act according to me. Sorry if I am offending anybody here.

Originally posted by: beguiling

Even though that dream felt like a dream (far from reality) but it was kinda cute. Can Kunal please shoot down whatever his lawyer was suggesting 🤔

Originally posted by: misaki

I tend to not say too much when it comes to Kuhu as a character since I really can't bring myself to think of her as anything more than a person who has been the biggest abuser and cause to Mishti's insecurities and self-doubt. However, I sometimes do give her the benefit of doubt in circumstances that are clearly out of her control. I understand where the girl is coming from but unlike a lot of people in the forum, I never excuse or defend her for the things she does, intentionally or not. I absolutely despised how the creatives handled the fall and post-fall situation in last 2 episodes. If they were going with Kuhu redemption, this was the absolute worst way to do it. The girl could have literally killed her sister. But as usual, just like everything Kuhu says and does, the situation was twisted into something 'not that serious' while it could have been anything but that in real life. As someone rightly pointed out, the girl clearly has issues that needs immediate mental therapy. She has absolutely no right or reason to hate on her sister or be the constant cause of heartache most times.

While I don't disagree with Mishti interfering in Kuhu's life, I constantly wonder why people don't see how interfering Kuhu is in Mishti's life the same way. The girl keeps competing with every thing Mishti does. Dance, Singing, job, even a relationship. She is obsessed with wanting to out-do Mishti that she can't even stand her sister being happy in love. Basically, Mishti can never be happy as long as Kuhu is not winning over her in some sort of way. You can call it immature but I call that needing help. If that isn't toxic mentality that needs help, I don't know what is.

As majority opinion is among all the fans, I too agree that Mishti and Abir need to stop interfering in Kuku's relationship/marriage. However, I have to point out that Abir and Mishti did not sneak into Kuhu or Kunal's room, the way you put it. Mishti was clearly trying to sneak out of the house when they accidentally came across a clearly 'open to be viewed' room of Kuku. They did not go out of their way to see what they were doing. They didn't have to, since the binds were clearly not closed. (with a huge secret as their pretend marriage in line, I wonder why Kuhu and Kunal never bothered to close the binds to their room.🤔) So yes they accidentally got to know about the current problem in Kuku's married life. Being the overbearing mother hens that both are when it comes to their immature siblings, they felt the need to do something about it as they always do. I am however not defending them or calling them right. Only pointing out the situation as how it happened and how I see Mishbir as siblings. Kuhu and Kunal have always been dependent on their siblings to right their wrongs. They are partly responsible for the marriage as well, therefore I see why they would want to do something about it. Again, not saying it is right but only that they haven't crossed any lines 'yet' or invaded their privacy intentionally. If anyone crossed a line with invading another couple's privacy, it's Kuhu, Meenu and Kunal, by threatening Mishti or trying to sabotage Mishbir's relationship time and again.

Talking about Mishbir, rationally thinking, I completely agree that Abir had not an entirely convincing reason to hide the truth from Mishti yesterday. However, Mishti does tend to blame herself for everything unfortunate happening around her. (Again, I don't see how people don't understand where this girl is coming from if they can see where Kuhu is coming from? What would a girl's first thought be if everyone else around her have constantly been blaming her and calling her the cause for every unfortunate thing that happens in their life? ) So I can understand why he hesitated in wanting to reveal a truth that big to her when she was clearly in self-blame mode back in the car. Sometimes when you hide a truth for too long, it becomes difiicult to find the right moment to come clean about it. Since the comparison was definitely made between the sisters here, I'd like to add my 2 cents as well. You seem to forget that the very first thing Kuhu did when the truth was revealed was to blame Mishti for it and we know exactly how well she has been dealing with it so far. Definitely not what I'd call exemplary. Of course, understanding Mishti the way he does, Abir knew that is exactly what Mishti would have done as well. She is clearly still sick and I don't blame him for not wanting to reveal something that would definitely cause her to lose a night's sleep over.

What I'm trying to say is, it's not what I 'expected' Abir to do but I understand why he did it. Besides I'm more concerned in the creatives using this particular truth to create misunderstandings between the two. I can already see how horrible and annoying that particular phase is going to be. I just hope they justify it better than the way they handled Kuhu redemption.

100% agree with you.. i dont know why big issues like mental harassment, trying to kill your own sister, for your happy married life trying to snatch your sister love these are all became small things and childish behaviour and so many people justifying it here but mishbir did not sneak into their siblings bedroom its an accidental veiw but it has became big issue.

kuhu has mental problems and she is criminal she should be punished

I am honestly glad Kuhu was human enough to feel remorse after causing Mishti's fall and is finally blaming Kunal and giving it back to it. That aside, I really don't get how so many of her glaring deflects are justified and am finding it hard to sympathize with her at this point. Lets forget the stupid fights and petty insecurity/competition between the two sisters. Some of the other things Kuhu has willfully done-

- Called Mishti a puppy/ a charity case and repeating that she is not wanted in anyone's life

- Right after she found out from Kunal that Abir and Mishti probably love each other, she manipulated her mom into setting up Sourav's rishta with Mishti (though she herself was in love and went through the hurt of almost losing that person)

- Willfully participated with Kunal in keeping Abir and Mishti away from each other. Sent Kunal and Shwet's photos from Mishti's e-mail ID and got her insulted in front of the whole family without an ounce of guilt (even after she was confronted by Mishti). The worse part here is that she has repeatedly seen Abir take a stand for her. The fact that she feels zero guilt about plotting to ruin his love life is what makes it worse.

- Now the latest one. Impulsively caused Mishti's fall. Yes she felt bad but Mishti could have died. And I dont see her confessing to any of this anytime soon.

My point is a lot of stuff Kuhu does is plain bullying and can even be categorized as a 'crime'. This false equivalency with Abir and Mishti's flaws makes no sense IMO. Abir and Mishti maybe flawed but the biggest difference is that they don't willfully harm anyone. Nor do they plan and plot to hurt people in the guise of protecting their loved ones. Yes their over interference in Kuhu-Kunal's marital life is super annoying (lets not forget, they stumbled upon their sleeping arrangement by chance just like Nidhi mami did in the morning) and I'd love to see them focus on their own lives but they are interfering out of some stupid God complex and need to babysit their siblings and make things better for them unlike Kunal and Kuhu who actually plotted just to separate them.

Coming to Abir, yes he should definitely come clean and reveal that Kunal ran away on the wedding day at least to Mishti because am afraid they will use this as a plot point in the future to create a misunderstanding between the two but the reasoning here (as flawed as it is) is that Kunal ran away after writing a letter blaming Mishti for it. And Abir knows Mishti already blames herself for everything. Also he does not really comprehend the severity of the situation. He thinks its primarily his mom's fault and Kunal loves Kuhu so the issue will be sorted out. Its the same reason Mishti hasn't revealed to Abir what his mom put her through. Ideally, they should be open to each other but I can see the writers using it to create issues between them in the future 😆

P.S. All this mess could have been avoided if Kunal wasn't this big a coward. All he had to do was confess and man up. Yes, I ran away, yes we plotted to separate bhai from Mishti, yes I dont want to marry and am sorry for it. And then face all the consequences. Instead he chose to shut up and marry and landed everyone in a soup.

RS is making Misti's character as Gopi Bahu who try to solve all her family's problem but only difference is Misti is educated & is not as submissive as Gopi.

Kunal & Kuhu should broke off .Both Mishbir & Kuhu,Kunal will have a peaceful life.

Let me also give my 2 cents here

1.kuhu never really means to hurt Mishti...but she ends up hurting Mishti emotionally physically mentally .by always blaming her right from entering in her life to Kunal marrying her as a deal......email Fiasco..that was a cyber crime .. pushing the human pyramid...this could have been dangerous not only for Mishti but also for Abir and the other boys there..kuhu was just plain lucky there that nothing serious happened....the sisters have promised each other not to interfere in each other's lives ...I can clearly see none of them are going to keep this promise

2. Mishbir weren't purposely sneaking there...it was a by chance thing... they weren't like ohh let's see what kuku are doing in the bedroom....purposely sneaking is what Meenu does... listening to kuku conversations on phone... that's not only horrible but disgusting at many levels

3.i would have blamed Abir for not disclosing the truth to kuhu and Mishti but there is a reason and not a lame one ..he wants to discuss the matter with Kunal first....it's logical to discuss the matter with the brother first rather than the girlfriend or sister in law......he was very clear about it on the wedding day when he told parul that he will have a conversation with Kunal.. it's just 2 days after the wedding..first being the phagphera day n the other being the Janmashtami one...I hope he does the conversation soon

4 coming to Abir not revealing the truth at the moment to the sisters

-..he has seen kuhu almost ready to jump from the terrace that day...just after knowing that Kunal dosent love her ...he is being careful here ...one truth and she may repeat that...he dosent know kuhu is much stronger now that ways...he is just being careful...as he said to mishti also that he isn't sure about what's going on

-he knows mish will blame herself for that...that wasn't a lame excuse...it was a logical one ...mish is actually blaming herself for all the fiasco and why wouldn't she...if you have people like Varsha jas and kuhu who blame you for the xyz happenings ...after a while your psychology develops to blame yourself only...he is just being careful here

The only problem with Abir is that he believed that a girl a love will change kunal's attitude in life ...and Meenu and Munna tricked him there...made him believe through many incidents that Kunal loves kuhu and wants to marry her

The only problem with mishti is that she feels that she is indebted to mahs...and in a way if she helps kuhu get her love.. atleast kuhu will stop blaming her

I hope mishbir share the entire truth with each other ... only then they will be able to solve the problem..I don't see this happening...the writers are definitely playing here

Having said that I am glad that instead of being ablanaari kuhu is rightly giving it back to Kunal ..infact only kuhu can handle him that ways...it's really a treat to watch ..kuhu is an interesting character at the moment but can't justify her for whatever she did with Mishti..

Originally posted by: Miracle_sweet

I don't see how you can feel bad for Kunal and not for Kuhu.

Kunal has only himself to blame for being trapped in a loveless marriage, at least he knew what was going on. He has an active hand in it. He knowingly betrayed Kuhu. On the other hand, Kunal is making it harder for Kuhu, he didn't want the confrontation of his own actions, so he wanted Kuhu to tell everyone that the marriage was a sham from his side. He doesn't even have the courage to face the consequences of his own actions. At least Kuhu can admit her mistakes and is more mature than Kunal in the fact that she can reflect on her actions.

Kuhu on the other hand is immature yes, and I don't think all her actions should go unpunished or should be ignored. But she actually shows regret, and remorse. Not only does she feel sorry, but she actively acts on that and through her actions tries to rectify it.

I think Kuhu is a far better person, with a cleaner, warmer heart than Kunal.

see i have not watched the show from start so i could be wrong.

Kunal was blackmailed to marry Kuhu .He has his fair share of kartuts. He pretended to love her but dint want to marry her .He hasn't harmed anyone physically . His intention is to save his brother from evil(in his mind) Mishti. And ya he wanted Kuhu to tell everybody otherwise he will reveal the truth.

On the other hand Kuhu was desperate to marry Kunal .even after knowing the truth she forces her husband is to stay with her .There is something called self respect which is missing. For her showing off perfect married life is more important . Kuhu is an interesting character no doubt. but as a human she fails .

I saw a clip where Mishti was not ready to sacrifice her glasses .For her self respect is more important than superficial things .she fights for herself. Makers are probably trying to show two contrast characters. Nonetheless both Mishti n kuhu r portrayed nicely