Disappointment with the show

As I log on to twitter or even the chats here, all I see is complains about the show. Complains about how there is less Mishbir screen space, more Kuku negativity, and useless tracks. I agree with many that the show has more negativity than it did before. Especially concerning everyone hating Mishti. Despite my understanding of these problems of the show, I still don't think that we should be complaining only about the negatives. It is disheartening to see someone say "I am quitting the show", and although I agree it is their opinion, I still feel we should be giving a chance. Our show has many positives. The last week episodes were not so bad. There were jokes, sweet moments between Abir and Ketki, zehanaseeb, and mami and jugnu jokes that everyone tends to overlook. They even included a topic of feminism. The past 2 episodes were bad and so everyone starts bashing the show and losing hope. Regarding the topic about everyone hating Mishti, I think we had always seen this hatred from the beginning of the show. And regarding kuku screenspace, I think we have ranted enough that the makers probably know. And regarding the bad editing of the Friday episode, all I can say is that it happens. No one can be perfect, and that also applies to the editors. I feel that we have conveyed our dislike. I understand that the date was important and exciting, and kuku interrupted it, but if we see the two scenes separately, both were good. The way Kuhu is handling the situation by blackmailing is not correct but atleast they are not showing kuhu as a silent wife withstanding all the husband's torture. I just feel that everyone just wants to complain about the show. I think constructive criticism is okay but continuously just bashing the show is wrong. It prevents one from enjoying the show. On top of that, there are people who just make up random predictions or blindly believe in spoilers. I can tell you that I have read many spoilers while these few months since the show started and 60% of these are false probably because it was written by someone who is a fan. I only reason I am ranting about the fandom is that it feels bad to see many people jumping to conclusions when we have not seen the entire track. Anyways, our show has it's flaws and it's loopholes but atleast it is not like others that promote marrying an old guy, or marrying your brother-in-law or even second marriage. Let's have some patience!

And although I said all this, does not mean I support mental abuse or blackmailing. I just feel that we forget to appreciate the show while we criticize it.

I stopped watching the show, watched today after a long time, only to find the number of hostile people against mishti has increased. WTH? Jasmeet hates mishti the most, which makes no sense because she has no reason to hate her. Varsha has become awful. The stupidest thing is all these characters see kunal doesn't like mishti at all, yet never question why he still hates her despite he himself happily claiming to love kuhu and wanting to marry her. How has nobody questioned that if kunal loves kuhu and wanted to marry her genuinely, why is he still so hung up on mishti's rejection of him?

So two wrong make everything right

If other shows r shot then yrhpk shit should be not made a topic as it is smaller

Okay if u r kartik fan of yrkkh because he even make such type of comment that ya I was wring but she was more wrong

Originally posted by: sammy17

I stopped watching the show, watched today after a long time, only to find the number of hostile people against mishti has increased. WTH? Jasmeet hates mishti the most, which makes no sense because she has no reason to hate her. Varsha has become awful. The stupidest thing is all these characters see kunal doesn't like mishti at all, yet never question why he still hates her despite he himself happily claiming to love kuhu and wanting to marry her. How has nobody questioned that if kunal loves kuhu and wanted to marry her genuinely, why is he still so hung up on mishti's rejection of him?

I totally agree though! I hope we at least get to see Mishti standing up for herself. Even I think the story has to move on further with progressive topics rather than showing hatred and abuse

Originally posted by: adni143

So two wrong make everything right

If other shows r shot then yrhpk shit should be not made a topic as it is smaller

Okay if u r kartik fan of yrkkh because he even make such type of comment that ya I was wring but she was more wrong

I request you to be more polite as this language is quite rude and offensive. No, I am not saying that the mistakes are correct but I am only saying that we must wait and watch for the entire track to reveal itself. Like how you recently assumed that Mishti and Abir will sacrifice again without even seeing what will happen. And no, I am not a fan of karthik or whatever. I don't even watch the show but know what is happening as people in the forum is discussing it.

Originally posted by: Trigonometry290

I request you to be more polite as this language is quite rude and offensive. No, I am not saying that the mistakes are correct but I am only saying that we must wait and watch for the entire track to reveal itself. Like how you recently assumed that Mishti and Abir will sacrifice again without even seeing what will happen. And no, I am not a fan of karthik or whatever. I don't even watch the show but know what is happening as people in the forum is discussing it.

sorry for my comment being rude

but which track u rasking to unfold

two track unfolded one mishti asking sorry in party and abir was like oh mishti u r so mahan

second meenu one mishti not even telling abir what his mom or why she did not even telling anyone

abir we like kya kar sakta hoon meri mom hai jail toh nahin bhej sakta

mishti always main date pe nahin aa sakti abir

next track with spoiler is nothing new

as bechari mishti gave them trp then next track is going to again sacrificing

or making kuku date and forcing them to have suhaagrat and baccha

like how they will do sulah between kuku if they dont want

if spoiler is about strong mishbir then possibility r its wrong but if it is of sacrifice or bechari or giving kuku priority then expect it to be 100 percent correct

I don't know if I can get my message to you, but what I am saying is exactly what you are not understanding. I stated that we must not assume that they will sacrifice, and we must wait for the track to unfold, and by track I mean the Mishti falling and the Kuku problem being revealed to Abir. I mean whatever you are saying with 100% conviction can be wrong, and you saying this is only causing negativity in a fandom that is already annoyed with the current Kuku's importance. And about the Mishti apologizing, she was told by her dad and abir that it was not necessary for apologizing when it was not her mistake. If you find this show annoying all I can suggest is not watching it rather than making negative predictions which nobody knows if it is true or not. I am sorry if I come to be offensive but I always found this show unique and even though it has reduced in terms of quality I still liked some new episodes like the confession and even yesterday's episodes. I just believe that we must expect and hope for good and positive content as the more negative we predict like this, the more regressive tracks we will get if CVs reads it. Like how someone rather preferred memory loss to sacrifice and how many predicted that Abir will marry Kuhu. If we predict foolish plots we cannot expect progressive content.

LOVE LOVE LOVE TO YOUR POST!! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SAYING WHAT I HAVE BEEN WANTING TO SAY!!

See both Kunal and Kuhu are spoiled brats. And as a result they take no responsibility of their own actions or decisions. They are built in a way that they put the blame of their own actions on others. Their character is such that they let their ego come in between everything. They are not totally black. They are grey. They do feel guilt too but not for long because they are way too blinded right now with their own theories and their version of truth. Especially with Kunal, everyone has made a big deal of his first rejection by Shweta and hence Mishti's rejection added more misery to his male ego. Makers are just showing them the way they are. He and Kuhu aren't going to have an overnight change with their characters. Something big has to happen for both of them to realize how wrong they have been and how for the longest time they have been blaming the wrong person. And lets not forget whatever misunderstandings have started, has been started by Meenu. And Kunal unfortunately is her carbon copy whether he is her son or not.

And with Mishti!!! I am not able to understand why people are calling her weak. I mean no disrespect and its their assessment. But I would like to disagree respectfully there. If Mishti were that weak, she would have paid hid to Varsha's and Menu's warning and would have stayed away from Abir. The fact that she isn't letting them get to her and she is still prioritizing Abir over them says a lot. Just because she doesn't speak in front of them, doesn't make her weak. If you are strong, doesn't mean you are gonna scream, shout and fight every time. You are going to pick your battles wisely and speak up when you have to. Especially with Kuhu, she has been speaking up every chance she gets. But she makes sure that it is one on one. She is mature enough to not create a scene in front of everyone. Yah, whatever she does afterwards or behind the scenes for Kuhu is because she still cares for her. And whether it was her fault or not, she does feel guilty of revealing the truth of their relationship and Kuhu's truth of being illegitimate daughter. She might not show that guilt to Kuhu or might not try to prove it. But she is someone who doesn't want to be responsible for any type of issues in the family.

With Jasmeet, she has been this way since the start. And whatever happened during the haldi ceremony, she thinks she got the license to insult Mishti whenever she can. There is no change in her. But thats how she is. I dont like her too but does that mean I won't watch the show? No. Varsha? Again, I am not liking the way even she is treating Mishti. But for her, Kuhu is her daughter. And every mother will get more protective for her daughter than anything. No, it doesn't give her the right to do what she is doing. But she will be selfish for Kuhu and hence until and unless the entire truth doesn't come out, she is gonna be uncomfortable having Mishti around because she thinks that Mishti could be a threat to Kuhu and her happiness.

All I want to say is we need to remember that there are dramatic elements that runs a show. Not just romance. Dramatic elements does become essential to carry forward a story. And there always has to be a balance. Makers just can't show 24/7 romance or 24/7 drama.

Originally posted by: Trigonometry290

As I log on to twitter or even the chats here, all I see is complains about the show. Complains about how there is less Mishbir screen space, more Kuku negativity, and useless tracks. I agree with many that the show has more negativity than it did before. Especially concerning everyone hating Mishti. Despite my understanding of these problems of the show, I still don't think that we should be complaining only about the negatives. It is disheartening to see someone say "I am quitting the show", and although I agree it is their opinion, I still feel we should be giving a chance. Our show has many positives. The last week episodes were not so bad. There were jokes, sweet moments between Abir and Ketki, zehanaseeb, and mami and jugnu jokes that everyone tends to overlook. They even included a topic of feminism. The past 2 episodes were bad and so everyone starts bashing the show and losing hope. Regarding the topic about everyone hating Mishti, I think we had always seen this hatred from the beginning of the show. And regarding kuku screenspace, I think we have ranted enough that the makers probably know. And regarding the bad editing of the Friday episode, all I can say is that it happens. No one can be perfect, and that also applies to the editors. I feel that we have conveyed our dislike. I understand that the date was important and exciting, and kuku interrupted it, but if we see the two scenes separately, both were good. The way Kuhu is handling the situation by blackmailing is not correct but atleast they are not showing kuhu as a silent wife withstanding all the husband's torture. I just feel that everyone just wants to complain about the show. I think constructive criticism is okay but continuously just bashing the show is wrong. It prevents one from enjoying the show. On top of that, there are people who just make up random predictions or blindly believe in spoilers. I can tell you that I have read many spoilers while these few months since the show started and 60% of these are false probably because it was written by someone who is a fan. I only reason I am ranting about the fandom is that it feels bad to see many people jumping to conclusions when we have not seen the entire track. Anyways, our show has it's flaws and it's loopholes but atleast it is not like others that promote marrying an old guy, or marrying your brother-in-law or even second marriage. Let's have some patience!

u literally spoke my mind..thank you for writing this post..i also felt ki bashing kuch zyada hi hogaya by fans for friday's and monday's episode..i agree that cv's and editors and directors r also humans.its not possile to always be perfect.they got their msg and thats enough.

but dnt wry yaar..its almost over now..lets hope it wnt happen again,atleast not for some time.

and abt reading spoilers and jumping to conclusions..not all the people r sane or smart enough to kno better unfortunately..cant do anything abt it.