Kaam ki baat --Jawab do

Iska bhi jawab de do jab sab kuch pucha ja raha hai to ...

married bata do single child is good or at least 2 bacche acche ?

unmarried bata do if you alone child in family ...yeh accha experience raha tumhare liye ya tumhe lagta hai ek bhai/behan hota to jayda accha expeience rehta ?

Bhai /behan agar jayda chota to kya hota ? bole to 10 year ka difference ?

IMO...doh bachhe toh hone chahiye...kyonki parents won't be there for ever....I remember when my Dad passed away...nothing could console me more than talking to my two brothers.....lekin depend karta hai...if parents are too busy...and if financial means are not there...then ek bhi theek hai....depends from couple to couple...what they want.

Also since my kids were born in USA ,,,having a gaop between them was like a boon since there is no help here so atleast ek bachha thoda bada ho toh theek rehta hai...India mein ho..toh I don;t think it matters that much...u have family there and also help is available...

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

IMO...doh bachhe toh hone chahiye...kyonki parents won't be there for ever....I remember when my Dad passed away...nothing could console me more than talking to my two brothers.....lekin depend karta hai...if parents are too busy...and if financial means are not there...then ek bhi theek hai....depends from couple to couple...what they want.

Also since my kids were born in USA ,,,having a gaop between them was like a boon since there is no help here so atleast ek bachha thoda bada ho toh theek rehta hai...India mein ho..toh I don;t think it matters that much...u have family there and also help is available...

aree wahi family drama ..biwi aur ma ka ... dusra bacha ☺️

mere hisaab se ek hi theek hai ..uski hi acche ek dum badiya wali parvarish .....yahan society main 90% parents single child wale hai ..isliye ab tak safe hoon 😆

as per my thinking jab aap retire hoto aapke bacche settle ho jane chhaiye varna badi dikkat hoti hai ..isliye jayda gap kabhi kabhi dukh deta hai

Siblings should be atleast 2 or more

I got a big brother and big sister

Bhaiya ... chotu ke liye bhai/behen? 😁👍🏻

Originally posted by: GrumpyTheCat

Bhaiya ... chotu ke liye bhai/behen? 😁👍🏻

tum jaisi behno ki wajah se hi dikkat hai ... tum to apne ghar main maje ..rakhi aur vacation pe aana hai aur bhaiya ke ghar main ek aur baby ki chingaari laga ke chale jana hai 😆

waise single baby ke fayde bhi hai to nuksaan bhi ☺️

Originally posted by: ZanduBaaM

tum jaisi behno ki wajah se hi dikkat hai ... tum to apne ghar main maje ..rakhi aur vacation pe aana hai aur bhaiya ke ghar main ek aur baby ki chingaari laga ke chale jana hai 😆

waise single baby ke fayde bhi hai to nuksaan bhi ☺️

Behen hone ka haq hain yeh 😂😂😂😂

I get scared of all the fights amongst siblings and then I see my husband’s sibling bond. They have each other for life.

Originally posted by: ZanduBaaM

aree wahi family drama ..biwi aur ma ka ... dusra bacha ☺️

mere hisaab se ek hi theek hai ..uski hi acche ek dum badiya wali parvarish .....yahan society main 90% parents single child wale hai ..isliye ab tak safe hoon 😆

as per my thinking jab aap retire hoto aapke bacche settle ho jane chhaiye varna badi dikkat hoti hai ..isliye jayda gap kabhi kabhi dukh deta hai

awww😆...but like I said ....ki it depends on you...and your family....ek bhi theek ...doh bhi theek....but mera personal view hai ki ek bhai ya behen ho toh achha rehta hai...like I said parents are not there for ever....yahan per abhi kissi ke 2nd baby hua hai....the older child is 18 though😆

I will give my opinion as an only child.

While growing up sometimes I did miss having a sibling. There are some things you are more comfortable sharing with your siblings. And I think it may have made me a little reserved as well. Childhood toh I was very shy. Luckily for me I have a cousin who I bond well with. He's like an elder brother only.

It also depends on financial strength as well.

But one positive thing is I never had any competition in family. No useless academic comparisons etc. Parents ka undivided attention aur love mila.😝

But haa I will also add one of my friends has 5 siblings. ( Dandwat pranaam to her mother🙏) and there's never a dull moment in her family.🤣

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

awww😆...but like I said ....ki it depends on you...and your family....ek bhi theek ...doh bhi theek....but mera personal view hai ki ek bhai ya behen ho toh achha rehta hai...like I said parents are not there for ever....yahan per abhi kissi ke 2nd baby hua hai....the older child is 18 though😆

i dnt knw why but 99.99% married female want 2 child ..and excuse are " ek bhai ya behen ho toh achha rehta ha" rakhi pe apni behan rakhi tie karegi .... festival festival nahi lagengey .....

mera jawab kya guarantee hai beti hi hogi 😆 aur beta ho gaya to ...ladengey papa ki property ke liye 😆

Meri mummy aur Bua to mere se isliye hi naraz hai 😆