कसौटी ज़िन्दगी के ২ LIVE UPDATE/Episode Discussions 29 Aug 2019 - Page 9

Can't believe it ! Here also people are blame Prerna! Prerna hid the fact about her pregnancy and also the real reason behind her marriage only so that Anurag can move on faster and does not hold him back . And yes it does help with moving on in real life . A clean wound heals faster . In a break up , finding closure is very important. But closure is something that happens differently in different cases. Some couples break up , realize it was not meant to be and become cordial friends. Some people realize that their ex bf / gf were not worthy of their love and it does really help them move on faster. Here , Prerna is kind of hoping and aiming for the 2nd one.

Why it makes people feel that Anurag will calm down and agree to peacefully move on once he comes to know the truth ?? It could in fact fan the flame of his obsession and he could get renewed vigor in his "fight" to get back Prerna.

If Prerna wants to stay in the marriage with Bajaj, then it's her choice and no body can force her any differently.

Anurag what is going thru now / cuz of whom and what he is doing are two different things.

First one - A failure. Every person in life at some point fails. He got ditched by Prerna. Suffer. Cry. Feel insufficient. Angry. Frustrated. He shud and is right. He needs to remove the pain inside him thru these emotions.

Second one - What he is doing shows his personality. Like say his capability on how much he can take and tackle it. (P was better anyday after Komo engagement one. Cuz girls are stronger irrespective of their maturity level!)

A guy is not. They are very vulnerable by heart.

Here his ability to tackle the failure is lacking. This cant be blamed on anyone. Its individual responsibility towards themselves. No one owns us. We own ourselves.

Anurag can blame Prerna for his state. Not for his madness which he chose/prefers on his own will.

Originally posted by: HeartQuake

Can't believe it ! Here also people are blame Prerna! Prerna hid the fact about her pregnancy and also the real reason behind her marriage only so that Anurag can move on faster and does not hold him back . And yes it does help with moving on in real life . A clean wound heals faster . In a break up , finding closure is very important. But closure is something that happens differently in different cases. Some couples break up , realize it was not meant to be and become cordial friends. Some people realize that their ex bf / gf were not worthy of their love and it does really help them move on faster. Here , Prerna is kind of hoping and aiming for the 2nd one.

Why it makes people feel that Anurag will calm down and agree to peacefully move on once he comes to know the truth ?? It could in fact fan the flame of his obsession and he could get renewed vigor in his "fight" to get back Prerna.

If Prerna wants to stay in the marriage with Bajaj, then it's her choice and no body can force her any differently.

As and when that happens, Anurag knows the truth , we will see how he will react and whether or not he would be able to move on. For now , whatever prernas planning or expectation from anurag to move on , is not working the way it should . So she ca try something different ? Imo she chose the worst reason possible ..killed his self esteem and self confidence, along with the heartbreak ..prerna is not to be blamed for his suicide , but prerna is to be blamed for being so cold , emotionless and heartless for him ..how is the question. When at some point she sacrificed her life for him ,and said to her husband that her soul belongs to anurag , What happened to that love now ? That she is not able to see his pain ?

My heart goes out to Anurag here...

Sitting n crying in d middle of D Road n feel nothing but only pain...

Ur world seems to an end when u were so much in love with the person who has left u...

I can totally related n understand the situation...

It's heart wrenching to see anurag in such a painful situation..

Death would have been better option for him instead of dying 100 death every day...

N it is even more painful dat ur gf dumped u n trying to move on with someone else...

Being dumped can be still ok till an extent but seeing ur gf with someone else is diff story altogether

U feel empty n just want the person by hook or crook...

You can't find happiness in anything..

Suicide attempt is worst but when person feel he is not worth living then he goes for it..

Why can't pre see did pain?

She saved him...but did she really?

As a person we think dat we r saving someone physically but what about giving him so much suffering , near to death experience, mentally death everyday...

I seriously want anurag to become a strong n better person now...

Pre what have u done wid him...

Originally posted by: _charu_

As and when that happens, Anurag knows the truth , we will see how he will react and whether or not he would be able to move on. For now , whatever prernas planning or expectation from anurag to move on , is not working the way it should . So she ca try something different ? Imo she chose the worst reason possible ..killed his self esteem and self confidence, along with the heartbreak ..prerna is not to be blamed for his suicide , but prerna is to be blamed for being so cold , emotionless and heartless for him ..how is the question. When at some point she sacrificed her life for him ,and said to her husband that her soul belongs to anurag , What happened to that love now ? That she is not able to see his pain ?

U hit the nail on the head Charu....

I don't understand either...why prerna is giving cold shoulder to him when he can't understand dis way

It is not working for him..

She should try some other method but now she is least concerned about him..

Kare to kare she is busy taking care of her so called husband...

Originally posted by: Swatij20

My heart goes out to Anurag here...

Sitting n crying in d middle of D Road n feel nothing but only pain...

Ur world seems to an end when u were so much in love with the person who has left u...

I can totally related n understand the situation...

It's heart wrenching to see anurag in such a painful situation..

Death would have been better option for him instead of dying 100 death every day...

N it is even more painful dat ur gf dumped u n trying to move on with someone else...

Being dumped can be still ok till an extent but seeing ur gf with someone else is diff story altogether

U feel empty n just want the person by hook or crook...

You can't find happiness in anything..

Suicide attempt is worst but when person feel he is not worth living then he goes for it..

Why can't pre see did pain?

She saved him...but did she really?

As a person we think dat we r saving someone physically but what about giving him so much suffering , near to death experience, mentally death everyday...

I seriously want anurag to become a strong n better person now...

Pre what have u done wid him...

Group hug 🤗😭 i wish he gathers himself and fight back . Very soon .

Originally posted by: Swatij20

U hit the nail on the head Charu....

I don't understand either...why prerna is giving cold shoulder to him when he can't understand dis way

It is not working for him..

She should try some other method but now she is least concerned about him..

Kare to kare she is busy taking care of her so called husband...

Ah yes. Her bajaj. Tumhare bajaj like anurag said 😆 she is telling anurag not to disturb bajaj as he is not well....bajaj no koi nai Samajhta she is mourning over that.

Originally posted by: _charu_

As and when that happens, Anurag knows the truth , we will see how he will react and whether or not he would be able to move on. For now , whatever prernas planning or expectation from anurag to move on , is not working the way it should . So she ca try something different ? Imo she chose the worst reason possible ..killed his self esteem and self confidence, along with the heartbreak ..prerna is not to be blamed for his suicide , but prerna is to be blamed for being so cold , emotionless and heartless for him ..how is the question. When at some point she sacrificed her life for him ,and said to her husband that her soul belongs to anurag , What happened to that love now ? That she is not able to see his pain ?

First of all , thank you for being proper mannered and courteous while discussing. It is appreciated. Opinions may and will differ and that's ok and in fact that's kind of the point of having any discussion.

I kind of get your point . Yes it's not quite working the way she'd hoped for. But does she at least gets the credit that she's hiding the truth to help Anurag move on ?? No she doesn't. People fail to give her the respect she deserves for having his best intentions in mind and instead she gets hurled with insult. She could as well just tell Anurag the truth , he'll be prostrate with gratitude that she sacrificed to save his life and that'll also shut up all the Basus who instead of going to Bajaj themselves, sent Prerna and now throwing insults at her at every possible chance. Where was this big mouth Nivi and her husband and his mother Mohini when Anurag was rotting in jail and they sent Prerna conveniently??

Oh I think we already know very well how Anurag will react if he finds out the true picture but yes we might choose to deny that since it'll help us bash Prerna. Before Anurag went to London , there was a conversation between AnuPre where for a moment under Anurag's plea , Prerna caved in and showed a single drop of tears and Anurag immediately got renewed hopes just by seeing that one moment of vulnerability, a possibility that her love is still there . He wouldn't let it go and said it confirmed his faith .

If a single moment of seeing love in her eyes flare his obsession like this , what would knowing the truth do to him?? No way he'd ever let go. And that will destroy the life of all the 3 people, Prerna Rishav and Anurag. None will be able to live their lives.

ETA : extra note. Which also completely justifies her being cold and heartless with Anurag as of now. She shouldn't show him any chink in her armour since he's clutching at anything he might get to justify his fight to get her back. Keeping him at arms length is the best idea. If anything she should be stricter about it. Tell him off more harshly. If she reaches out for him he'll immediately hold her hand and try to pull her towards him.

Originally posted by: HeartQuake

First of all , thank you for being proper mannered and courteous while discussing. It is appreciated. Opinions may and will differ and that's ok and in fact that's kind of the point of having any discussion.

I kind of get your point . Yes it's not quite working the way she'd hoped for. But does she at least gets the credit that she's hiding the truth to help Anurag move on ?? No she doesn't. People fail to give her the respect she deserves for having his best intentions in mind and instead she gets hurled with insult. She could as well just tell Anurag the truth , he'll be prostrate with gratitude that she sacrificed to save his life and that'll also shut up all the Basus who instead of going to Bajaj themselves, sent Prerna and now throwing insults at her at every possible chance. Where was this big mouth Nivi and her husband and his mother Mohini when Anurag was rotting in jail and they sent Prerna conveniently??

Oh I think we already know very well how Anurag will react if he finds out the true picture but yes we might choose to deny that since it'll help us bash Prerna. Before Anurag went to London , there was a conversation between AnuPre where for a moment under Anurag's plea , Prerna caved in and showed a single drop of tears and Anurag immediately got renewed hopes just by seeing that one moment of vulnerability, a possibility that her love is still there . He wouldn't let it go and said it confirmed his faith .

If a single moment of seeing love in his eyes flare his obsession like this , that would knowing the truth do to him?? No way he'd ever let go. And that will destroy the life of all the 3 people, Prerna Rishav and Anurag. None will be able to live their lives.

ETA : extra note. Which also completely justifies her being cold and heartless with Anurag as of now. She shouldn't show him any chink in her armour since he's clutching at anything he might get to justify his fight to get her back. Keeping him at arms length is the best idea. If anything he should be stricter about it. Tell him off more harshly. If she reaches out for him he'll immediately hold her hand and try to pull her towards him.

It is different when u know dat ur gf dumped u or she loves u too much dat she sacrificed herself for u..

Although in both the cases u can't move on

But in d first one u go on self destruction mode

U feel like u r not worthy for anyone, u start hating urself, u r good for nothing, u r ugly n means types of shit runs in ur head...

It is not necessary dat everyone feel so but mostly people feel..it may be for some time for few, more time for others...

But in second case u lose the person who loved u so deeply...

When anurag saw a ray of hope in preena's eyes he became happy...

Ok this is ur Que that he will try to get pre n become more obsessive but that situation will b better than current one..

At least he won't think about suicide n self destruction mode...

At least he can try to survive in the case u mentioned but abhi wala case is suffiocating for him

Originally posted by: HeartQuake

First of all , thank you for being proper mannered and courteous while discussing. It is appreciated. Opinions may and will differ and that's ok and in fact that's kind of the point of having any discussion.

I kind of get your point . Yes it's not quite working the way she'd hoped for. But does she at least gets the credit that she's hiding the truth to help Anurag move on ?? No she doesn't. People fail to give her the respect she deserves for having his best intentions in mind and instead she gets hurled with insult. She could as well just tell Anurag the truth , he'll be prostrate with gratitude that she sacrificed to save his life and that'll also shut up all the Basus who instead of going to Bajaj themselves, sent Prerna and now throwing insults at her at every possible chance. Where was this big mouth Nivi and her husband and his mother Mohini when Anurag was rotting in jail and they sent Prerna conveniently??

Oh I think we already know very well how Anurag will react if he finds out the true picture but yes we might choose to deny that since it'll help us bash Prerna. Before Anurag went to London , there was a conversation between AnuPre where for a moment under Anurag's plea , Prerna caved in and showed a single drop of tears and Anurag immediately got renewed hopes just by seeing that one moment of vulnerability, a possibility that her love is still there . He wouldn't let it go and said it confirmed his faith .

If a single moment of seeing love in his eyes flare his obsession like this , that would knowing the truth do to him?? No way he'd ever let go. And that will destroy the life of all the 3 people, Prerna Rishav and Anurag. None will be able to live their lives.

ETA : extra note. Which also completely justifies her being cold and heartless with Anurag as of now. She shouldn't show him any chink in her armour since he's clutching at anything he might get to justify his fight to get her back. Keeping him at arms length is the best idea. If anything he should be stricter about it. Tell him off more harshly. If she reaches out for him he'll immediately hold her hand and try to pull her towards him.

Thank you.that was a good compliment. 😃

I know you said this earlier on , that anurag , when he will know the truth, it might rekindle the hope inside him to get prerna back . I agree with you on this , it's possible ..very much possible.... However it may work out the other way also .i feel if he knows the truth , he will respect prerna more , what she actually deserves for her sacrifice , his family will be indebted to her , eventually he will respect her decision to move on with mr bajaj ....we can only guess...

No i don't get a thrill in bashing prerna 😆 infact i want her to come out with the truth so that there is nothing to talk against her..when all characters are balanced , we can analyze their actions deeply and effectively and the watching experience gets better..I know its against the rules to talk about other serials but i was a huge fan of ye rishta but i cant stand it now because literally all problems between the couple is due to miscommunication and keeping secrets. Daily soaps stretch the hiding drama , all characters come across as hypocrites and dumb. I know its all for drama and trps..but I hate this one thing specially when epic and divine love and best couple, terms like these are used..in such a case therr is nothing to analyze.