Hi all, I truly enjoy being part of this forum
I started watching PB about 2 weeks ago and have caught up will all episodes. It was an emotional roller coaster. I cried, i laughed and i could relate 100%
I feel a personal stab when anyone comments on Babita's reactions. I raised a daughter alone for 18 years. I am remarried now for 9 years. What a woman goes through after she has given her life and soul to her husband and to be dumped in that manner, then to put yourself second to your daughter all the time, then to find hope in a man who may be able to give you the love you never had?
Only a woman who has known this will understand Babes reaction and insecurities. She loves Hanuman without a doubt, but she needs him to be that special man who can bring her out from under all that baggage. It would just make him that extra special if he can do it, cos women do it for men all the time.
Marriage is not always 50/50, sometimes the stronger one gives 70 and the other 30, through their life they will eventually reach their own balance of understanding. Did everyone forget how she accepts Imarti as part of their life? Show me women who are prepared to do this. She gave up her ego to propose to him first not knowing how he would react.
There is not always chemistry, in real life. Some couples reach a comfort zone with each other. especially when you are older and more mature. Babita has a longggggg way to go and hopefully Hanuman will take her hand and lead her into this new chapter. He has to teach her about being husband and wife because she never had it with Ashok. Marriage does not always need to wait for all parties to be ready. Once a decision is made its a risk you are prepared to take, going into the unknown. Divorce happens even when couples had the best chemistry initially and best understanding.
Lets hold on to the Hope that Love brings to any relationship.
Just my 2 cents 😊
chill karo. kal ka kal daikhyn gae! 
Anupamaa
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