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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Peace_Seeker

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100% agree. But the PH itself is labelling this as her ego. They want us to see this as her ugliness, her dark side.

Yes, that's why I felt that the PH is over-simplifying the woman's million emotions and labelling them as Ego..... no-one is that one-dimensional...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

You exactly echoed my feeling.

People are setting higher standards for babita than HS.

If HS can't get over a good marriage that ended 7-8 years ago, how can babita get over a traumatic relationship of 17 years within few months?

Also if HS apologized after sincere realization then why is he feeling low about it? Yes the way apology was asked was wrong, but that humiliation was nothing compared to how he humiliated babita. It would take a big heart to forgive a man who says paraya mard me interest na lo.

And most exceptional moment in this show for me was when babita decided to forgive meeta. She didn't have to, but still she did. If she can mend her ways with a mistress, she can always do it with HS. And it's not like she wouldn't let go for HS, but man tell her what you didn't like.

And Friday I felt bad for HS, but after rewatching the episode, I thought he was kinda overreacting.

I agree that its not that easy to move from such toxic relationship just in few months. We carry the Bitterness of such relationships subconsciously.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Guys, what is PH and CV?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sakurablossom

Guys, what is PH and CV?

PH - production house

CV - not sure but its creative writers/creative heads...

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Well written... That's what even I am trying to read and say.... HS does have its own flaws which are getting overlooked here... Even he has wronged her but then why feel bad now.. That police station scene didn't made any sense to me at least...

Though I am biased to AD but keeping the actor aside I too agree here... Both are humans and carry immense flaws.. So why is one considered inhuman and other a human....

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Well written but Babita is wrong and you don't want to admit it. Blame HS to justify Babita actions is wrong.

Have you even watched it from the beginning I wonder at all.

Babita in her Marriage put the care if the in laws in front of her Marriage and Child, who was pining for her Father's love and did nothing at all, despite knowing hiw her daughter was getting taunts etc but no she did nothing at all. Yes she is to blame for that. Maybe that's why its taking her longer to get over it. Its her pride and ego that was hit. Why did he leave me after all the looking after your parents for 17 years mentality.

When they moved in and he helped them and she she has been rude to him many a time and the Camera issue was the final straw fir HS because she said it with hidden meaning and he put her straight on that and did not let her play the victim card here.

She has been getting away with the victim card too many times and flips and flops at her will.

Yes HS has his flaws like us all but to blame him for Babita's Insecurities and actions is wrong. Yes he talked to Lally, he always does that. Its not something new. yes she forced his hand to apologise for her love and yes he apologised but she said nothing than he folded his hands to do so and than she was happy and its sad.

Yes HS was hurt and on Lally's asking he told him and he was shocked by her reaction and what he said was not wrong at all. That when they get Married and if there is a argument its him who will have to say sorry if it is not his fault and he will have to bear it other wise there will be trouble. Yes he loves her and he has to take care of his relationship, nothing wrong when he said that.

Mini is seeing her Mother in a new life as a selfish woman who does not care who she hurts in the process, hence the dear dairy torn page entry that she will destroy this Marriage as well. She is getting to know that her Father was not fully to blame for the breakup of there wedding. I wonder if Ashok had asked her to go london with him but she declined to do so putting the inlaws before him. Hence his anger and ego issues as well. Mini is yet to see a side of Babita that will show her that it was her Mother's fault in the break down of her Marriage and not the other way round that was shown to her and that it was not her Father's fault at all.

Till she fully opens up about her failed marriage with HS with honesty and talks to him about it than sadly to say that she will bring the 1st Marriage into the 2nd Marriage is not good.

Also she needs to give up the why did Ashok leave me the great Babita act for Mita. Get over it.

Stop comparing HS with Ashok for god sake and grow up. Stop playing the injured Women now and ifbin Love than please talk and show him.

Now with Phoonam entry she will get angry and blame HS if they have a friendly sister and brother in law jokes.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: guddi01

Well written but Babita is wrong and you don't want to admit it. Blame HS to justify Babita actions is wrong.

Have you even watched it from the beginning I wonder at all.

Babita in her Marriage put the care if the in laws in front of her Marriage and Child, who was pining for her Father's love and did nothing at all, despite knowing hiw her daughter was getting taunts etc but no she did nothing at all. Yes she is to blame for that. Maybe that's why its taking her longer to get over it. Its her pride and ego that was hit. Why did he leave me after all the looking after your parents for 17 years mentality.

When they moved in and he helped them and she she has been rude to him many a time and the Camera issue was the final straw fir HS because she said it with hidden meaning and he put her straight on that and did not let her play the victim card here.

She has been getting away with the victim card too many times and flips and flops at her will.

Yes HS has his flaws like us all but to blame him for Babita's Insecurities and actions is wrong. Yes he talked to Lally, he always does that. Its not something new. yes she forced his hand to apologise for her love and yes he apologised but she said nothing than he folded his hands to do so and than she was happy and its sad.

Yes HS was hurt and on Lally's asking he told him and he was shocked by her reaction and what he said was not wrong at all. That when they get Married and if there is a argument its him who will have to say sorry if it is not his fault and he will have to bear it other wise there will be trouble. Yes he loves her and he has to take care of his relationship, nothing wrong when he said that.

Mini is seeing her Mother in a new life as a selfish woman who does not care who she hurts in the process, hence the dear dairy torn page entry that she will destroy this Marriage as well. She is getting to know that her Father was not fully to blame for the breakup of there wedding. I wonder if Ashok had asked her to go london with him but she declined to do so putting the inlaws before him. Hence his anger and ego issues as well. Mini is yet to see a side of Babita that will show her that it was her Mother's fault in the break down of her Marriage and not the other way round that was shown to her and that it was not her Father's fault at all.

Till she fully opens up about her failed marriage with HS with honesty and talks to him about it than sadly to say that she will bring the 1st Marriage into the 2nd Marriage is not good.

Also she needs to give up the why did Ashok leave me the great Babita act for Mita. Get over it.

Stop comparing HS with Ashok for god sake and grow up. Stop playing the injured Women now and ifbin Love than please talk and show him.

Now with Phoonam entry she will get angry and blame HS if they have a friendly sister and brother in law jokes.

Thank you for all the inputs. I obviously didn't expect this anger in response to my thoughts but it's perfectly ok. it's a story and like the characters, HS & Babita, everyone has multiple perspectives in and to every situation. That's life - It's not one-dimensional. There are multiple perspectives and mine was just one....

No-one is trying to justify one character over another. They are all scripted and if it's real life, humans are steered by many emotions, thoughts, concerns, insecurities and opinions....and all actions have many motivators behind it...... the story is simply trying to show some of it.....I just shared what I see...

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Posted: 6 years ago
#18

I’ll fire another salvo!

Does Minnie need a father more than Babita and HS need each other?

I think no. And I think HS and Babita need to and they will sort themselves out. On their own. And they’ll live happily ever after!

Of course there will be a long string of broken hearts 💕 but Lala will be there 😉 any takers for Geeta Kumari role? 😁

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chrys

I’ll fire another salvo!

Does Minnie need a father more than Babita and HS need each other?

I think no. And I think HS and Babita need to and they will sort themselves out. On their own. And they’ll live happily ever after!

Of course there will be a long string of broken hearts 💕 but Lala will be there 😉 any takers for Geeta Kumari role? 😁

@Bold - I second that :-)

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: guddi01

Well written but Babita is wrong and you don't want to admit it. Blame HS to justify Babita actions is wrong.

Have you even watched it from the beginning I wonder at all.

Babita in her Marriage put the care if the in laws in front of her Marriage and Child, who was pining for her Father's love and did nothing at all, despite knowing hiw her daughter was getting taunts etc but no she did nothing at all. Yes she is to blame for that. Maybe that's why its taking her longer to get over it. Its her pride and ego that was hit. Why did he leave me after all the looking after your parents for 17 years mentality.

When they moved in and he helped them and she she has been rude to him many a time and the Camera issue was the final straw fir HS because she said it with hidden meaning and he put her straight on that and did not let her play the victim card here.

She has been getting away with the victim card too many times and flips and flops at her will.

Yes HS has his flaws like us all but to blame him for Babita's Insecurities and actions is wrong. Yes he talked to Lally, he always does that. Its not something new. yes she forced his hand to apologise for her love and yes he apologised but she said nothing than he folded his hands to do so and than she was happy and its sad.

Yes HS was hurt and on Lally's asking he told him and he was shocked by her reaction and what he said was not wrong at all. That when they get Married and if there is a argument its him who will have to say sorry if it is not his fault and he will have to bear it other wise there will be trouble. Yes he loves her and he has to take care of his relationship, nothing wrong when he said that.

Mini is seeing her Mother in a new life as a selfish woman who does not care who she hurts in the process, hence the dear dairy torn page entry that she will destroy this Marriage as well. She is getting to know that her Father was not fully to blame for the breakup of there wedding. I wonder if Ashok had asked her to go london with him but she declined to do so putting the inlaws before him. Hence his anger and ego issues as well. Mini is yet to see a side of Babita that will show her that it was her Mother's fault in the break down of her Marriage and not the other way round that was shown to her and that it was not her Father's fault at all.

Till she fully opens up about her failed marriage with HS with honesty and talks to him about it than sadly to say that she will bring the 1st Marriage into the 2nd Marriage is not good.

Also she needs to give up the why did Ashok leave me the great Babita act for Mita. Get over it.

Stop comparing HS with Ashok for god sake and grow up. Stop playing the injured Women now and ifbin Love than please talk and show him.

Now with Phoonam entry she will get angry and blame HS if they have a friendly sister and brother in law jokes.

@ bold1 i am sorry but i feel you are being too harsh on babita. This is wrong to say that everything was babita' s fault. Ashok did cheat on her . If he had problems he should have talked to her. He doesnt get liscence to cheat. Babita might also be somewhere responsible in marriage falling apart but that doesnt mean ashok is innocent.

@bold2 no she just cannot give it up easily bcz she still doesnt know where she went wrong of when was the moment her marriage fell apart. Being cheated upon is the worst thing that could happen in realtionship. Person who is cheated upon always have tendency to blame himself and will always be scared in future relationship. Till the time babita actually get to know or introscept her relationship, she will never be able to let go

@ bold3 when you are cheated upon in you always have this tendency to compare your current partner with your ex bcz you dont want history to repeat and that will be too much to handle. But yes i do agree that talk is very impt

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