Originally posted by: guddi01
Well written but Babita is wrong and you don't want to admit it. Blame HS to justify Babita actions is wrong.
Have you even watched it from the beginning I wonder at all.
Babita in her Marriage put the care if the in laws in front of her Marriage and Child, who was pining for her Father's love and did nothing at all, despite knowing hiw her daughter was getting taunts etc but no she did nothing at all. Yes she is to blame for that. Maybe that's why its taking her longer to get over it. Its her pride and ego that was hit. Why did he leave me after all the looking after your parents for 17 years mentality.
When they moved in and he helped them and she she has been rude to him many a time and the Camera issue was the final straw fir HS because she said it with hidden meaning and he put her straight on that and did not let her play the victim card here.
She has been getting away with the victim card too many times and flips and flops at her will.
Yes HS has his flaws like us all but to blame him for Babita's Insecurities and actions is wrong. Yes he talked to Lally, he always does that. Its not something new. yes she forced his hand to apologise for her love and yes he apologised but she said nothing than he folded his hands to do so and than she was happy and its sad.
Yes HS was hurt and on Lally's asking he told him and he was shocked by her reaction and what he said was not wrong at all. That when they get Married and if there is a argument its him who will have to say sorry if it is not his fault and he will have to bear it other wise there will be trouble. Yes he loves her and he has to take care of his relationship, nothing wrong when he said that.
Mini is seeing her Mother in a new life as a selfish woman who does not care who she hurts in the process, hence the dear dairy torn page entry that she will destroy this Marriage as well. She is getting to know that her Father was not fully to blame for the breakup of there wedding. I wonder if Ashok had asked her to go london with him but she declined to do so putting the inlaws before him. Hence his anger and ego issues as well. Mini is yet to see a side of Babita that will show her that it was her Mother's fault in the break down of her Marriage and not the other way round that was shown to her and that it was not her Father's fault at all.
Till she fully opens up about her failed marriage with HS with honesty and talks to him about it than sadly to say that she will bring the 1st Marriage into the 2nd Marriage is not good.
Also she needs to give up the why did Ashok leave me the great Babita act for Mita. Get over it.
Stop comparing HS with Ashok for god sake and grow up. Stop playing the injured Women now and ifbin Love than please talk and show him.
Now with Phoonam entry she will get angry and blame HS if they have a friendly sister and brother in law jokes.