not only abir but all character
especially bade papa even
1)he never judges person on only one event as itv has habbit of everyone conveniently firgetting the goodness and fl make one mistake they start showing her mirror(yrkkh same production house) but here bp and abir analyse everything and comes to right conclusion like they not mu mishti in haldi day and kunal like person always does same if u do good with them they will be okay but the moment u do one against they will jump with gus=ns like mishti saved his sister two time saved his brother but he cant see
2)abir and bp they both show mirror they not let one person take the blame for a particular event as he knows for others life they r only responsible for not taking stand and show other even like abir shown mirror to bb in ketki marriage thing but even shown mama mami the mirror by pointing out that they cant blame only her as they even not fought and got easy way i am sure in future even he will call upon kuhu hypocricy and parul hypocricy even will accept him mistake when all will blame him or mishti for kuhu or anything aise now he gifted a mirror to mishti so lets hope mishti even do this job
3)abir and bp both accept their mistake and take responsibility and learn lesson from it
4)abir and bp both knows to handle situation and know how and whom to give priority like bp today let mishti leave because today is kuhu day and abir even not took mishti home and neither left her alone even in sangeet when mishti confessed he was not able to come but was messaging and later came somehow
makers have very cleverly till now kept their character intact like mishti left letter but abir was not able to read so he has not to choose
anyway abir and bp r real breathe in fresh air
i will not put mishti in that category as she has to grow alot to reach that level
this show become different as not everyone r dramatic and start torturing hope kuhu even not get tortured much