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Posted: 6 years ago

It is high time Prerna retrospects herself to realise what would have been (incase of Naveen track) or what is being (in this Bajaj track) the impact of her impulsive decisions on herself, her family and the Basus. People who are justifying that Naveen had started liking her & would have taken care of her nicely or justifying Bajaj that Bajaj is respecting her wish & is not physically interested in her are forgetting one thing, just like Prerna. Truth cannot be hidden always. It will come out one day. So when the truth would have been revealed after Naveen married Prerna or will be revealed in Bajaj's case, how wretched would her family & even Anu (considering the fact that how much affected Anu was even in Naveen track) would be feeling that they couldn't do anything to save Prerna; instead was the reason for destroying her life. At the end of Naveen track her parents had asked the same question to her. Yet she didn't learn anything from it. I am waiting to see when Pre will realise that her life too is important to her dear ones, just like how important their lives is to her. And to those trying to justify Naveen or Bajaj marrying Prerna saying that Prerna would have got or is getting a good life, i will say in that case why can't Komo too be justified. Who knows maybe Anu's unconditional & selfless type of love would have brought a change in her. Why it should be always good women bringing a change in a bad guy? It can be the other way too, especially when the guy is a person like Anu.

Edited by grace4317 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: BurakZeynep

1.Yet she never told him about her pregnancy throughout the track and even after they were gonna get married

2.But she didn't care what would society say when she came to BB and lived with Anurag and Komolika and had to go to jail.Not even once did she say that she cared about society.The closest she ever got to caring about society was when she said that she wanted a big wedding with Anurag.Also if she cared so much about the society she would've at least spared a thought to her poor family who have to bear the brunt of her impulsive decisions

yes she never told him she was pregnant again her fault. Maybe after she got rid of komilka she was going to tell him but then bajaj entered their lives. Either way she should've told him but she didn't. Again this is prerna fault on her characterization.


It didn't matter that they didn't marry officially. Anurag put the sindor on her with the priest present. Behind their family back they kind of got married unofficially so prerna was just fighting for her rights as his first wife. Again I don't agree with it but whatever.


Prerna character has a lot of flaws. First of she and anurag have no trust in their relationship. If they did anurag would have trusted her during the komilka track with the truth and vice versa with bajaj. All they share is love and passion which is not enough. However if prerna decides she wants to stay and be kuki mom it's her choice. Who are we to say other wise. What else can you expect from a character who has no self respect for herself and a backbone . This character has always been shown sacrificing so what's new.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: grace4317

It is high time Prerna retrospects herself to realise what would have been (incase of Naveen track) or what is being (in this Bajaj track) the impact of her impulsive decisions on herself, her family and the Basus. People who are justifying that Naveen had started liking her & would have taken care of her nicely or justifying Bajaj that Bajaj is respecting her wish & is not physically interested in her are forgetting one thing, just like Prerna. Truth cannot be hidden always. It will come out one day. So when the truth would have been revealed after Naveen married Prerna or will be revealed in Bajaj's case, how wretched would her family & even Anu (considering the fact that how much affected Anu was even in Naveen track) would be feeling that they couldn't do anything to save Prerna; instead was the reason for destroying her life. At the end of Naveen track her parents had asked the same question to her. Yet she didn't learn anything from it. I am waiting to see when Pre will realise that her life too is important to her dear ones, just like how important their lives is to her. And to those trying to justify Naveen or Bajaj marrying Prerna saying that Prerna would have got or is getting a good life, i will say in that case why can't Komo too be justified. Who knows maybe Anu's unconditional & selfless type of love would have brought a change in her. Why it should be always good women bringing a change in a bad guy? It can be the other way too, especially when the guy is a person like Anu.

Yes yes yes. Thank you. I'm still bothered by how easily the audience wrote off Komolika as this evil woman but writing off Bajaj's every misdeed as "grey shaded". I've been saying from day one that Prerna and Bajaj are going to be treated like beauty and the beast. The ever so naive and innocent Prerna will bring out the good in "ugly" Bajaj... super typical and might I add even misogynistic. It shouldnt always depend on the woman to forgive all the bad things a man does and stick to his side through all his mistakes hoping her love would somehow change him and break all his walls... been there done that with every other show in ITV (Angad Kripa, Ishita Raman, Geet Maan, Rudra and Paro to name a couple). Like you said, we never see the woman changing for the better because of the man nearly as much.
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: grace4317

It is high time Prerna retrospects herself to realise what would have been (incase of Naveen track) or what is being (in this Bajaj track) the impact of her impulsive decisions on herself, her family and the Basus. People who are justifying that Naveen had started liking her & would have taken care of her nicely or justifying Bajaj that Bajaj is respecting her wish & is not physically interested in her are forgetting one thing, just like Prerna. Truth cannot be hidden always. It will come out one day. So when the truth would have been revealed after Naveen married Prerna or will be revealed in Bajaj's case, how wretched would her family & even Anu (considering the fact that how much affected Anu was even in Naveen track) would be feeling that they couldn't do anything to save Prerna; instead was the reason for destroying her life. At the end of Naveen track her parents had asked the same question to her. Yet she didn't learn anything from it. I am waiting to see when Pre will realise that her life too is important to her dear ones, just like how important their lives is to her. And to those trying to justify Naveen or Bajaj marrying Prerna saying that Prerna would have got or is getting a good life, i will say in that case why can't Komo too be justified. Who knows maybe Anu's unconditional & selfless type of love would have brought a change in her. Why it should be always good women bringing a change in a bad guy? It can be the other way too, especially when the guy is a person like Anu.

Also, I had bet all my cards on Prerna but I forgot that Ekta hates giving women any individual arc, any backbone, and spunk that even resembles a real woman. Maybe that's why im so blahhh about this show now because I was really hoping we'll see Prerna be and do something but alas she made the same mistake all over again.
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: The_Best

Bajaj being grey always makes me laugh too. Ruining people’s lives and not even sparing innocent children is just just grey apparently. He’s ruining people’s lives worth than death but he’s still grey. Wow. Komo is called villain, but he’s called grey when he’s worse than Komo.

@ on topic - That Peree and sindoor nonsense made me mad too. I can’t stand this Prena. And I can’t believe she will fall in love with this evil monster. She has lost all the respect. Previous Prena was the same and now here too. There too at first Bajaj blackmailed Prena, married, died and came back again to separate Anupre and Prena apparently thinking she loves him now as a person/husband, not actual love though. But still how can a woman even claim to love a person who blackmailed her and separated her from her love/spouse/husband no matter how much that villain later tries to act saint to support her in bad times when in fact the bad times are created by the same villain and that villain making the other love look bad in front of her by creating misunderstandings?

As this Prena is worse as she doesn’t even care about her parents. She has no self esteem either in front of Bajaj. I just can’t believe how she’s living with him normally like as if it’s an actual real marriage and he’s a fine person. I dislike such women and such female leads. These days in shows female leads forget their parents after they get married and apparently she’s gonna fall in love with him in the first marriage itself when he just blackmailed her a few days ago and ruined her, Anurag and the child’s lives. Is this all her love for Anurag after making those loud promises with him? And though I have nothing against Kuku, but how can she love a stranger daughter more than her own love and her life as she claims. Forget Anurag. How can she put Kuku over her own child too?? Kuku annoys me not because she herself is annoying, but because how Ekta uses her. What are the makers trying to say? That just because there’s a child, one should leave their family, their lives and and their happiness to support a stranger child and put her above? She’s calling Kuku, her daughter. Like WTH? Has she shown such concern for her own child yet?? This is not selfless. This is madnes!! Such people ruin not their own lives but others too like she has been doing with her wrong way and time mahaanta on wrong people.

At this point, Prerna will only care she has a child if we get a miscarriage track. And also at this point, if the miscarriage happens, the audience will not even be impacted AT ALL. Just kill this track already.. I'm done.

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