There would have been no sympathy - Page 2

Originally posted by: Indira1211

Karthik questioning naira was a personal husband and wife issue... generally men and women don’t go around telling everyone that they were jealous of their spouses colleague or friend and even questioned them regarding an affair. That is a Very private issue. And karthik questioned naira but he did not tell her to drive her car down that dangerous road or run away from him for 5 years ...so I think we have to cut him some slack here. He was not responsible for her death. If the roles were reversed here ..and karthik was spending lots of time with a female colleague ..maybe naira would have questioned him too..And tbh ..trust and jealousy issues come up in almost all marriages at some stage..where a spouse will get jealous of someone the other spouse worked with or spent time with...even though there was no cheating or affair. but back to the show ,..now that the family are involved karthik should tell them that naira was upset with him and the circumstances surrounding her leaving,.. He must do that..and I think he will.. He should say he was partly responsible for her leaving ..but truth of the matter is that what he did no where justified naira keeping kairav away from him and hurting her whole family by letting them believe she was dead. Her father and brother did not deserve the pain they must have felt at her death. So naira was very wrong..

No one is denying any of what you said. And let's assume, he doesn't have to bother about telling his family members about his accusation of infidelity. And I agree. But the repercussions of his actions are something that affected everyone. That's when I feel others have a right to know. I can try and see that, it could be again a private matter between Kartik and Naira. But now she is alive and back. Now he can't stand back and expect everybody to blame her without knowing her side is all that I am saying.

And you can't really say he didn't force her to get into the car and drive recklessly. Physical coercion is not the only way power/relationships work. It doesn't have to be a material aspect. How much ever anyone denies it, Naira wouldn't have stepped out of the house if he hadn't broken her trust and questioned her love or faith in them. What if she gets so shattered by his question and decided to hang herself instead of getting into a car and driving recklessly? Would you still say, he didn't force her to kill herself?

And being the Kaira fan I am, I want Kartik to feel the happiness and love for Naira now that he has gotten her back. Right now, it feels like all that matter to him is Kairav which is totally and completely acceptable. But I am just not liking his anger/ignorance towards her which though makes complete sense. And it felt like he wasn't connecting his accusations, with her not coming back. I am willing to cut Kartik some slack because right now, he just had so much new information loaded into him with so much emotional baggage. It's all about what I am expecting from the show in the coming days.

Two wrongs don't make a right. And just because one wrong is higher than the other, it doesn't cancel the smaller one either. So, Kartik can't just stand in the corner and play victim throughout is all that I am saying. If they can make Naira apologise in the Shubham track, Kartik has to definitely apologise in this track.

I hope I was able to get my point across.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

No one is denying any of what you said. And let's assume, he doesn't have to bother about telling his family members about his accusation of infidelity. And I agree. But the repercussions of his actions are something that affected everyone. That's when I feel others have a right to know. I can try and see that, it could be again a private matter between Kartik and Naira. But now she is alive and back. Now he can't stand back and expect everybody to blame her without knowing her side is all that I am saying.

And you can't really say he didn't force her to get into the car and drive recklessly. Physical coercion is not the only way power/relationships work. It doesn't have to be a material aspect. How much ever anyone denies it, Naira wouldn't have stepped out of the house if he hadn't broken her trust and questioned her love or faith in them. What if she gets so shattered by his question and decided to hang herself instead of getting into a car and driving recklessly? Would you still say, he didn't force her to kill herself?

And being the Kaira fan I am, I want Kartik to feel the happiness and love for Naira now that he has gotten her back. Right now, it feels like all that matter to him is Kairav which is totally and completely acceptable. But I am just not liking his anger/ignorance towards her which though makes complete sense. And it felt like he wasn't connecting his accusations, with her not coming back. I am willing to cut Kartik some slack because right now, he just had so much new information loaded into him with so much emotional baggage. It's all about what I am expecting from the show in the coming days.

Two wrongs don't make a right. And just because one wrong is higher than the other, it doesn't cancel the smaller one either. So, Kartik can't just stand in the corner and play victim throughout is all that I am saying. If they can make Naira apologise in the Shubham track, Kartik has to definitely apologise in this track.

I hope I was able to get my point across.

Yes, karthik can be cut slack in that he suffered for 5 years and was living in guilt, yet he hid his guilt and the truth from the people who have a right to know and that's where he went wrong. If he truly felt guilty, which we know he was, why hide it from the family? Because he was scared of their reaction? His reaction to seeing naira alive was one of overwhelming happiness but when the realisation sunk in, his mind was only full of questions from there as to where naira was all this time if she was alive, so the feeling of betrayal kicked in after the initial happiness.

I agreed and did say that he should tell everyone now that he questioned naira and that upset her and made her drive off. Please read my post ..it’s there. But what I’m trying to say is that telling people that you thought your spouse was cheating is not easy ...firstly ...always the spouse who is the one who is presumably being cheated on ..gets the sympathy..so if karthik had told anyone before naira went off that he suspected her off cheating ..he would have got the sympathy not her...and her character would have been shown in a bad light... But if he had told them after she went off ...Maybe they would have been upset with him...but I’m not sure that they would have actually hated him ..becAuse he must have had his reasons for feeling insecure..and he would have told them he was wrong about suspecting her..,.. Sorry but I can’t see karthik as being responsible for nairas death,.and like Someone quoted above ,..she could have hung herself. Well I always feel it’s wrong to blame a living person for someone’s suicide ..it doesn’t mean if your husband fights with you or questions your integrity you should go kill yourself. ...you should rather prove your innocence and then if you don’t want to be with the man because he broke your trust ..leave him..don’t go killing yourself or faking your death..lots of couples have fights and immense problems in their relationship..and majority learn to sort out the issue ...and either move past it or break off the relationship..suicide and running away really should not be an option...Just my opinion..

i feel what Kartik did was unpardonable....

Originally posted by: adithyan

i feel what Kartik did was unpardonable....

That is unless he proves he really is guilty and tells the family when they confront naira. The whole truth should be in front of them, but the new spoiler says naira won't tell the family about why she left, but if karthik really does feel he was wrong to question naira, then he should himself tell the family if naira refuses to embarrass karthik by telling the family the question he asked naira that made her leave. If he tells the family and is honest then to me he will have my 100% sympathy over naira, but if even now he refuses to admit it, then he's on equal par at fault with naira for me. Naira is already wrong as it is and her fault will be out in the open, but if karthik keeps silent and hides his fault then he's only making himself look more like a victim in front of the family, when he doesn't need to as he can simply tell them the guilt he felt over asking naira that question and that he knows he was wrong to question naira under the influence of a third person, so then both of their mistakes and the entire story would be in front of all.

They both need to see a psychiatrist as they both have issues.

100% agree with all points made. In this case they have minimized Karthik's insecurity issues and focused on Naira's pretending to be dead.

I remember the scene from last year's separation where Kartik "had to" manhandle Naira...he forcefully grabbed her face and pushed her..& she pushed him back...CVs/SP edited the face grabbing part...than nobody from his family till now know he forged Naira's sign on abortion papers when she was against abortion...chances of survival were 50%...well that can be considered a personal matter...but what if Naira actually had an abortion?....Accusation whether a woman slept with her boss is not something to be kept "private" its not something that can stay between a couple...its not as casual or normally happens between couples...as it may appear to few....Soumya accused Manish-Suwarna of extra marital affair...and everybody in the family knew about her accusation...I haven't seen man/woman not informing parents about their his/her spouse accusing him or her of adultery....there can be exceptions...though...

Originally posted by: rose2015

They both need to see a psychiatrist as they both have issues.

100% agree with all points made. In this case they have minimized Karthik's insecurity issues and focused on Naira's pretending to be dead.

The person who is writing for them needs one for sure...

Agree with your each word... This is so true...

Kartik shud apologize.... It was his fault in the first place as why this happened... Naira thought even her baby will be questioned...

Kartik is acting as victim... Which he is clearly not...

Kartik is very manipulative

he is only sorry until he figures out a way to turn the tables and make himself the victim so you end up apologizing to him

🤣He is a champion manipulator

everyone will blame him and then he will be +_+ like she hid the fact she birthed my son guys!!!

And all accusing eyes will hit naira...

Very similarly to how everyone kept scolding him about stealing krish back then he was sorry and guilty until naksh started taking naira away from him then naksh became the villain and kartik the hero LMFAO