कसौटी ज़िन्दगी के ২ LIVE UPDATE/Episode Discussions 14 Aug 2019 - Page 6

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Veena won't accept voh toh mujhe pta hai.

Mai bas ye keh rhi hu ki even if pre gives money to veena, kuch galat nhi hai.

Yes, there is no physical relationship between pre and bajaj. Yes, she has no feelings for him. But look at her behavior with him. Does she look like she is in some forced marriage?

In fact PreRish marriage these days looks like initial days of an arranged marriage where both ladka ldki were not interested in marrying but parental pressure ki wajah se married.

That's why I say Pre needs to grow a spine and leave this. But if she chooses to stay with RB, which she has and has also accepted him as her husband then what's wrong if she chooses to help her mom financially?

@meraRai answered to your reply also here.

Sneha only reason she’s towing the line is she doesn’t trust Baj won’t go after Anu again. It’s more to ensure he stays clear of Anu. Look at her taking his berating like a doormat.

Where is her self respect? No confidence in herself. Sharmas probably are still smarting from her actions. Why did Shavini even call Pre to tell Veena was getting a job?

But Anu is getting in his face. Looks like Sneki Ki asli mummy Is soon going to show up much to Baj’s annoyance.

Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

Yehi to problem hai Sneha that nowhere it looks as if she is into a forced marriage. That's where the writers have failed with Prerna's character. She doesn't have any rights on his finances and she can't offer that to her mother without asking him. That's bcoz I've been in such a situation and I earned myself so I could help my family and that was clear from my in-laws side. So it's not right what she is doing.

That simply means she has accepted her marriage. Accepting a marriage and loving your husband is different.

She has no feelings for bajaj but she has accepted the marraige.

I respect your views but I feel there is nothing wrong if a woman offers her husband's some money to her maayka for financial help. There is nothing wrong even if the woman isn't earning. Isn't it strange that in our country it's okay for a couple to keep the guy's parents at home and take care of them financially but when it comes to the women's family , we feel she shouldn't help her maayka people .

I definitely have issues with Prerna for not telling anurag about the pregnancy, but other things like her loyalty to her marraige and trying to help Veena out , is NOTHING wrong. I would have done the same if I had been in her place.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Sneha only reason she’s towing the line is she doesn’t trust Baj won’t go after Anu again. It’s more to ensure he stays clear of Anu. Look at her taking his berating like a doormat.

Where is her self respect? No confidence in herself. Sharmas probably are still smarting from her actions. Why did Shavini even call Pre to tell Veena was getting a job?

But Anu is getting in his face. Looks like Sneki Ki asli mummy Is soon going to show up much to Baj’s annoyance.

BT heroines never get out of a marriage even if its a forced one.According to EK,its not sanskari.Dont expect good stuff from her .

Even if its a contract marriage,Bajaj should minimum learn how to give respect to a woman.it was a contract of getting married to him,not to take care of your kid.what if she refused to take care of her in the first place?

sorry nothing personal PRB fans but im just putting my pov.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Sneha only reason she’s towing the line is she doesn’t trust Baj won’t go after Anu again. It’s more to ensure he stays clear of Anu. Look at her taking his berating like a doormat.

Where is her self respect? No confidence in herself. Sharmas probably are still smarting from her actions. Why did Shavini even call Pre to tell Veena was getting a job?

But Anu is getting in his face. Looks like Sneki Ki asli mummy Is soon going to show up much to Baj’s annoyance.

There is no doubt that Pre needs to grow a backbone.

And That was initial days of marriage during Swiss track. Where she was with RB only because she was scared that he shouldn't hurt Anu.

Now a days, it looks like She has slowly accepted the marriage and is there not just for anurag but for kuki too. She genuinely loves the kid. When RB told her he doesn't like her requesting or begging anyone, she said something like MY family. She considers Bajaj's family as hers.

Without even knowing, she has eventually accepted herself as part of his family. What started as a deal/forced marraige doesn't look forced to me anymore. Other than the nonexistent physical relationship part, their marriage looks like a newly Wed arranged marriage couple where two people don't love each other but try to live in harmony.

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

That simply means she has accepted her marriage. Accepting a marriage and loving your husband is different.

She has no feelings for bajaj but she has accepted the marraige.

I respect your views but I feel there is nothing wrong if a woman offers her husband's some money to her maayka for financial help. There is nothing wrong even if the woman isn't earning. Isn't it strange that in our country it's okay for a couple to keep the guy's parents at home and take care of them financially but when it comes to the women's family , we feel she shouldn't help her maayka people .

I definitely have issues with Prerna for not telling anurag about the pregnancy, but other things like her loyalty to her marraige and trying to help Veena out , is NOTHING wrong. I would have done the same if I had been in her place.

Blame it on the writing, a woman in a namesake marriage gets perks as his wife just so she cares for Sneki.

It’s the nature of the marriage that raises the question about her financially helping Veena who’s proud to take help from a man who didn’t have the decency to meet her prior to blackmailing her daughter into marriage. He didn’t show the basic respect to Veena.

No harm in helping maike with husband’s money but this one sees his wife like a hired help rather than wife.

Originally posted by: prb4eva

BT heroines never get out of a marriage even if its a forced one.According to EK,its not sanskari.Dont expect good stuff from her .

Even if its a contract marriage,Bajaj should minimum learn how to give respect to a woman.it was a contract of getting married to him,not to take care of your kid.what if she refused to take care of her in the first place?

sorry nothing personal PRB fans but im just putting my pov.

No apologies need to express your pov. He’s used to demanding his way in business, that trait is likely to spill into personal life too. Who knows what stories his ex will have to tell.

First it was marry me or Anu pays the price.then it changed to marriage was only for Sneki’s caregiver. He makes it all up as he goes along. Who knows what else he will demand from Pre for his own selfish ends.

After the way he berated her yday how come Pre didn’t slap him? She didnt hold back with Navvu or Anu.

Since I quit watching, has he once asked Pre what she needs or wants? It seems he expects her to fulfill his demands.

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

That simply means she has accepted her marriage. Accepting a marriage and loving your husband is different.

She has no feelings for bajaj but she has accepted the marraige.

I respect your views but I feel there is nothing wrong if a woman offers her husband's some money to her maayka for financial help. There is nothing wrong even if the woman isn't earning. Isn't it strange that in our country it's okay for a couple to keep the guy's parents at home and take care of them financially but when it comes to the women's family , we feel she shouldn't help her maayka people .

I definitely have issues with Prerna for not telling anurag about the pregnancy, but other things like her loyalty to her marraige and trying to help Veena out , is NOTHING wrong. I would have done the same if I had been in her place.

Its more to do with Prerna's + Sharma's khudaari nature.. Like ideal Prerna would first check with Bajaj for finance n tell him that she'll repay soon.. And then get back to veena that she has arranged some money.. Its more to do with Prerna being self dependent which cvs dont wish to write much this season..

Originally posted by: anupre123

Its more to do with Prerna's + Sharma's khudaari nature.. Like ideal Prerna would first check with Bajaj for finance n tell him that she'll repay soon.. And then get back to veena that she has arranged some money.. Its more to do with Prerna being self dependent which cvs dont wish to write much this season..

ye wahi prerna hai kya jo navu ko bhi paise kama ke dena chahti thi

now she offering her husband money to her parents

hope veena has sime self respect

I guess anurag would be missing during d party..

He is flying to London....

Oh no..who will save ur baby anurag

Originally posted by: Swatij20

I guess anurag would be missing during d party..

He is flying to London....

Oh no..who will save ur baby anurag