~*~ EJF/Prerna AT #3 - Girengi Nahin, To Sikhengi Kaise [Note 117] - Page 31

Originally posted by: Push-pull

She's doing her scoring job and acting referee to decide who is the winner of the game.. 😉

Yeah ... she doesn't have anything else to do .... so let's be a referee ..

Take care of Sneki n watch the match

Originally posted by: nailah_AnuPre

How pathetic yaar! Fate will win over love and responsibility will take over..

Precap is hilarious!

Exactly! And people are supporting this !

Dono male leads ke fandom ke beech hum log fas chuke hain!! Cvs will use pre as ping pong only.

Goodmorning gals,

Sorry for my yesterday rants. I had decided not to be serious with KZK anymore and enjoy it in a trolling mood. But yesterday i got carried away for 3 reasons.

1. Watching Pre pampering Sneha, i couldn't control thinking of how abandoned her munna inside might be feeling. I couldn't stand it probably because, i am not a mahatma like the CVs Prerna, who thinks of others more than herself. Because, with the same logic applied, viewers can ask why isn't she giving importance to her child, more than her love for Anurag or her new found sahara Sneha? Afterall, she thinks always about others, na? Btw, beware ladies....Pre-Sneha bond is the next bait for trapping viewers. Didn't you hear what Bajaj said yesterday? That it is Devimaa who made Sneha meet Pre and so he wanted to respect it. That is how the CVs trapped us in AnuPre land and one fine day mocked evetything related to the divine power. So, be careful.

2. I had great expectations from the Bajaj, as a grey character. So seeing him getting whitewashed this soon and that too with phuski dialogues i got 😡 like anything. I thought CVs will atleast give him a gradual character growth as KSG has enough days in hand. After AnuPre, it is Bajaj's intrigueness that kept me hooked to the show. And in one day everything turns phuski. I even found his lines on having a kaduvi past with Basus lame.😔

3. Whenever i see people portraying Anu as a manhandler or physical abuser, it brings a heaviness in my mind. Not because of my soft corner for him; but because how people forget all the good things he did for Pre before this. Why it pains me so much is because, this is one of the reasons many relationships end before it starts. From my 21years experience of married life, I can tell you if you don't take an effort to understand and identify the good traits & cores of your partner and instead is interested in pinpointing only their faults, then you will never be able to lead a happy life together. Applicable for both men & women. In these 21years, there had been lots of major jhatkas and experiences where i could have left easily if i gave prime importance to my self respect. Instead, along with God Almighty's grace, what has helped me to have a happy & beautiful family is, i didn't get late in identifying my hubby's goodness and his soft-hearted nature. So, when things went wrong what motivated me in understanding the situations or reasons on why he behaved or spoke so, is the part that i was aware of the real person who he was. Same goes with him too, though it took more time for him to understand the real me. And i am a person who feels emotional hurts more deeply than physical hurts. That is why i always wanted Pre to give it back to Anu for the way he humiliated her in public. So, when Pre was recently listing out all the insults and humiliations she & her family suffered at the hands of Mohini & Nivi, i was really enjoying it with a guilty pleasure and with a grin on my face. If i knew to whistle, i would have done it that day to cheer up Prerna for making Anu taste his own words and for Eri for the attitude & body language she expressed in that scene, as that is something i too do with my husband. Only difference is that, Anu got hurt as Pre's those words reopened the wound he himself inflicted on him that day when he insulted her and as a reflex action slapped her. Whereas in my case, when i do it and hubby feels that i am crossing the limits, he will just warn me. Varna hamara height aur weight ka differrence ki hisaab se, uska ek thapad par i will either go behosh or fly away.😆

So, shared these here just to let you all know that why i sounded anti-Pre yesterday. Now that, I am back to the trolling mode, I will try not to bring negative vibes to the AT anymore.

Have a good day.😊

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Grace, when the sassy Prerna track started, I was the first to say she should not go back to basu bari .

It's not like I want Prerna and bajaj together. At least not this bajaj. Not till be is arrogant, selfish and doesn't realise his mistake.

But Anurag basu is a complete No. I mean he is much better than Bajaj as a human being for sure, but would you go back to a man who has slapped you?

Anurag may be a good human but not good for a relationship. Stalking, manhandling and slapping is a strict No in my dictionary. This is again my POV. U need not agree :)

Bold - I am still with the man who has slapped me emotionally many times😆. If you have read my post above, you will understand what i meant. Infact, something of that sort happened even 2 months back. And i made him taste the bitterness of his actions and words in the next few days. That is how life is. Not that you will leave a relationship at the drop of a hat.

Also Sneha....in the 3rd part of my above post i was not pinpointing you alone. It was meant for all on every social media who just want to focus on Anu's slap and manhandling part. Hope you will take it in that sense only.

Originally posted by: gemini54

@ Grace and Sneha Love both your POV and understand where you are coming from.

If you look at it realistically any self respecting girl would not have gone back to Anurag after his insults but this Prerna did!. Another diversion from reality any girl in reality would not sacrifice her life for her lovers by marrying a stranger this Prerna did. In reality any woman would really not forget her pregnancy but this Prerna did? Can we pause and think why? Reality the writers don’t know how to write for Prerna the character so just show her doing things far removed from reality and that is a REALITY.

If we look at it from just Prerna the character perspective she has always put everyone over her be it her parents, her friends who she helped in eloping, her sister, her lover and the list goes on ... so why is it hard for us to believe now she is putting another child above hers?.

This Prerna is showing her strength as an epitome of selflessness and that is her Prerna why can’t viewers take it like that? I will tell you why because they are biased towards the male leads and characters.

So if we can let us cheer this selfless Prerna, or move back from the show and cheer Erica.

Hugs to all of you from a fellow Erica fan

Sabi....i have no problem with selfless Prerna. Infact, i am of the opinion that if we have to maintain a good relationship with our dear ones, at one time or the other, either one of the party or both will have to be selfless. Then only a relationship can work. So, i am ok with her selflessness. My problem is with her lack of communication which was there from the beginning itself about which she has not improved a bit. That is where the CVs are getting to my nerves of not giving her a character growth, especially in this area. 😔

Originally posted by: Suchi_Ejf_fan

BTW this was eri's painting

And what makes it more beautiful is the fact that she made such a meaningful painting just within few minutes. Just like KSG said, simple and classy.

Slapfest is one easy way to blame Anu and reject him and I hate the CVs for that. Too dramatic and we know how the CVs are in that department.. Anyway Pre is not gonna reject, just for that because she smiled at his slap just like Anu smiled at hers... Pre slapping Anu and Anu slapping Pre.. Let's see if the slapfest continues and keep the score of it who wins the slap game.. 😆

Originally posted by: grace4317

Sabi....i have no problem with selfless Prerna. Infact, i am of the opinion that if we have to maintain a good relationship with our dear ones, at one time or the other, either one of the party or both will have to be selfless. Then only a relationship can work. So, i am ok with her selflessness. My problem is with her lack of communication which was there from the beginning itself about which she has not improved a bit. That is where the CVs are getting to my nerves of not giving her a character growth, especially in this area. 😔

Communication is a big problem between Anu-Pre.. Not just Pre even Anu is too bad in this department.. And to lose the trust on the lack of it..

Originally posted by: FLW70

Yeah ... she doesn't have anything else to do .... so let's be a referee ..

Take care of Sneki n watch the match

Yeah.. Pre just have to enjoy her popcorn leaving these two lions to fight it out.. Sneha can have her entertainment too.. 😉 And can choose who is her Superman.. 🥳

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Ohh maan.. Look at her in this scene🤗.. I had skipped this scene for I didn't want to see Anu doing whatever he was doing then in the name of sacrifice..🤪

But yeah now it doesn't matter.. 😉

I feel like hugging ladki.. 🤗

https://www.instagram.com/p/B0ylKdQn8ws/

That was one of Eri's best performance in her whole acting career. Till this happened, for me her KRPKAB accident scene was the best. But this was altogether on another level. Lots of emotions in a single scene. They had splitted it into 2 episodes and that too as Friday-Monday episode. Otherwise, if they had shown the whole scene from the moment she entered till she left in one episode, i am sure the impact Eri would have left in the audience as Pre would have been huge. I think makers did it purposely so that viewers will not hate Anu extremely and would accept Pre coming back to BB. And for the trust EK showed to put such a challenging scene in the hands of Eri, i can even forgive EK for whatever she is doing with the character Prerna.

P.S. If anyone here or in any SM who knows to make a VM could combine these Pre scenes from both episodes and make a VM including the dialogs, it would be a beautiful piece of art.