Expecting Negativity...?!

OK first of all I respect all point of views of all forum members, main Sirf apna pov post kar rahi hu as all are doing

I don't what everybody is expecting from mishti, some want her mahaan, some downright selfish

So here it is my view

Mishti kaisi FL hai, I can't say cuz I had not watched many serials, but jitne bhi maine FLs dekhe hai ,un sabse zyada I find mishti logical

If we are living in real world, we have to accept some bitter reality, I know mishti ko bilkul zarurat nahi hai apne aapko burden ya responsible maan ne ki, but as I have mentioned in earlier post also, use apna ghar chodke dusre ghar aana pada tha at age of 13-14 , in this age kids are emotional and in her heart usne ye baat maani ki her parents left her, abandoned her, we can't relate to that pain, agar Wo kuhu ki age mein mahs ke paas aati to Wo move on kar paati apne past se, but she was big enough to understand the feeling of abandonment.

So mishti ka family ki Taraf right se zyada responsible feel Karna is natural, and I find her different because during her god dhana use ye baat pata chali ki her father is murderer fir bhi usne ye nahi samjha ki Uske life mein ab use aur koi MIL nahi sakta, I know many girls like this jo apne aapko Itna underestimate karti hai ki they think they don't deserve any good. Mishti has the guts to call off her alliance amids all the chaos that too on her god dhana, which is really not easy.

And show completed 100 epis and is still standing firm with its concept, it don't need any stupid stuff to have a long run, meenu and abir ka relation kaise bhi ho Baad mein, when now he's trusting mishti, knows mishti, understand mishti, then shaadi ke Baad why would all think ki Wo badlega

Shaheer has done shows which is logical, if anybody had watched navya, it was also a sp show, FL was like other FL that time but the relationship they shared was unique based with trust and understanding. I am positive ki is show mein bhi we'll see logical things only

Abhi tak jo show mein nahi hua uspe Hum itne surety se Kyu baat Kar rahe hai, enjoy the track which is going on.

If anybody want to quit the show you can just quit the show, forum pe announce karne ki I don't think koi zarurat hai, as you're just making the fans of forum skeptical.

We are also tired of meenu kunal and kuhu track but we are hooked because of MishBir, Jaha pe 100 epis tak bhi ml and FL ne Abhi tak ek dusre ki insult nahi ki, faaltu ki akad nahi dikhayi

Plz be positive 👍😇

Totally agree with you... Mishti has shown to be a sensible person and I hope this continues. To some extent ITV has to show drama but the character of leads are different from other TV serials and this is what makes it unique. I am also expecting a beautiful journey of Mishbir and this will keep us fans going...

Originally posted by: vssdp

OK first of all I respect all point of views of all forum members, main Sirf apna pov post kar rahi hu as all are doing

I don't what everybody is expecting from mishti, some want her mahaan, some downright selfish

So here it is my view

Mishti kaisi FL hai, I can't say cuz I had not watched many serials, but jitne bhi maine FLs dekhe hai ,un sabse zyada I find mishti logical

If we are living in real world, we have to accept some bitter reality, I know mishti ko bilkul zarurat nahi hai apne aapko burden ya responsible maan ne ki, but as I have mentioned in earlier post also, use apna ghar chodke dusre ghar aana pada tha at age of 13-14 , in this age kids are emotional and in her heart usne ye baat maani ki her parents left her, abandoned her, we can't relate to that pain, agar Wo kuhu ki age mein mahs ke paas aati to Wo move on kar paati apne past se, but she was big enough to understand the feeling of abandonment.

So mishti ka family ki Taraf right se zyada responsible feel Karna is natural, and I find her different because during her god dhana use ye baat pata chali ki her father is murderer fir bhi usne ye nahi samjha ki Uske life mein ab use aur koi MIL nahi sakta, I know many girls like this jo apne aapko Itna underestimate karti hai ki they think they don't deserve any good. Mishti has the guts to call off her alliance amids all the chaos that too on her god dhana, which is really not easy.

And show completed 100 epis and is still standing firm with its concept, it don't need any stupid stuff to have a long run, meenu and abir ka relation kaise bhi ho Baad mein, when now he's trusting mishti, knows mishti, understand mishti, then shaadi ke Baad why would all think ki Wo badlega

Shaheer has done shows which is logical, if anybody had watched navya, it was also a sp show, FL was like other FL that time but the relationship they shared was unique based with trust and understanding. I am positive ki is show mein bhi we'll see logical things only

Abhi tak jo show mein nahi hua uspe Hum itne surety se Kyu baat Kar rahe hai, enjoy the track which is going on.

If anybody want to quit the show you can just quit the show, forum pe announce karne ki I don't think koi zarurat hai, as you're just making the fans of forum skeptical.

We are also tired of meenu kunal and kuhu track but we are hooked because of MishBir, Jaha pe 100 epis tak bhi ml and FL ne Abhi tak ek dusre ki insult nahi ki, faaltu ki akad nahi dikhayi

Plz be positive 👍😇

Much needed post.👏.most of the time i have seen the negative post in the forum even before the track ends they come to conclusion..i am not at all following any show other than this..but have seen some pits here and there of other shows they dont have logic full of negatvity though the fans of the shows are enjoying..our show is the only show currently contend based and logical show..though it has some negativity..without negativity how can they show positive things.even in real life we face ups and downs..its just a show its needs some negativity to run and build the story

Originally posted by: Drfb

Totally agree with you... Mishti has shown to be a sensible person and I hope this continues. To some extent ITV has to show drama but the character of leads are different from other TV serials and this is what makes it unique. I am also expecting a beautiful journey of Mishbir and this will keep us fans going...

I know dear

It's my 5th serial I think ,and I don't know much about other leads ,but I find them different because they are relatable

But many don't find them different and it's acceptable too, but they should atleast agree that they're good leads

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Much needed post.👏.most of the time i have seen the negative post in the forum even before the track ends they come to conclusion..i am not at all following any show other than this..but have seen some pits here and there of other shows they dont have logic full of negatvity though the fans of the shows are enjoying..our show is the only show currently contend based and logical show..though it has some negativity..without negativity how can they show positive things.even in real life we face ups and downs..its just a show its needs some negativity to run and build the story

So true 👍🏼

Agree with every word of yours

Negativity ke bina positivity nahi dikhayi jaa sakti ,rightly said, overdose Ho raha hai negativity ka but MishBir scenes are really soothing

Originally posted by: vssdp

OK first of all I respect all point of views of all forum members, main Sirf apna pov post kar rahi hu as all are doing

I don't what everybody is expecting from mishti, some want her mahaan, some downright selfish

So here it is my view

Mishti kaisi FL hai, I can't say cuz I had not watched many serials, but jitne bhi maine FLs dekhe hai ,un sabse zyada I find mishti logical

If we are living in real world, we have to accept some bitter reality, I know mishti ko bilkul zarurat nahi hai apne aapko burden ya responsible maan ne ki, but as I have mentioned in earlier post also, use apna ghar chodke dusre ghar aana pada tha at age of 13-14 , in this age kids are emotional and in her heart usne ye baat maani ki her parents left her, abandoned her, we can't relate to that pain, agar Wo kuhu ki age mein mahs ke paas aati to Wo move on kar paati apne past se, but she was big enough to understand the feeling of abandonment.

So mishti ka family ki Taraf right se zyada responsible feel Karna is natural, and I find her different because during her god dhana use ye baat pata chali ki her father is murderer fir bhi usne ye nahi samjha ki Uske life mein ab use aur koi MIL nahi sakta, I know many girls like this jo apne aapko Itna underestimate karti hai ki they think they don't deserve any good. Mishti has the guts to call off her alliance amids all the chaos that too on her god dhana, which is really not easy.

And show completed 100 epis and is still standing firm with its concept, it don't need any stupid stuff to have a long run, meenu and abir ka relation kaise bhi ho Baad mein, when now he's trusting mishti, knows mishti, understand mishti, then shaadi ke Baad why would all think ki Wo badlega

Shaheer has done shows which is logical, if anybody had watched navya, it was also a sp show, FL was like other FL that time but the relationship they shared was unique based with trust and understanding. I am positive ki is show mein bhi we'll see logical things only

Abhi tak jo show mein nahi hua uspe Hum itne surety se Kyu baat Kar rahe hai, enjoy the track which is going on.

If anybody want to quit the show you can just quit the show, forum pe announce karne ki I don't think koi zarurat hai, as you're just making the fans of forum skeptical.

We are also tired of meenu kunal and kuhu track but we are hooked because of MishBir, Jaha pe 100 epis tak bhi ml and FL ne Abhi tak ek dusre ki insult nahi ki, faaltu ki akad nahi dikhayi

Plz be positive 👍😇

Extremely well said and a very logical post. Mishti's sense of responsibility is very big towards the Maheshwaris and its only normal for her to feel indebted to them. Even if she was their own flesh and blood and was faced with a situation of choosing her love or her sisters its normal for anyone to feel confused and conflicted so for Mishti its a huge deal. She and Kuhu may have never got along but they have shared the same room for years so there must be some sense of attachment to each other. Kuhu is just silly and immature but Mishti is not.. Nor is Mishti malicious that she would snatch away Kuhu's happiness at the cost of her own. Its not about being Mahaan its about being a part of a family. Mishti is an extremely level headed girl and extremely strong... She takes a stand when she needs to and is unafraid to speak her mind. How many leads on Indian tv would have planned a proposal for the man they love and actually confess their love first. I am seeing it for the first time on TV atleast.

I know we feel that theres alot of negativity etc etc but we have to also accept that the show is made for the regular trp audience who love drama .. the trp increased this week due to the drama and the wedding rituals etc. So its ok watch it as a show and enjoy the ride. At the end of it Abir and Mishti will come together we all know.

Abir is also a pretty logical and smart guy.. he will see the change in Mishti .. why is she suddenly backing off. He already feels like something is upsetting her. He also doubts his mother and thinks that she is trying to break the wedding. He only is getting swayed by Kunals fake love for Kuhu.. I am pretty sure he will eventually find out the truth with regards to that as well and poor guy he is also gonna be shattered coz thats one thing he did not expect.

I am enjoying the ride for now and am curious to see how it plays out actually coz most of what we predict is going wrong so I am very curious to know what happens next. Since I don't like too much negativity I am watching in fast forward on Hotstar but I love the Abir and Mishti scenes its only Kunal and Minakshi and their plotting that I don't enjoy watching. They make Mishti seem like some major mastermind trying to get to Abir .. without once thinking what she has actually done wrong and what would be her ultimate goal in 'fasaoing' Abir?

Originally posted by: vssdp

OK first of all I respect all point of views of all forum members, main Sirf apna pov post kar rahi hu as all are doing

I don't what everybody is expecting from mishti, some want her mahaan, some downright selfish

So here it is my view

Mishti kaisi FL hai, I can't say cuz I had not watched many serials, but jitne bhi maine FLs dekhe hai ,un sabse zyada I find mishti logical

If we are living in real world, we have to accept some bitter reality, I know mishti ko bilkul zarurat nahi hai apne aapko burden ya responsible maan ne ki, but as I have mentioned in earlier post also, use apna ghar chodke dusre ghar aana pada tha at age of 13-14 , in this age kids are emotional and in her heart usne ye baat maani ki her parents left her, abandoned her, we can't relate to that pain, agar Wo kuhu ki age mein mahs ke paas aati to Wo move on kar paati apne past se, but she was big enough to understand the feeling of abandonment.

So mishti ka family ki Taraf right se zyada responsible feel Karna is natural, and I find her different because during her god dhana use ye baat pata chali ki her father is murderer fir bhi usne ye nahi samjha ki Uske life mein ab use aur koi MIL nahi sakta, I know many girls like this jo apne aapko Itna underestimate karti hai ki they think they don't deserve any good. Mishti has the guts to call off her alliance amids all the chaos that too on her god dhana, which is really not easy.

And show completed 100 epis and is still standing firm with its concept, it don't need any stupid stuff to have a long run, meenu and abir ka relation kaise bhi ho Baad mein, when now he's trusting mishti, knows mishti, understand mishti, then shaadi ke Baad why would all think ki Wo badlega

Shaheer has done shows which is logical, if anybody had watched navya, it was also a sp show, FL was like other FL that time but the relationship they shared was unique based with trust and understanding. I am positive ki is show mein bhi we'll see logical things only

Abhi tak jo show mein nahi hua uspe Hum itne surety se Kyu baat Kar rahe hai, enjoy the track which is going on.

If anybody want to quit the show you can just quit the show, forum pe announce karne ki I don't think koi zarurat hai, as you're just making the fans of forum skeptical.

We are also tired of meenu kunal and kuhu track but we are hooked because of MishBir, Jaha pe 100 epis tak bhi ml and FL ne Abhi tak ek dusre ki insult nahi ki, faaltu ki akad nahi dikhayi

Plz be positive 👍😇

I don't find much time to post anything in forum though I wish to do that. But when I end up just checking the forum messages everyone are just saying " main iss show ko quit kar rahi hoon" .. I can understand . Even my mother who don't watch the show yesterday while seeing mishti- meenu scene . She asked me " yaaru ma idhu paaka bodham maadri irukaanga " ( who is this , she is looking scary as devil). 🤣*No offense to the actress , I just feel that her makeup load should tone down and after that she may look really good *

To forget my all tensions ,I will go through the forums and there everyone speaks like this 😕.

Thank you yaar for making this post :)

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Originally posted by: vssdp

OK first of all I respect all point of views of all forum members, main Sirf apna pov post kar rahi hu as all are doing

I don't what everybody is expecting from mishti, some want her mahaan, some downright selfish

So here it is my view

Mishti kaisi FL hai, I can't say cuz I had not watched many serials, but jitne bhi maine FLs dekhe hai ,un sabse zyada I find mishti logical

If we are living in real world, we have to accept some bitter reality, I know mishti ko bilkul zarurat nahi hai apne aapko burden ya responsible maan ne ki, but as I have mentioned in earlier post also, use apna ghar chodke dusre ghar aana pada tha at age of 13-14 , in this age kids are emotional and in her heart usne ye baat maani ki her parents left her, abandoned her, we can't relate to that pain, agar Wo kuhu ki age mein mahs ke paas aati to Wo move on kar paati apne past se, but she was big enough to understand the feeling of abandonment.

So mishti ka family ki Taraf right se zyada responsible feel Karna is natural, and I find her different because during her god dhana use ye baat pata chali ki her father is murderer fir bhi usne ye nahi samjha ki Uske life mein ab use aur koi MIL nahi sakta, I know many girls like this jo apne aapko Itna underestimate karti hai ki they think they don't deserve any good. Mishti has the guts to call off her alliance amids all the chaos that too on her god dhana, which is really not easy.

And show completed 100 epis and is still standing firm with its concept, it don't need any stupid stuff to have a long run, meenu and abir ka relation kaise bhi ho Baad mein, when now he's trusting mishti, knows mishti, understand mishti, then shaadi ke Baad why would all think ki Wo badlega

Shaheer has done shows which is logical, if anybody had watched navya, it was also a sp show, FL was like other FL that time but the relationship they shared was unique based with trust and understanding. I am positive ki is show mein bhi we'll see logical things only

Abhi tak jo show mein nahi hua uspe Hum itne surety se Kyu baat Kar rahe hai, enjoy the track which is going on.

If anybody want to quit the show you can just quit the show, forum pe announce karne ki I don't think koi zarurat hai, as you're just making the fans of forum skeptical.

We are also tired of meenu kunal and kuhu track but we are hooked because of MishBir, Jaha pe 100 epis tak bhi ml and FL ne Abhi tak ek dusre ki insult nahi ki, faaltu ki akad nahi dikhayi

Plz be positive 👍😇

👏 Thank you so much for this. A much needed post. I am a Mishbir fan most importantly and I will be with them till the end of the line. It doesn't matter if the ride is a bit bumpy I will still be there to see their moments of bliss amidst the madness. Also I second your opinion about posts in the forum that the show is negative and regressive and the fans obsession with calling FL mahaan. This really affects the forum's atmosphere. There is fine line between bashing and constructive criticism I hope people respect it. Thanks once again for this well written post.

Originally posted by: vssdp

OK first of all I respect all point of views of all forum members, main Sirf apna pov post kar rahi hu as all are doing

I don't what everybody is expecting from mishti, some want her mahaan, some downright selfish

So here it is my view

Mishti kaisi FL hai, I can't say cuz I had not watched many serials, but jitne bhi maine FLs dekhe hai ,un sabse zyada I find mishti logical

If we are living in real world, we have to accept some bitter reality, I know mishti ko bilkul zarurat nahi hai apne aapko burden ya responsible maan ne ki, but as I have mentioned in earlier post also, use apna ghar chodke dusre ghar aana pada tha at age of 13-14 , in this age kids are emotional and in her heart usne ye baat maani ki her parents left her, abandoned her, we can't relate to that pain, agar Wo kuhu ki age mein mahs ke paas aati to Wo move on kar paati apne past se, but she was big enough to understand the feeling of abandonment.

So mishti ka family ki Taraf right se zyada responsible feel Karna is natural, and I find her different because during her god dhana use ye baat pata chali ki her father is murderer fir bhi usne ye nahi samjha ki Uske life mein ab use aur koi MIL nahi sakta, I know many girls like this jo apne aapko Itna underestimate karti hai ki they think they don't deserve any good. Mishti has the guts to call off her alliance amids all the chaos that too on her god dhana, which is really not easy.

And show completed 100 epis and is still standing firm with its concept, it don't need any stupid stuff to have a long run, meenu and abir ka relation kaise bhi ho Baad mein, when now he's trusting mishti, knows mishti, understand mishti, then shaadi ke Baad why would all think ki Wo badlega

Shaheer has done shows which is logical, if anybody had watched navya, it was also a sp show, FL was like other FL that time but the relationship they shared was unique based with trust and understanding. I am positive ki is show mein bhi we'll see logical things only

Abhi tak jo show mein nahi hua uspe Hum itne surety se Kyu baat Kar rahe hai, enjoy the track which is going on.

If anybody want to quit the show you can just quit the show, forum pe announce karne ki I don't think koi zarurat hai, as you're just making the fans of forum skeptical.

We are also tired of meenu kunal and kuhu track but we are hooked because of MishBir, Jaha pe 100 epis tak bhi ml and FL ne Abhi tak ek dusre ki insult nahi ki, faaltu ki akad nahi dikhayi

Plz be positive 👍😇

Such a good post Vaish! Thank you for posting this! You have covered almost everything! A much needed post.

I don’t understand why there was a need for anyone to say the show is so negative when we come here on the forum and all agree on the same thing. We all want MishBir to be officially together, we want Mishti and Kuhu to have a better relationship with each other, we want Parul to tell the truth, and we want Meenu to realize how her actions are harmful to her sons. This forum is not even that divided or anything like that, which is a breath of fresh air. I mean being on the forum is half the experience if you’re an active member. In terms of positivity in the actual show, we just had that huge Sangeet ceremony where everything was so sweet and lighthearted. Even Mishti and Kuhu put their differences aside for a bit to make their family happy. Abir and Mishti’s whole dynamic is light hearted. Yeah there’s intensity but the way they come together after going through an emotional moment is actually really interesting. For example, Mishti asked Abir to come over for coffee, she tells him how easy it is to talk to Abir, Abir also always supports Mishti, the whole Kangan scene was so cute too. Yeah there’s crying and being jealous and manipulation but this is a drama after all, it needs to be dramatic in some sense. But I’m also hooked to whatever is being shown, positive or negative.