In defense of PRERNA :- - Page 2

Sneha tell me one thing . How did she think like..how exactly did she contemplate anurags reaction on all this ?

How can she say that anurag respected women and all that shit and he has changed ? She expected him to be a devdas for her ? She wants him to HATE her so that he moves on so she is mouthing some dialogues which are interpreted as anurag is manhandling prerna . Is it true ? Really? These dialogues were mouthed by her so that he backs off . She did NOT mean it..that anu kidnap her and all.

Sorry . I value her sacrifice more than anurags sacrifice. I said that..n everyday i just reiterate that anu must stop it , back off and get a life but he will take TIME. Prernas reaction to anu is OK but to BAjAJ is odd coz she doesnt show any kind of resentment or anger to him..she should be hating him after what he did to her. Thats all.

Since psycho and obsessive lover is often used , the kinda love they showed between them , isnt it so obvious that he will behave that way ? His world turned upside down .

Wont he change ? I mean would he really take all that shit reasoning of prerna and go back? She really thinks he wud believe all that she said ? Why and how ? Its impossible for anyone ..either she should have thought of something or just tell the truth man..the world the shadi bajaj be damned. What can bajaj do? Make anurag poor? Snatch his business ? Cant prerna trust anurag that he can fight it out? No she doesnt. This protection thing doesnt make sense ..she thinks anurag is that weak in front of bajaj.

It's a great post.

But I have a argument to present, Prerna cannot get rid of Anurag unless she gives him a closure that he can believe.

Anurag can't believe that she did it because of money at the last moment. That's his conflict. Prerna thinks Anurag can move on only because she told him so, but the truth is he can't unless he has a sound closure. The act of Prerna was truly meant to be a sacrifice & not a rash decision & Anurag was supposed to be amazed at Prerna's love for him. Here one acts that was rash is having a opposite reaction that is equally rash.

She thinks that the truth will force Anurag into guilt trap. Momentarily yes but not forever. The original characterization behaved differently than this. That was healthy & this is toxic. Prerna never made that her majboori but her decision while Anurag accepted this as her supreme love for him that he could never show towards her. Both were honest to each other when Bajaj entered their lives & created a havoc.

I am forced to take original Anurag's reference here. He was angry at Prerna for this decision, but the moment he came to know about the truth in next two days, he was indebted to her. He didn't remain guilty for long or grew obsessive to get her back by hook or crook. He said I would respect your decision & whatever you have done for me. I would never interfere in your life & your commitment but I will stand by you always whenever you need me. I will wait for you. He never liked Bajaj but he respected her decision with utmost sincerity. Prerna too decided to remain friends with him & be by his side as a friend. She gave her son to Anurag on her father-in-law's request & Anu decided to live with his son in her memories. The whole Basu family decided to respect her & not bother in her new life unnecessarily. Even Anurag never bothered her unless it was about their son or business. And Prerna did complete justice to all her roles after marriage.

Here they have completely deviated from original characterization & that's why things look forced here for everyone especially the lead characters.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

It's a great post.

But I have a argument to present, Prerna cannot get rid of Anurag unless she gives him a closure that he can believe.

Anurag can't believe that she did it because of money at the last moment. That's his conflict. Prerna thinks Anurag can move on only because she told him so, but the truth is he can't unless he has a sound closure. The act of Prerna was truly meant to be a sacrifice & not a rash decision & Anurag was supposed to be amazed at Prerna's love for him. Here one acts that was rash is having a opposite reaction that is equally rash.

She thinks that the truth will force Anurag into guilt trap. Momentarily yes but not forever. The original characterization behaved differently than this. That was healthy & this is toxic. Prerna never made that her majboori but her decision while Anurag accepted this as her supreme love for him that he could never show towards her. Both were honest to each other when Bajaj entered their lives & created a havoc.

I am forced to take original Anurag's reference here. He was angry at Prerna for this decision, but the moment he came to know about the truth in next two days, he was indebted to her. He didn't remain guilty for long or grew obsessive to get her back by hook or crook. He said I would respect your decision & whatever you have done for me. I would never interfere in your life & your commitment but I will stand by you always whenever you need me. I will wait for you. He never liked Bajaj but he respected her decision with utmost sincerity. Prerna too decided to remain friends with him & be by his side as a friend. She gave her son to Anurag on her father-in-law's request & Anu decided to live with his son in her memories. The whole Basu family decided to respect her & not bother in her new life unnecessarily. Even Anurag never bothered her unless it was about their son or business. And Prerna did complete justice to all her roles after marriage.

Here they have completely deviated from original characterization & that's why things look forced here for everyone especially the lead characters.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Since psycho and obsessive lover is often used , the kinda love they showed between them , isnt it so obvious that he will behave that way ? His world turned upside down .

Wont he change ? I mean would he really take all that shit reasoning of prerna and go back? She really thinks he wud believe all that she said ? Why and how ? Its impossible for anyone ..either she should have thought of something or just tell the truth man..the world the shadi bajaj be damned. What can bajaj do? Make anurag poor? Snatch his business ? Cant prerna trust anurag that he can fight it out? No she doesnt. This protection thing doesnt make sense ..she thinks anurag is that weak in front of bajaj.

I think the problem is not in him not moving on, Ofcourse it will take ages for him to move on, but his behavior, right now, is that of a sadak chaap lafamga, atleast for me. Parth is adding a sensitivoty, when he was looking at Pre and bajaj sitting on bench, his eyes shone with the pain of lost love, his confusion, his sadness, everything was portrayed well.

Cvs should show Anurag's defiance and anguish in a more refined and dignified manner.

They have showed Pre weak and immature, they r doing the same with Anu.

These two r good bachas, but their reactions to heartbreak is worse than of adolescents.

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

ur right, the previous seasons lovers behavior was one of superior, spiritual love, not the sadak chaap, Mills and boon love of current AnuPre.

Bajaj couldn't destroy AnuPre in just one go. It took a lot from him to destroy AnuPre in the first place & that happened much later.

Things grew & fall organically. Prerna falling out of love with Anurag was gradual. The situation that lead to that fall too was organic. Her falling for Bajaj too was subtle & slow.

One can be responsible without being in love which Prerna was to Bajaj during this marriage. One can be in love & yet maintain a healthy distance & respect each other which AnuPre did during this track.

Here it's a mumbo-jumbo & it doesn't suit any character. The makers have completely ignored subtlety here & made this a toxic, impulsive couple who doesn't think at all.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Bajaj couldn't destroy AnuPre in just one go. It took a lot from him to destroy AnuPre in the first place & that happened much later.

Things grew & fall organically. Prerna falling out of love with Anurag was gradual. The situation that lead to that fall too was organic. Her falling for Bajaj too was subtle & slow.

One can be responsible without being in love which Prerna was to Bajaj during this marriage. One can be in love & yet maintain a healthy distance & respect each other which AnuPre did during this track.

Here it's a mumbo-jumbo & it doesn't suit any character. The makers have completely ignored subtlety here & made this a toxic, impulsive couple who doesn't think at all.

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

I can see this AnuPre in a emraan haasmi movie, immature and passionate love.

Even Emraan's movies are not so rash. He has always played a subtle & misguided character who takes fancy for a woman & suffers the consequences of it. It was passionate but not immature. Aksar, Gangster, Dirty picture, Humari Adhoori Kahaani, the train, Awarapan, Jannat, Raaz, Tum Mile & so on.

Originally posted by: shin-chan

Nice post Sneha.

Very rare to find such good posts on character Prerna 😊

She has sacrificed her love for her love and damn she is too still hurting. That girl dont even have anyone to share her grief. The only one who is ready to listen, she is not really that comfortable with him at the moment.

Agree that she did mistakes like by not revealing about her pregnancy to her ex rather made a wrong plan thinking it would work. Unfortunately it didnt.

For her age n maturity, this is really too much for her to handle. Yet what she felt she could do, she did it.

Moving on in life. Its not that easy as we say. It needs lot of courage to move on alongwith carrying the burden of past. Its double the pain than the one with stuck in the past. Very difficult to express this one!

She is a strong girl in her own way. She is hurting but didnt give up. She gave up wrt to her love but not life :)

What fate had for her she is trying to accept it slowly. She is sensible.

After promises of no use, humiliation by Mohini/Nivi etc who change their behaviour towards her according to their will...I really want to see her journey from here as Mrs Bajaj. Not as a fan of PreRish I am saying this but that girl deserves to rise above all the Basus', which I see is possible as Mrs Bajaj :)

I have nothing much to say abt how is she treated right now by her ex. She dont deserve this. Thats all.

Exactly! 🤗

For me, she is weak and not fiery like Prerna of KZK 1. But at the same time , I see an inner strength in her. Is it easy to sacrifice your entire life for some guy, how much ever you love him? And then she sticks to that decision.

I just hope she gives Anurag the closure by revealing the truth . Slapping, pushing her etc when she is married to someone else is disturbing. She doesn't deserve this from Anurag.

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Exactly! 🤗

For me, she is weak and not fiery like Prerna of KZK 1. But at the same time , I see an inner strength in her. Is it easy to sacrifice your entire life for some guy, how much ever you love him? And then she sticks to that decision.

I just hope she gives Anurag the closure by revealing the truth . Slapping, pushing her etc when she is married to someone else is disturbing. She doesn't deserve this from Anurag.

Agree.

Cant see happening it anytime soon. He couldnt digest the fact that she married someone else. Some more truth will only add to his misery right now and make him more crazy. He first needs to cross ths stage.

S1 pair were way too matured for their age n their way of handling kasautii was different. Here these two are not. So things here will be shown at a veryyyy slow pace.

Manhandling a girl, whether she is his so called obsessed love or wife of someone else doesnt matter. Its wrong!!! That too a ML like Anurag doing it is what more disturbing to watch.