Big Boss Tamil Season 3 - Week 4 Discussion Thread - Page 42

Read that it means 'olungaa mariyathai yaa nadandhukko' in malaysian slang

Originally posted by: goldiesif

Very simple reason to blame him, don't do it unless you know exactly whom you are dealing with and maturity level other person has and probability of this turning into serious expectations and more more importantly, set the expectations very very clear. This guy didn't have enough time to gauge any of this before getting into it nor have some good maturity level like dharshan to grasp things in shorter time frame nor did set the expectation very clearly. Just do a flashback on one of the clippings where he talks about how she meets all or most of his criteria to be his wife, those are the moments where it crossed the boundary of flirting and taken it to next level.

I don't think even Sakshi should be offended and she is just another dumb person and could be possibly creating drama to gain attention, but if her intentions is to pull him down by playing victim, I would say he deserves it and so be it.

I am not a big fan of this flirting to gain footage and sustain in the show, but if at all there is flirting which I can see through it but may not necessarily like it, it would be dharshan and sherin. That's the one which I believe which will not run into problem hopefully, because I think it meets criteria what I have said above to large extent.

@bold - boundaries differ from person to person. Had I personally heard that from a best friend, I would not have looked any more into it than face value. Likewise, it depends upon each of the girls.

For all I care, he was being very very open about what he's doing. It was the girls' voluntary involvement despite knowing that he's very well only confined to friendship/flirt-zone. Girl or boy, they are all adults and they are responsible for their own feelings/how they deal with this track. Blaming Kavin when he NEVER deceived anyone is wrong in my perspective. He was always very genuine, kind, and looked out for his buddies.

Losliya was more stressed out about being pulled into Sakshi's issue than feeling possessive over Kavin. She's very clear and so is Kavin in this. I always believed Los and Kavin were on the same page in what they shared and it showed in their conversation after the debate as well.

Besides that, I've seen a lot of patience in him. And I think that's a great quality even when he is not at fault. I saw that when Meera had her issue going on with Kavin after the alarm task as well. But let's see for how long, he may snap sooner or later to Sakshi or someone.

Also, in an unseen episode (two days ago, I think): Kavin, Sandy, Saravanan, and a few others were sitting next to the entry gate and talking. Sakshi was sitting right next to Kavin when he was saying that he was being the same with all the girls. She looked very casual, further reinforcing that she was well aware of what Kavin was doing.

Originally posted by: ramyvijay

Is it? Sollave illa 😛😉

then all love track problems cleared during neeya naana task pola.. atleast that's what I get from the updates here..

I'm still travelling.. enna makkale.. hotstar la paarkkalaamaa? worth watch it or only lodaloda?

Originally posted by: ramyvijay

Is it? Sollave illa 😛😉

then all love track problems cleared during neeya naana task pola.. atleast that's what I get from the updates here..

I'm still travelling.. enna makkale.. hotstar la paarkkalaamaa? worth watch it or only lodaloda?

Only lodaloda.... Nothing great...

Kavin tracks almost solved... But kudiya sikramea mugen and abi ku problem varum pola.. Abi told its more than friendship but mugen stressed again its only friendship for him.. Abi was in shock but somewhat mugen samalichutan...but later it will burst..

Also it seems kavin's comment "abi and mugen love story yea focus panunga en ennakea matividringa" was not went well with Abi it seems.. She was complaining to mugen ...

@coffebuff thanks for conveying this elegantly

Originally posted by: coffeebuff

@bold - boundaries differ from person to person. Had I personally heard that from a best friend, I would not have looked any more into it than face value. Likewise, it depends upon each of the girls.

For all I care, he was being very very open about what he's doing. It was the girls' voluntary involvement despite knowing that he's very well only confined to friendship/flirt-zone. Girl or boy, they are all adults and they are responsible for their own feelings/how they deal with this track. Blaming Kavin when he NEVER deceived anyone is wrong in my perspective. He was always very genuine, kind, and looked out for his buddies.

Losliya was more stressed out about being pulled into Sakshi's issue than feeling possessive over Kavin. She's very clear and so is Kavin in this. I always believed Los and Kavin were on the same page in what they shared and it showed in their conversation after the debate as well.

Besides that, I've seen a lot of patience in him. And I think that's a great quality even when he is not at fault. I saw that when Meera had her issue going on with Kavin after the alarm task as well. But let's see for how long, he may snap sooner or later to Sakshi or someone.

Also, in an unseen episode (two days ago, I think): Kavin, Sandy, Saravanan, and a few others were sitting next to the entry gate and talking. Sakshi was sitting right next to Kavin when he was saying that he was being the same with all the girls. She looked very casual, further reinforcing that she was well aware of what Kavin was doing.

For sure I don't expect boundaries to be same for all, can't happen and it is left to individual perception.

One can't take blame away from girls for the situation they are in for reasons you have mentioned in your post and similarly can't take blame away from Kevin as well for reasons I mentioned in my post.

What ever damage happens, both parties deserve what they go through and no sympathies what so ever.

Originally posted by: ramyvijay

Read that it means 'olungaa mariyathai yaa nadandhukko' in malaysian slang

It’s more to ‘unakku mariyaathai ille’ or Rude. Direct translation can be said ‘valarpu sari ille’ 😆

Maybe I’m a old panchangam but a girl putting her feet on another boy like that seems really eccentric for me . Dressing is personal choice but all these things is touching personal boundary . Intha kodumayellam parka vendiya kattayathula namma irukkom

Originally posted by: goldiesif

For sure I don't expect boundaries to be same for all, can't happen and it is left to individual perception.

One can't take blame away from girls for the situation they are in for reasons you have mentioned in your post and similarly can't take blame away from Kevin as well for reasons I mentioned in my post.

What ever damage happens, both parties deserve what they go through and no sympathies what so ever.

In my opinion, the only time Kavin can be blamed is when it's HIS feelings that are at stake in this particular situation. He shouldn't be held responsible for what the girls are feeling when he has been transparent about his stand and never deceived any of them.

Originally posted by: sunita_raj

It’s more to ‘unakku mariyaathai ille’ or Rude. Direct translation can be said ‘valarpu sari ille’ 😆

Wow, I like this 😆 It was an instant reaction from him too, I don't know if he was entirely joking as he said to Kavin and Sandy 😛