Love is not only about feelings but trust and respect as well - Page 5

Originally posted by: _charu_

I like bajaj individually but what he did to pre is not done at all..anu pre did nothing to deserve this...he has been extremely selfish and manipulative , he cud have brought any girl he wished but forcing /blackmailing a woman who loves someone else and is pregnant with his child , n calling it " prized possession " is not giving respect to her. He is infact degrading her , hurting her and literally killed her soul , for his godforsaken reason , whatever it is..agreed pre is wrong to hide it all , she should have told someone n not complicate it to this level....but her one dialogue "at least you will be alive in front of me " says it all..she admitted what she did was wrong but her reason wasnt..that reason is hers , we cant judge it..she has accepted her fate too..i respect her for this..but bajaj is not her hero ..i know the character is yet to unfold , and go through diff transformations in future..but right now he is painted totally black ...

Originally posted by: intruderfast

@ bold -Phir se moral gyaan chaalu😆. Who give u right to call any fan grps blind? Hate Bajaj all u want. Bajaj and ksg fans know what is wrong and right . This forum won't just sing ringa ringa Roses for Anupre only

There have been abusive Male leads in various shows and audiences have lapped them up. Agar Anurag ko shuru se Bajaj jaisa dilate to yahaan sab alag hi tune mein baat karte🤪.

Bajaj fans have lots of reason to like him . Just cos our thought process doesn't match, doesn't mean it's wrong. As I said sahi galat kaa copyright sirf anti Bajaj logon ke paas nahi hai.

The post was not personal and absolutely not against the actor playing bajaj. I have enjoyed his other roles. This is purely about what is being shown in the story. so lets keep it civil.

I am genuinely curious to understand what certain audience have seen in bajaj's character so far that they would want an existing love story to break. Pls do not base it on season 1 and speculate on where the story will go in future as none of us know. base it on what has happened so far. I also want to know what kind of audience loves abusive male leads. So far the ones who have seen have not forced FL to marry them who are pregnant with another man and the other man is not evil. How does one justify this?

anurag may have had a syndrome where he wanted to everybody's saver but he has always trusted pre. In naveen's track, he did not assume pre to be marrying for money and could see through her without her telling him. that said a lot for the basis of that relationship. it was based on friendship and age wise they are much younger so they are learning with every chapter of their lives. Similarly, prerna is in character. she wanted to save all by marrying naveen and she is doing it again however stupid the decision is. They are not evil. just misguided. Regarding not telling about the baby, i don't know what is the reason so far but it is wrong unless we see a justification.

so the above are my reasons for wanting them to be together and obviously for evil to be shown the door.

Originally posted by: rnegi

Something I wrote in another thread. Normally I don’t post but wanted to today

Agreed that prerna is weak, stupid, naive but she is a victim. It’s like when people take advantage of somebody’s weak points, who do we glorify??? The person taking advantage...like really

All I see here is blind following of actor and no thought behind the character. We discuss episode based on story line and so far in this story of kzk, nothing bajaj has done will want one to root for him.

He has taken advantage of simple, emotional sacrificial girl so much in love with another man and pregnant with his child for his own pleasure( don’t really care for the back story as it cannot have sharma’s). And people call this a matured story... gosh which world do people live in. Heaven forbid anybody goes through this version of a matured relationship.

Two people in love don’t have to be perfect lovers...they are in love and love each other with all their shortcomings.. anurag prerna may have lots of flaws but that defines them, she was not suffering with anu that she needs to be shown and appreciate a blackmailer husband..

Story stinks and glorification of negativity stinks further.

“ what love and trust are we talking about between pre and b? B had just bought himself a wife( that just says a lot about relationships) and you think that relationship has love and trust?? That is not trust, that is bought loyalty as he knows that pre is a simple girl with old fashioned values and will not break the sanctity of marriage although I wish she would as relationship like this has no meaning in-spite of any worldly rituals. “

Well said.👍

A man who sees the wife he bought himself with a loyalty tag on her as a rare gem or possession has objectified her. How is that respecting her on any level? She fits the bill of a trophy wife.

Taking advantage of a person’s goodness and vulnerability and using it against her for his own selfish ends just to snatch her in the name of revenge of the man she loves.... how does that build the foundation of trust?

Originally posted by: _charu_

I like bajaj individually but what he did to pre is not done at all..anu pre did nothing to deserve this...he has been extremely selfish and manipulative , he cud have brought any girl he wished but forcing /blackmailing a woman who loves someone else and is pregnant with his child , n calling it " prized possession " is not giving respect to her. He is infact degrading her , hurting her and literally killed her soul , for his godforsaken reason , whatever it is..agreed pre is wrong to hide it all , she should have told someone n not complicate it to this level....but her one dialogue "at least you will be alive in front of me " says it all..she admitted what she did was wrong but her reason wasnt..that reason is hers , we cant judge it..she has accepted her fate too..i respect her for this..but bajaj is not her hero ..i know the character is yet to unfold , and go through diff transformations in future..but right now he is painted totally black ...

loved ur unbaised logical discription

Originally posted by: rnegi

The post was not personal and absolutely not against the actor playing bajaj. I have enjoyed his other roles. This is purely about what is being shown in the story. so lets keep it civil.

I am genuinely curious to understand what certain audience have seen in bajaj's character so far that they would want an existing love story to break. Pls do not base it on season 1 and speculate on where the story will go in future as none of us know. base it on what has happened so far. I also want to know what kind of audience loves abusive male leads. So far the ones who have seen have not forced FL to marry them who are pregnant with another man and the other man is not evil. How does one justify this?

anurag may have had a syndrome where he wanted to everybody's saver but he has always trusted pre. In naveen's track, he did not assume pre to be marrying for money and could see through her without her telling him. that said a lot for the basis of that relationship. it was based on friendship and age wise they are much younger so they are learning with every chapter of their lives. Similarly, prerna is in character. she wanted to save all by marrying naveen and she is doing it again however stupid the decision is. They are not evil. just misguided. Regarding not telling about the baby, i don't know what is the reason so far but it is wrong unless we see a justification.

so the above are my reasons for wanting them to be together and obviously for evil to be shown the door.

Anu may have a savior complex. We will never know if he would have saved himself from RB’s underhanded revenge actions since Pre decided to become the sacrificial lamb.

Granted it’s a soap opera and everything ott is part of it. But glorifying evil and pushing the envelope on shows without consequence to the villain/evil doers is a bit much. At some point he has to be held accountable. Instead the oneliving by the rules of society and not dabbling in villainous actions pays the price while the villain walks scot free.

Anurag in the old show did not once say a bad word to prerna after she married bajaj, cezanne was a good actor and he knew how to cry, and they didn’t need too much dramatic crap or anger to justify anything, as cezanne knew how to emote! I just watched the old Anurag and prerna scene, just after prerna marries bajaj, and man what a scene, those days people were actually talented, it looked so real, and heartbreaking, they actually made me cry!

Trust factor is there between Anupre... Soon Anurag will get to know the reason behind this marriage....

It looks like in this season.... Prerna will not fall for bajaj she may develop soft corner for him because of sneha.....

Trust factor is very much there in between Anupre... Unlike in season 1 where prerna always doubt anu... And everytime believes bajaj..... Bajaj was pure evil in kzk 1 where he played many dirty and cheap tricks to separate Anupre......

Marriage will take place again with anupre...

Originally posted by: marjeena

Trust factor is there between Anupre... Soon Anurag will get to know the reason behind this marriage....

It looks like in this season.... Prerna will not fall for bajaj she may develop soft corner for him because of sneha.....

Trust factor is very much there in between Anupre... Unlike in season 1 where prerna always doubt anu... And everytime believes bajaj..... Bajaj was pure evil in kzk 1 where he played many dirty and cheap tricks to separate Anupre......

Marriage will take place again with anupre...

There is a trust factor that’s why he is making prerna’s life hell unlike first season 😆

I'm really disappointed with veena..... How can a mom curse her own child .....

Even if pre did wrong , still a mother can never wish bad things for her own blood.... Here veena blindly curses her without knowing anything

Originally posted by: kalank

There is a trust factor that’s why he is making prerna’s life hell unlike first season 😆

As per the current track her life has become hell....

But in future.... Anupre will again unite....

During komo track prerna claim her love for anu and she succeeded. komo of this season was very weak villian.. I think anu is going to do the same... He will not.... Give his ladylove to bajaj..... And play friends forever game with prerna.... Unlike in season 1...