Not able to connect with bajaj - Page 11

Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

Yeah but I'm not talking about Prerna at all. It's shitty of the writers to use Prerna to elevate Bajaj (like they did the same with Anurag) and it's extremely unfair of the audience to fall into the trap of blaming women for the actions of a man.

The simple thing is that if you are being victimized, you just don't portray it in isolation with tears, you actually prove that you are being victimized by being a rebel. Anu should have been told about this & he would have fought alongside her. Prerna on the other hand called every shot in this & just showing passive anger with just words instead of fighting it with all her might. She made no attempt to escape. She wasn't forced to surrender but she chose to surrender here even when she had a chance. Problem with the lead characters here is that they take decisions on other person's behalf without even letting them know it & then they insult them & play all sacrificial & expect other side to understand it all on their own. It's a classic way to gaslight someone in future. You decided to play sacrifice all on your own but when other person calls you out on that then you decide to play victim & helpless card & have another person in guilt trap even when he isn't. Anu will doubt her for pregnancy, even insult it but Prerna would resort to blaming Anu back for not believing her. When the truth will be out, it will be used to trap Anu in a guilty trap, even though it wouldn't be his fault to think that Pre might have gotten pregnant with Bajaj since as per him she married him willingly.

Originally posted by: hasini009

ye mahaanta nahi re, dumb play in the guise of mahaanta. thaki kisi ko pata na chale kitne dumbo hai ye😆

Tabhi I said faaltu mahaanta. Hypocrites they are. And I am just hate ppl who do all this nonsense fake mahaanta.

Originally posted by: forbidden

excuse yourself i am not diverting anything. you told me its bajaj topic but you yourself is talking about AP and your friends to so don't tell me what i am doing.

lame excuse when someone speaks the truth that becomes lame since its against your like🤣 when you open a topic on someone particular do expect others around him to be discussed. if you just opened this to bash bajaj or just put him down then you will get answer back simple.

Bash or no bash i am with my topic 🤣

Hey pari....

U r back😍😍

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

He is defo not doing it to make Pre his nanny. Right now it seems that he wants Pre to not be on Anu's side & he thinks only marrying her would do that as Anu will hate Pre after this. Bajaj has read that Anu's true strength & Basus as well lies in Prerna. It's not about loyalty either. Those are fancy words to keep Prerna in an illusion. Even Bajaj knows that a woman who loves someone else & is unapologetic about it will never be loyal to him, no matter what. People are loyal to those they love whole-heartedly & disloyal to those they despise. It's to create heavy distrust between AnuPre.

Prerna should have not hidden this from anyone. She should have revealed about the child & the deal to Anu & broken the deal after Anu got out. But she wants to stay morally uptight. She should have atleast made an attempt to escape all this. She wasn't kept on gun point, she hasn't actually opposed, she didn't try to run away either. She herself came to set the date of marriage & then went to Bajaj house herself. She didn't ask for help from anyone. She actually agreed & said Yes without even being trapped completely in that situation. Passive show of anger doesn't work. If you hate something, you make all attempts to escape it. Prerna should have been a fierce rebel in this situation instead of being a sacrificial lamb. And it's not like she can't be a rebel.

Yaa i am not expecting morality from mr bajaj..and i agree whatever u said abt prerna as well...but whats wrong in calling a spade a spade ? Firstly we are not clear with the motivation behind this marriage ..we all r still guessing . They havent estblablishd mr bajaj n making him do all this appears very random . Very forced and rushed....Why wud a cunning ruthless businessman who has apparently no interest other than money , take so much interest in a woman ? N wanting her so badly as a prized possession ? Taking pride in separating her with her lover ? Abhi we dont even know why is he behind anurag. Kaunsi bhains khol ke le gaya anurag uski?

Anu pre acted like dumbos of thr highest order , why do they make the leads weak to show the other party as strong ? Not putting up a fight against him is so frustrating ..and this woman..prerna ..doesnt even hate him ! Sick ! She is just bahaoing ganga jamuna n dreaming of a shadi. Abs nothing can justify her hiding the pregnancy and this deal also . She had so many chances to walk away and still has but she is resigned to her fate..dumb woman she doesnt realize that she didnt protect anurag but scarred him for life..at least give themselves a chance to fight but no ! I understand all of it but at this point , nothing can justify mr bajaj too...

Originally posted by: reeyacute

Hey pari....

U r back😍😍

Originally posted by: _charu_

Yaa i am not expecting morality from mr bajaj..and i agree whatever u said abt prerna as well...but whats wrong in calling a spade a spade ? Firstly we are not clear with the motivation behind this marriage ..we all r still guessing . They havent estblablishd mr bajaj n making him do all this appears very random . Very forced and rushed....Why wud a cunning ruthless businessman who has apparently no interest other than money , take so much interest in a woman ? N wanting her so badly as a prized possession ? Taking pride in separating her with her lover ? Abhi we dont even know why is he behind anurag. Kaunsi bhains khol ke le gaya anurag uski?

Anu pre acted like dumbos of thr highest order , why do they make the leads weak to show the other party as strong ? Not putting up a fight against him is so frustrating ..and this woman..prerna ..doesnt even hate him ! Sick ! She is just bahaoing ganga jamuna n dreaming of a shadi. Abs nothing can justify her hiding the pregnancy and this deal also . She had so many chances to walk away and still has but she is resigned to her fate..dumb woman she doesnt realize that she didnt protect anurag but scarred him for life..at least give themselves a chance to fight but no ! I understand all of it but at this point , nothing can justify mr bajaj too...

I think Prerna hisab baraabar kr rhi hai. Anu ne bi Komo se shadi ki thi. Mai bi uski baraabari kr ln. Honestly sacrifices, especially like these don't make sense to me. They downplayed Nivi & Pre's mother as well who could do something. Upar se Anu ka over-excitement and Prerna ke aansu are too much. 22 ki umar me shadi ki itni kya jaldi hai. Thoda settle ho jao, business sambhal lo, Bajaj se ldne ke liye breakup stage kr lete. Bt na shadi se hi sb kch solve hoga. Pre is shadi ka excuse to AnuKomo ki shadi se bura & stupid h.

Bajaj is ruthless and with no mortality here. This is no reason that leads are dumb so another person will get a chance to destroy them, Ekta is making bajaj to overreact she thinks KSG is hot and that will surely woo viewers this is the main reason.

Expecting Bajaj to soften is like expecting a lion not to eat you. It is his character and he is bound to act the same way.

What is a crime though? He put forward a deal in front of her. He did NOT force her. He just put it forward. She accepted it. It's not a crime. True, he is playing with the evidences. That can be counted in crimes but the deal which she gave in for, certainly cannot.

She knew it was a trap.

She knew Anurag did not commit a crime.

She knew Ronit was alive.

She loved Anurag beyond herself, there is no doubt about the same. I would have appreciated had she moved earth and heaven (which she was completely capable of doing) in gathering enough evidences to ask some time from the court, finding Ronit (he was on earth and not in heaven or hell, so if tried, I am sure she must have got him some way or other) and then getting her love aka Anurag out of the jail.

I, for the one, am never going to accept that she was forced into the wedding. She chose it. She chose the easy way out, similar to how Anurag did back in the time in regards to Komolika.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

The simple thing is that if you are being victimized, you just don't portray it in isolation with tears, you actually prove that you are being victimized by being a rebel. Anu should have been told about this & he would have fought alongside her. Prerna on the other hand called every shot in this & just showing passive anger with just words instead of fighting it with all her might. She made no attempt to escape. She wasn't forced to surrender but she chose to surrender here even when she had a chance. Problem with the lead characters here is that they take decisions on other person's behalf without even letting them know it & then they insult them & play all sacrificial & expect other side to understand it all on their own. It's a classic way to gaslight someone in future. You decided to play sacrifice all on your own but when other person calls you out on that then you decide to play victim & helpless card & have another person in guilt trap even when he isn't. Anu will doubt her for pregnancy, even insult it but Prerna would resort to blaming Anu back for not believing her. When the truth will be out, it will be used to trap Anu in a guilty trap, even though it wouldn't be his fault to think that Pre might have gotten pregnant with Bajaj since as per him she married him willingly.

We also don't know whats going to happen in the future. Let's wait and watch and then comment.