Personality differences. - Page 6

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Well I am really sorry I shouldn't hve said that. It was definitely out of line and again I apologize.

This is just frustrating sometimes that when many people can see this as a deal which is OPEN to reject, why the term 'force' is being used ? 🤔 Who forced whom ? Any adult, including me, will like to reject this deal and focus on freeing him up legally. That's why the reference came up that I think it's okay to blame Bajaj for offering such offensive deal, but it's naive to call it a forced thing. I haven't got even a single legit reply to my question that why Prerna has to accept it ?

I am not very good with words but I will try and explain why I cannot consider it as a deal.

Anurag has been framed in a murder case ..it is not a simple case of burning a factory where you can serve the term and get out in 2 years. Murder as everyone knows is a serious charge and if proven guilty, he could face life imprisonment and I do think Bajaj is behind it.Reasons -Ronit had an easy entry in to his mansion and factory and the actor playing Ronit is also shooting is Swiss right now. There is definitely some connection there

Agreed that the Basus are not what you can call The common man but they are against a bigger enemy - Bajaj.He has been shown as an extremely powerful person who gets what he wants by hook or crook.By now Prerna knows that he is hell bent on destroying Anurag and will go to any lengths to do that.It is not easy to fight against someone like him who can arm twist the police and judiciary with his connections and money power. Basus are rich but their wealth has been of no use except for buying Mohini’s jewellery and sarees. Imagine the horror when they had to rely on Komolika to get a specialist doctor from London for Moloy’s treatment🤔

My simple point is that Bajaj has created a situation wherein Prerna is left with little options. Yes she can definitely reject his offer and go for the legal route but does that guarantee Anurag’s release and safety? When it comes to our loved ones don’t we all go for the most sure shot way of saving them rather than taking chances?

I will also give an example I had stated in another post of mine. You must have heard about casting couch that happens in film industries where big shot directors ask for sexual favour from new comers in return of work. Now there too the strugglers are not really being forced to sleep with these powerful men but these men are taking advantage of somebody’s situation ...desperation for work, financial situation etc. Isn’t this practice considered wrong? Let me make it clear that I am not comparing Bajaj to those filthy men.

Being forced into something does not always mean being forced at gun point...does it? Creating unfavourable situations and putting pressure on someone when they are at their weakest is also a way of forcing them to do what you want.

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

I am not very good with words but I will try and explain why I cannot consider it as a deal.

Anurag has been framed in a murder case ..it is not a simple case of burning a factory where you can serve the term and get out in 2 years. Murder as everyone knows is a serious charge and if proven guilty, he could face life imprisonment and I do think Bajaj is behind it.Reasons -Ronit had an easy entry in to his mansion and factory and the actor playing Ronit is also shooting is Swiss right now. There is definitely some connection there

Agreed that the Basus are not what you can call The common man but they are against a bigger enemy - Bajaj.He has been shown as an extremely powerful person who gets what he wants by hook or crook.By now Prerna knows that he is hell bent on destroying Anurag and will go to any lengths to do that.It is not easy to fight against someone like him who can arm twist the police and judiciary with his connections and money power. Basus are rich but their wealth has been of no use except for buying Mohini’s jewellery and sarees. Imagine the horror when they had to rely on Komolika to get a specialist doctor from London for Moloy’s treatment🤔

My simple point is that Bajaj has created a situation wherein Prerna is left with little options. Yes she can definitely reject his offer and go for the legal route but does that guarantee Anurag’s release and safety? When it comes to our loved ones don’t we all go for the most sure shot way of saving them rather than taking chances?

I will also give an example I had stated in another post of mine. You must have heard about casting couch that happens in film industries where big shot directors ask for sexual favour from new comers in return of work. Now there too the strugglers are not really being forced to sleep with these powerful men but these men are taking advantage of somebody’s situation ...desperation for work, financial situation etc. Isn’t this practice considered wrong? Let me make it clear that I am not comparing Bajaj to those filthy men.

Being forced into something does not always mean being forced at gun point...does it? Creating unfavourable situations and putting pressure on someone when they are at their weakest is also a way of forcing them to do what you want.

U put it nicely DG

I hope this answers the question. The thing is at this moment prerna is fighting alone with no one from Basu's in a condition to support her. Gradually they will, but still bajaj's power >>>>>> Basu's power.

Originally posted by: gemini54

Hi love the write up. I am new to this show just chanced upon this writing as I saw Erica’s name on the cast and loved her acting on her previous show.

I have not watched season 1 people are talking about and neither have I watched either one of the male actors show but from the comments looks like they are good actors.

Not to digress but coming to my take on your write up and the show.

I kind of deduced that this show is about unrequited love , a love which faces a lot of trials and tribulations but still the Love was strong. The angst filled kind of love where there are thorns all the way but the beauty of the rose remains .. sorry if i misunderstood the premise.

We have Anurag a beautiful soul, good but naive maybe due to his age and he loves Prerna , this love for her makes him do sacrifices which is his way of showing his love and we have Prerna the same personality as Anurag beautiful , naive, good ., you get the gist , in essence they are in love but that love is making them weak ;at this moment enters Bajaj an opposite of them in all ways ruthless, bad , not so young , certainly not naive seen the world .

Will this entry make Anurag and Prerna be strong in Love ? Even when they are apart probably is the gist of this story.. atleast in my mind😁.

IF sorry for the looong ramble once again loved your writing

U r welcome here to ramble more often. The forum needs more such sane voices🤗

U have put it correctly. Prerna n Anurag call themselves thornbirds😆 I better liked Ur analogy that there r thorns around n they r beautiful roses amid all the thorns. Wow!!

Well, they r newbies in the business world. They r young n haven't seen how ruthless the world can get. They r too protective of eachother n the families that at times they take those ways to solve a problem which look like easy ways but actually r their desperate measures n sure shot ways to save the one in problem. They don't have experience in dealing with such problems. They r making mistakes n learning from them. They r naive for sure. And individually they r not weak, they have huge inner strength, otherwise they can't make such sacrifice n stand by it. But yes, they love eachother so much that it is making them weaker. What they have gone through in love is making them weaker. Hope while dealing with bajaj, babies grow up, their families give them all the required support and right guidance n hope these two fools discuss things with their elders too n not use their brains only in the name of "hum aapko pareshaan Nahi Karna chahte the"

Thanks for liking my reply and the welcome.

And individually they r not weak, they have huge inner strength, otherwise they can't make such sacrifice n stand by it. But yes, they love eachother so much that it is making them weaker.

You put this so beautifully what I wanted to articulate. Yes you need great love and inner strength to make sacrifices but a little bit of rationality and understanding that you both are in it together and not one fighting for the other will go a long way in solving anything and this , then beautiful couple is yet to realize and maybe this encounter with Bajaj will teach them that because he is powerful, and does not hesitate to play dirty.

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

I am not very good with words but I will try and explain why I cannot consider it as a deal.

Anurag has been framed in a murder case ..it is not a simple case of burning a factory where you can serve the term and get out in 2 years. Murder as everyone knows is a serious charge and if proven guilty, he could face life imprisonment and I do think Bajaj is behind it.Reasons -Ronit had an easy entry in to his mansion and factory and the actor playing Ronit is also shooting is Swiss right now. There is definitely some connection there

Agreed that the Basus are not what you can call The common man but they are against a bigger enemy - Bajaj.He has been shown as an extremely powerful person who gets what he wants by hook or crook.By now Prerna knows that he is hell bent on destroying Anurag and will go to any lengths to do that.It is not easy to fight against someone like him who can arm twist the police and judiciary with his connections and money power. Basus are rich but their wealth has been of no use except for buying Mohini’s jewellery and sarees. Imagine the horror when they had to rely on Komolika to get a specialist doctor from London for Moloy’s treatment🤔

My simple point is that Bajaj has created a situation wherein Prerna is left with little options. Yes she can definitely reject his offer and go for the legal route but does that guarantee Anurag’s release and safety? When it comes to our loved ones don’t we all go for the most sure shot way of saving them rather than taking chances?

I will also give an example I had stated in another post of mine. You must have heard about casting couch that happens in film industries where big shot directors ask for sexual favour from new comers in return of work. Now there too the strugglers are not really being forced to sleep with these powerful men but these men are taking advantage of somebody’s situation ...desperation for work, financial situation etc. Isn’t this practice considered wrong? Let me make it clear that I am not comparing Bajaj to those filthy men.

Being forced into something does not always mean being forced at gun point...does it? Creating unfavourable situations and putting pressure on someone when they are at their weakest is also a way of forcing them to do what you want.

Thanks for explaining DG. And yes I agree with the example of CC and I can understand why you can relate it to Prerna's situation, but I cannot, for my own reasons, one of them being, Basus do not qualify to the situation of a newcomer in the industry with no backing. Anyways, we can discuss it later. But for now, I also got why you call it a forced marriage deriving from the last para, but to me it's kind of unacceptable even it's forced. Imagine Ratan Singh Rajput agreeing to all T&Cs of Khilji to save all his near and dear ones. How would that look ? Will he qualify to be Hero of the movie ? If people are so weak that they cannot even face a problem together and succumb to the first easy escape route, then IMO they neither are strong, nor have integrity. And without these 2, which love story ever stands ?

Anyways, let's wait to see how this turns out to be, both from Prerna and from Bajaj's side (in terms of Ronit).

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Thanks for explaining DG. And yes I agree with the example of CC and I can understand why you can relate it to Prerna's situation, but I cannot, for my own reasons, one of them being, Basus do not qualify to the situation of a newcomer in the industry with no backing. Anyways, we can discuss it later. But for now, I also got why you call it a forced marriage deriving from the last para, but to me it's kind of unacceptable even it's forced. Imagine Ratan Singh Rajput agreeing to all T&Cs of Khilji to save all his near and dear ones. How would that look ? Will he qualify to be Hero of the movie ? If people are so weak that they cannot even face a problem together and succumb to the first easy escape route, then IMO they neither are strong, nor have integrity. And without these 2, which love story ever stands ?

Anyways, let's wait to see how this turns out to be, both from Prerna and from Bajaj's side (in terms of Ronit).

Well, Ratan Singh was a hero but he did lose everything.

As per today's WU she didn't accept Bajaj's offer straightaway...she is putting up a fight. I am not justifying Prerna's sacrifice but I can see where she is coming from ...her desperation to save Anurag. I wouldn't call her weak. It requires a lot of courage and strength to give up someone you love and live for their happiness. So yeah, let us agree to disagree