My take on the entire Parag-Neha thing-
I cannot, cannot, cannot justify by any means what Parag did..and I have to agree that it was not one single task, it was deliberate and it was his frustration over the period of time about not being able to control the things the way he wanted, his "strategies" were not working, he couldn't get his "group" back together and he blamed the other group for it when it was his ego, control-freak nature and aggression that caused all the problems in the first place. His violent streak was apparent in earlier episodes as well when during the nomination task, he started shouting for no reason and started calling out judges biased even before the decision was taken out of his frustration. In the save water task also, he started acting crazily after a point...there are mental issues with the guy..the way he was shouting "Sam,dam,dand, bhed" in that laundry task...Since no footage was shown to us, we don't know the extent to which it happened but based on the reactions even from Rupali and Veena, it was, of course, major. BB as a platform cannot and should not support this behavior no matter what the social media says. It was wrong by all means. And he didn't even feel he did anything wrong. It was very clear from his "apology" and also his behavior on WKW.
I do feel that BB is the real culprit here. Surekha was a useless sanchalak..Ok, so BB could have taken her class on the weekend but should have intervened long ago. The way he told Neha that no member should be physically hurt was sooo polite and non-strict that I remembered BB "warning" Shilpa about her continuous torture to Vikas in BB11. Had BB been stricter, had announced on mic (and not by calling Neha in the confession room) that you are not allowed to physically throw the contestant from a chair, this could have been avoided. Neha should have realized her limits but its not the first time that the contestants have gotten carried away in the task. Its at the end BB's and not sanchalak's responsibility to ensure that the boundaries are not crossed. But, BB wanted TRPs so he let them continue, he let them torture Parag. I think BB was also not expecting this reaction from Parag. They clearly didnt want to throw Parag out, thats why the manipulation to have Neha forgive him. I am glad Neha didn't agree. Bcz Parag didn't repent his actions. Had he stayed in the house, he would have gotten more confident about his deeds...the way he was manipulating BB to look at his past journey to not throw him out. This man is soo full of himself yuckkkk....I don't like Neha at all but in this, Parag was wrong. HAd he kept patience, I would have expected MM to take a solid class of Neha, Vaishali in WKW (although I don't know, Salman found Shilpa's torture "entertaining" in BB11- BB can go to any extent for TRPs).
They cannot take action against AK, Madhav bcz it was MM who had said in the last WKW when talking abt Bichukle- "To je wagat hota, gharatlya purushanni tithlya tithe thobdawaycha tyala...mi tumcha pathishi ubha rahilo asto". I had called it out at that time also that it was a very careless statement by MM and BB. But now, they cant take action on AK, Madhav.
The bottom line is- BB has always Sucked. They loveee these cheap TRPs and thats why let these things escalate to such an extent. Lets not boil our blood for it bcz this is the exact trap BB wants viewers to fall into.
On side notes-
I am glad that MM praised Shiv for his game, a much needed boost for Shiv not to get trapped in AK-Vaishali manipulation.
I am also glad that MM called out Hina for her act very clearly. I wasnt expecting it at all so it was a pleasant surprise.
Edited by MJHTMonayaSajan - 6 years ago
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