Why suddenly caste issue is raised???? - Page 3

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

what Veena wants pre to marry bajaj. And that too for fish. What if bajaj also eats fish

His mom wont gift her a bride fish

Seriously it was comedy circus. In Rome be like a Roman.

Rohu fish during Haldi ceremony is decorated and a velvet cloth is placed on it. Very significant during wedding rituals

I am from Mumbai. My cousins had plenty of Bong neighbours who had stories to tell.

Sharmaji's are practicing ignorance is bliss.

Wah wah ! Big wala wah!veena is acting as if she is being insulted for the first time in bb.

Before entering today for the ritual, she knows whats in store for them . But she and her daughter have been insulted and belittled × 100 times more than this previously . Yet earlier she encouraged prerna to snatch her rights and now she is acting like her doing all that for preyu is her majboori for preyus happiness? Kuch bhi ! Where is her voice now ? And why cant she tell prerna ? N whats prerna telling anurag? Tum.nai samjhoge kyunki tum ameer ho? So?

Even I was wondering why any of this drama did not come up with the Prerna Navin marriage. Obviously, because Mohini wanted things to go smoothly that time around.

But in any case, I don't mean to sound rude or disrespectful towards Indian culture but I find it a little regressive. I have experienced it, my own family. My sister is getting married. My sister's in-laws have made it crystal clear they do not expect anything from us. Still, my mom goes out of her way to buy gifts for them at certain equations. I was like the mom you live in the west where kids nowadays even plan their own weddings and just invite the parents as a guest. Why do you feel the need to do all these old schools things? She goes I know they have no expectations and I have negative expectations BUT I just want to make sure because I have seen marriages fall apart due to in-laws not being happy with dowry or just token gifts. To be fair the first time groom's side visited our house they went out of their way to buy us gifts too. I find it unnecessary.

In Mohini's case, for someone who supposedly thinks she is so classy, progressive, well educated and well traveled it is the expectation itself that makes her look a little down market. Again don't mean to be rude or offending anyone.