Varsha-the understated intuitive mom - Page 2

Originally posted by: guy3

Exactly! That dialogue floored me! I was thinking,”wow! Indian tv pe itni level headed Maa!” And when kuhu, being a brat, said “I don’t want to answer”, she assertively told kuhu you don’t have an option, you have to answer me.

Mishti ne sideline hi kr dia is cheez ko. I wonder abir kisi ladki ko painting ya balloons dega, will she have the same reaction?

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

kuhu is simply ignoring the fact that the bracelet was for mishti

so i feel varsha question is valid

mishti even has become mad in abir spell that she forgotten why she actually broke with kunal and abir is just one track mind busy in dreaming mishti and cleaning the path for his own love story

kuhu is toh #nobrain

she is definetly going to get reality check in future because she still dont know the reason of kunal action and always ignoring small thing and not applying her brain

like kuhu never asked kunal or mind that when he took the descision of staying there he never asked or cared enough that what u will do or tell your parent just took descision

she will just agree to marry him without asking if he really love her or not but will assume that he loves her so he is marrying her

but lets see what makers has planned hope maker like other serial not whitewash his charater in victimisation

all character are intact except mishti who is behaving ott for kuku which her character is simply not

i am just surprised with misht behaviour i thought she will make kuhu understand real kunal but i feel mishti broken the rishta because of abir all bhasan was just aiyvahi by cvs even she reasoned out when abir asked why she broken woh koshish karna nahin chahta tha aur mein kisi aur se koshish karwana nahin chahti thi somewhere i feeel unconsciously she even want abir when she realised or known the truth especially

I'm honestly shocked at mishti trying to willingly match-make KuKu when she has seen first hand kunal's nature, attitude and lack of respect and understanding for others wishes and feelings, how can she even consider pairing him with her sister? When you think someone is that wrong for you, how can you not think whether that person is even remotely right for your sister? She's seen his behaviour first-hand behind his facade of a perfect and well-mannered young man, whereas kuhu hasn't, so why is she not attempting to explain any of the reasons she rejected kunal to kuhu ans instead thinking to pair kuhu with kunal? Ridiculous!

Originally posted by: sammy17

I'm honestly shocked at mishti trying to willingly match-make KuKu when she has seen first hand kunal's nature, attitude and lack of respect and understanding for others wishes and feelings, how can she even consider pairing him with her sister? When you think someone is that wrong for you, how can you not think whether that person is even remotely right for your sister? She's seen his behaviour first-hand behind his facade of a perfect and well-mannered young man, whereas kuhu hasn't, so why is she not attempting to explain any of the reasons she rejected kunal to kuhu ans instead thinking to pair kuhu with kunal? Ridiculous!

only reason i can say is she regard love as very pure thing and she want that love in her life and she is fanticised by the idea love which she not herself know the meaning

now she has seen kunal and kuhu together and would have thought kunal always liked kuhu thats why he wasnot okay with her

mishti said that we have difference of opinion and the most important thing on which she broken the marriage was abir doing in pretence of kunal for which she said yes

and upar se abir who has occupied her mind she follows abir very much blindly sometime like jumping from terrace so as he is excited so is she u can see when she was reasoning varsha how she said abir is very much excited

anyway but makers should have shown atleast one time after knowing about kuhu like she telling abir that kunal is not right or not ready for marriage and then abir with his nonsense talking would have made her understand and then it was okay

but she was very happy after knowing truth and her only worry was family

anyway this is really a huse setback on mishti character dont know what maker want to proove if they are going on made for each other concept like you can see how kuhu is what kunal wants

anyway lets see but right now with mishti excitement i am very much dissapointed i hope they show her in some delliema atleast it is really very out of character

or i hope first time i get to see lead who just think about themselves because abir clearly is that type of guy and mishti even till now

i hope its just because kuhu likes kunal and she dont want to question as its her choice

anyway lets see but its really a huge setback and out of character behavious of mishti

till now they are very consitent about all charcter but this mishti excitement is totally ott

hope makers give some valid point

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

kuhu is simply ignoring the fact that the bracelet was for mishti

so i feel varsha question is valid

mishti even has become mad in abir spell that she forgotten why she actually broke with kunal and abir is just one track mind busy in dreaming mishti and cleaning the path for his own love story

kuhu is toh #nobrain

she is definetly going to get reality check in future because she still dont know the reason of kunal action and always ignoring small thing and not applying her brain

like kuhu never asked kunal or mind that when he took the descision of staying there he never asked or cared enough that what u will do or tell your parent just took descision

she will just agree to marry him without asking if he really love her or not but will assume that he loves her so he is marrying her

but lets see what makers has planned hope maker like other serial not whitewash his charater in victimisation

all character are intact except mishti who is behaving ott for kuku which her character is simply not

i am just surprised with misht behaviour i thought she will make kuhu understand real kunal but i feel mishti broken the rishta because of abir all bhasan was just aiyvahi by cvs even she reasoned out when abir asked why she broken woh koshish karna nahin chahta tha aur mein kisi aur se koshish karwana nahin chahti thi somewhere i feeel unconsciously she even want abir when she realised or known the truth especially

I disagree with you on the Misthi bit. M knows that Kuhu loves Kunal because she has hinted towards it and Kuhu is like a child. Her love is irrational like she makes excuses for Kunal's behavior and blames everything on Misthi. Remember even on gordhana day she said that K is so nice he is willing to marry M even after everything that happened and then she was the one who happily allowed Kunal to use her to extract info about M. Lied to her own Maa and hoped on a trip. All these traits show how unreasonable Kuhu is when it comes to Kunal. So even if Misthi tries to knock some sense in to her. Due to her thought process she will not see any fault in Kunal and will blame Misthi that either M is jealous or her enemy. Also M did promise she will help Kuhu win her love. She is just fulfilling that and maybe she is hoping that Kunal's is better for Kuhu and redeems himself. Tbh M should just stay away from the Kuku matter anything she will do will be criticized

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

I disagree with you on the Misthi bit. M knows that Kuhu loves Kunal because she has hinted towards it and Kuhu is like a child. Her love is irrational like she makes excuses for Kunal's behavior and blames everything on Misthi. Remember even on gordhana day she said that K is so nice he is willing to marry M even after everything that happened and then she was the one who happily allowed Kunal to use her to extract info about M. Lied to her own Maa and hoped on a trip. All these traits show how unreasonable Kuhu is when it comes to Kunal. So even if Misthi tries to knock some sense in to her. Due to her thought process she will not see any fault in Kunal and will blame Misthi that either M is jealous or her enemy. Also M did promise she will help Kuhu win her love. She is just fulfilling that and maybe she is hoping that Kunal's is better for Kuhu and redeems himself. Tbh M should just stay away from the Kuku matter anything she will do will be criticized

i even wish that this is reason

and i would be happy if this is the reason as it means she is not of sacrificing type or interfering too much in other life or giving bhasan types

she just care about herself and when it comes to other she dont mind helping them and not start their gyaan batana

i really want this love story to be something where leads care for themselves and their relationship more than giving bhasan gyaan and sacrifices

Thanks Varsha for asking right questions to the right persons at the right time!

Varsha- I have full sympathies with you for raising a daughter whose teenage hormones are showing up late

I think Varsha is the most sensible character right now (of course after Bade Papa). She is asking the right questions and inspite of having faced so much (firstly raising Shaurya's illegitimate child), she still wants the best for Kuhu. She could have straight away tried being nice to Kuhu so that she doesn't create further problems but Varsha preferred staying calm and spoke what is right. She has been able to see through Kuhu's stupidity and understands Mishti as well. If it would have been any other show, they would have shown the mother to be joining Kuhu and Kunal's hands in blaming Mishti for whatever is happening. But Varsha, instead understands Mishti's concerns and knows that Kunal is not a right guy. I am totally loving Varsha's character!

Originally posted by: socioboss9797

I think Varsha is the most sensible character right now (of course after Bade Papa). She is asking the right questions and inspite of having faced so much (firstly raising Shaurya's illegitimate child), she still wants the best for Kuhu. She could have straight away tried being nice to Kuhu so that she doesn't create further problems but Varsha preferred staying calm and spoke what is right. She has been able to see through Kuhu's stupidity and understands Mishti as well. If it would have been any other show, they would have shown the mother to be joining Kuhu and Kunal's hands in blaming Mishti for whatever is happening. But Varsha, instead understands Mishti's concerns and knows that Kunal is not a right guy. I am totally loving Varsha's character!

And that is exactly why kuhu hates her now. Cos she is not blindly supporting her. So kuhu(egged on by Aunty kunal) feels mishti is misleading her mom(when she was surprised ki “mishti ma se baat kar rahi hai?”) pride comes before fall, my dear! And you, kuhu are going to have a mighty fall flat on your face when you discover the asli kunal after marriage.

Originally posted by: guy3

And that is exactly why kuhu hates her now. Cos she is not blindly supporting her. So kuhu(egged on by Aunty kunal) feels mishti is misleading her mom(when she was surprised ki “mishti ma se baat kar rahi hai?”) pride comes before fall, my dear! And you, kuhu are going to have a mighty fall flat on your face when you discover the asli kunal after marriage.

According to Kuhu, every tragedy of her life is due Mishti. Now, Aunty Kunal has joined forces with her in 'Mishti Bhagao' mission. I hope these two see a great fall in future.