Same mistake - Page 2

Originally posted by: Megha11

Aap parents ko crush se compare karre ho. Crush hona kisi ko like karna pehla step hota hai. jab samne wale se koi positive response milta hai to koi sapne sajane lagta hai. Shivani ne blank call wali baat boli aur surprise wali baat boli aur sameer ne positive sa response dia aage aap khud samajhdar ho. kisi ki feelings ke sath aise khelna shi nahi hai.

Aap ne shayad thik se kuch episodes nahi dekhe. Jab bhi shibaanee sameer ke saamne ati hai sameer usse dur bhagta hai aur sameer ke expression se saaf saaf pata chalta hai use accha nahi lag raha aur woh bahut hi zyada irritated aur uncomfortable hai. Itna sab kuch ke bawajood shibaanee dore dal rahi hai. Negative response se yeh haal hai matlab use farq nahi padhta sameer kya soch raha hai.

Originally posted by: Megha11

Aap parents ko crush se compare karre ho. Crush hona kisi ko like karna pehla step hota hai. jab samne wale se koi positive response milta hai to koi sapne sajane lagta hai. Shivani ne blank call wali baat boli aur surprise wali baat boli aur sameer ne positive sa response dia aage aap khud samajhdar ho. kisi ki feelings ke sath aise khelna shi nahi hai.

mujhe lagta hain aapne purane episodes skip kr diye hain

Sameer ne shibani ko koi signal nhi dia

ulta voh bhut uncomfortable hota hain

lekin as a courtesy he is behaving very nicely with her

agar yehi sameer shibani ko suna de

toh then he is rude tameez nhi hain baat krni ki ladkiyo se and all that

and yesterday too he did not mislead Shibani

she was the one who called him

and he did not even give her signals

he just told her that he won't be coming to the party because of her bhabhi

so he won't get her surprise

how is this giving her a signal

When someone puts you in an awkward situation, how do you feel...That is what Shibanee is doing with Sameer. She is making the situation more awkward for Sameer and top of that her bhabhi is doubting on them, so he cant even be rude to Shibanee or shout at her, sometimes when you are put into such awkward situation where its not easy to get out you smile accept what the other is saying with no other choice....

Coming to Sameer giving signals, I didn't think he ever spoke with Shibanee in a flirtatious manner. He spoke with respect and to the limit of a acquaintance/friend...

He spoke with her because she is Vanita's sister in law and she can convince her bhabhi... If Sameer would have done the same thing in a flirtatious manner then he would have been very wrong but he didnt.

Next time try to also make a post based on something positive. I dont know why you dont find anything positive to talk on, there are so many other things, finding faults is tooooo easy... Please try to remain positive, its good for a healthy environment. Your one positive post can lighten someone's mood and people watch shows to relax themselves not to stress themselves more so you also relax a bit

Thank you....

Originally posted by: chaaru26

When someone puts you in an awkward situation, how do you feel...That is what Shibanee is doing with Sameer. She is making the situation more awkward for Sameer and top of that her bhabhi is doubting on them, so he cant even be rude to Shibanee or shout at her, sometimes when you are put into such awkward situation where its not easy to get out you smile accept what the other is saying with no other choice....

Coming to Sameer giving signals, I didn't think he ever spoke with Shibanee in a flirtatious manner. He spoke with respect and to the limit of a acquaintance/friend...

He spoke with her because she is Vanita's sister in law and she can convince her bhabhi... If Sameer would have done the same thing in a flirtatious manner then he would have been very wrong but he didnt.

Next time try to also make a post based on something positive. I dont know why you dont find anything positive to talk on, there are so many other things, finding faults is tooooo easy... Please try to remain positive, its good for a healthy environment. Your one positive post can lighten someone's mood and people watch shows to relax themselves not to stress themselves more so you also relax a bit

Thank you....

I just want to ask

Kya Sameer ne kabhi usse samne se hello bola

Kya kabhi samne se smile bhi ki nahi

In yesterday episode only thing happened that

If u live in same society and some one ask u are you coming to party and u are not coming

Then what is ur answer

Same given by Sameer with reason

Then where is problem if he gave answer truthfully

And also blaiming Naina

She is also involve in this nonsense

How?

She simply said in film industry it will happen he will talk with girls

If he hide from these things life will be impossible for them bcoz sameer is hesitating to tell her the truth so don't hide things from her for their future

Originally posted by: Megha11

Aap parents ko crush se compare karre ho. Crush hona kisi ko like karna pehla step hota hai. jab samne wale se koi positive response milta hai to koi sapne sajane lagta hai. Shivani ne blank call wali baat boli aur surprise wali baat boli aur sameer ne positive sa response dia aage aap khud samajhdar ho. kisi ki feelings ke sath aise khelna shi nahi hai.

I'm not comparing parents to crush. I'm comparing what Sameer is doing to what any child does. We know who can help us and who cannot. So we act accordingly. That's what Sameer did. It's not called feelings k saath khelna ya use krna. That's my whole point.

Originally posted by: Rph09

Aap ne shayad thik se kuch episodes nahi dekhe. Jab bhi shibaanee sameer ke saamne ati hai sameer usse dur bhagta hai aur sameer ke expression se saaf saaf pata chalta hai use accha nahi lag raha aur woh bahut hi zyada irritated aur uncomfortable hai. Itna sab kuch ke bawajood shibaanee dore dal rahi hai. Negative response se yeh haal hai matlab use farq nahi padhta sameer kya soch raha hai.

Lekin shayad sameer use kuch din ignore krta ya aram se kuch bhi samjha dena to wo piche hat jati. lekin ab kal se phone call ke baad use lagega sameer bhi interested hai aur aage ja kar wo hurt bhi ho sakti hai

Originally posted by: munchkinland

mujhe lagta hain aapne purane episodes skip kr diye hain

Sameer ne shibani ko koi signal nhi dia

ulta voh bhut uncomfortable hota hain

lekin as a courtesy he is behaving very nicely with her

agar yehi sameer shibani ko suna de

toh then he is rude tameez nhi hain baat krni ki ladkiyo se and all that

and yesterday too he did not mislead Shibani

she was the one who called him

and he did not even give her signals

he just told her that he won't be coming to the party because of her bhabhi

so he won't get her surprise

how is this giving her a signal

Lekin shayad sameer use kuch din ignore krta ya aram se kuch bhi samjha dena to wo piche hat jati. lekin ab kal se phone call ke baad use lagega sameer bhi interested hai aur aage ja kar wo hurt bhi ho sakti hai

Originally posted by: Megha11

Lekin shayad sameer use kuch din ignore krta ya aram se kuch bhi samjha dena to wo piche hat jati. lekin ab kal se phone call ke baad use lagega sameer bhi interested hai aur aage ja kar wo hurt bhi ho sakti hai

Shibani ne direct kuch bola bhi toh nahi ki sameer use samjhaye

Originally posted by: Megha11

Lekin shayad sameer use kuch din ignore krta ya aram se kuch bhi samjha dena to wo piche hat jati. lekin ab kal se phone call ke baad use lagega sameer bhi interested hai aur aage ja kar wo hurt bhi ho sakti hai

aap mujhe btao Shibani ussi same society main rhti hain

and uski bhabhi us society ki secretary hain

sameer chah kr bhi ignore nhi kr skta

aur voh usse kaise kuch smjhata

usne Sameer ko directly aakar propose nhi kia hain