Are makers faltering ? Or is it deliberate ? (DT Note pg. 11)

Originally posted by: anshvi

Hey All

So today Mishti specifically said that MishVeer were a happy couple and things started to change post the engagement...Veer said that nothing has changed from his end at least

We all know Ruhan entered their life around the engagement and post that thjngs changed

I had said thus earlier as well that MishVeer were shown as happy couple who were quite excited to get married

If Makers wanted then they could have shown that MishVeer had compatibility issues before Ruhan entered...they could have shown that they are very different , or Veer is a problematic guy or it is an arranged marriage and yet Mishti is with him coz she prioritizes commitment and is trying to adjust

But nope ! Makers showed them very happy and Veer as guy who was caring towards Mishti...He is loving , caring and even UNDERSTANDING not my words but Mishti's..that is what she said today

So makers clearly didn't show compatibility issues as a reason for Mishti drifting apart

Ruhan is the reason for her change...she has fallen in love with him

Again what exactly as per makers is love...a connection , spark , attraction? That she felt with Ruhan and not with Veer?

Coz Mishti dated Veer , must have got emotionally connected with him as well and now makers have deliberately highlighted attraction and a connection between MishAan

A sensible way would have been to show that MishVeer were struggling in their relation and then comes Ruhan who gives moral support to Mishti and in the process they fall for each other ...this would have made people connect with Mishaan

But nope this isn't the case

Are makers once again trying to justify that juzbaat means true love and they are more important than relations

are they again faltering or is it a deliberate move!

Originally posted by: Navya27

Now showing that mishveer have compatibilty issues is not making any sense coz everyone knows that the real reason is ruhan only.

They could have shown these issues before ruhan comes into their lives and mishti breaks up with veer before that. Now showing these things mean only one thing that mishti is getting attracted to ruhan and that is why she is not comfortable with veer . There can't be any other reason for mishveer breakup now.

Originally posted by: ria2794

Why it is always necessary that a relationship break because there is some problem in it. Can't it break because the other person don't want to be in that said relationship any longer. Why we need to justify breakup.

When we don't justify why we love someone why is this need to justify why we fall out of love.

Originally posted by: anshvi

Because people don't fall out of love without a reason

If we are happy in a relation and satisfied too then why would we fall out of love out of the blue ! Just coz another guy comes and we feel attracted to him and fall in love again without any reason?

Relations are not toys where we get bored from one so we buy a new one

Some sort of a valid reason is expected

For e.g.- a guy who is in a happy relation where his partner is super nice comes and announces that I am leaving u as I have fallen for someone else despite our relation beign amazing

Here the girl is not at fault and for sure the guy is to be blamed for ditching the girl

Like a said some valid reason should be there

Otherwise any and every one will keep leaving their partners without the need to justify anything

Originally posted by: anshvi

Because people don't fall out of love without a reason

If we are happy in a relation and satisfied too then why would we fall out of love out of the blue ! Just coz another guy comes and we feel attracted to him and fall in love again without any reason?

Relations are not toys where we get bored from one so we buy a new one

Some sort of a valid reason is expected

For e.g.- a guy who is in a happy relation where his partner is super nice comes and announces that I am leaving u as I have fallen for someone else despite our relation beign amazing

Here the girl is not at fault and for sure the guy is to be blamed for ditching the girl

Like a said some valid reason should be there

Otherwise any and every one will keep leaving their partners without the need to justify anything

Originally posted by: anshvi

Because people don't fall out of love without a reason

If we are happy in a relation and satisfied too then why would we fall out of love out of the blue ! Just coz another guy comes and we feel attracted to him and fall in love again without any reason?

Relations are not toys where we get bored from one so we buy a new one

Some sort of a valid reason is expected

For e.g.- a guy who is in a happy relation where his partner is super nice comes and announces that I am leaving u as I have fallen for someone else despite our relation beign amazing

Here the girl is not at fault and for sure the guy is to be blamed for ditching the girl

Like a said some valid reason should be there

Otherwise any and every one will keep leaving their partners without the need to justify anything

Originally posted by: khatimeethi

Well eerything in life has no reason , that is why ppl call it complicated

there are collateral damage alwayys of choices and it will be here too

And that doesnt mean Mishti ruhaan are bad people they erred they will rectify