Parent's effect - Page 5

Nobody wants mishti to stay in a relationship out of commitmentt. This is not an either or situation .If mishti is not in love with veer then she should break up with him. No doubt about that. But it is minimal courtesy.. it is insaaniyat to break up before jumping into another relationship. What we want is for her to break up with veer before getting together with ruhaan. Put yourself in Vere's shoes. Wouldn't you rather that your fiance breaks up with you instead of going behind your back and being intimate with another girl ?

Originally posted by: Ruhi122

Relationships are based on trust be it 7 years m'age, 1 year, engaged or in a relationship.. Mishti having relationship with ruhaan while engaged to veer is acceptable? Doesn't veer love her? Doesn't he deserve to know truth rather than be cheated? This is total bias cuz it's mishti here.
Yes she can very well love ruhaan but shd break up with veer first. IN MY OPINION, cheating is cheating pre or post marriage... the other person gonna be hurt..

mishty is young ..early 20s ,.people are allowed to make mistakes at that age..and at this age relationships make and break all the time ...also at this age ..you can't be hundred percent sure that he or she is the right one...so what I'm saying is that she won't be viewed as harshly as her dad was,.because the fact is what Kunal did was totally wrong. It was an Ema ...extra marital affair...mishty is not married...but yes as soon as she realizes that veer is not right for her or she's fallen in love with ruhaan ..she should tell him...

Originally posted by: Indira1211

mishty is young ..early 20s ,.people are allowed to make mistakes at that age..and at this age relationships make and break all the time ...also at this age ..you can't be hundred percent sure that he or she is the right one...so what I'm saying is that she won't be viewed as harshly as her dad was,.because the fact is what Kunal did was totally wrong. It was an Ema ...extra marital affair...mishty is not married...but yes as soon as she realizes that veer is not right for her or she's fallen in love with ruhaan ..she should tell him...

Yup... she shd tell him...

Originally posted by: dmegha

I know and your are right at your point. But my point is that Kunal should have confessed to Mauli about his feelings for Nandini. Even before he confessed to Nandini.

Mauli didnt deserve what Kunal and Nandini did to her. She should have been told about it instead of the EMA behind her back.

Mauli would have happily divorced him, cutting all ties with him and it might have hurt but not as much as the EMA thing did.

I would have thrown divorce papers at him afterkicking and punching him. So yes, Kunal was cruel to Mauli but it would have been worse if he had stayed. That way though Mishti would have gotten an amazing father but Mauli would have never gotten her husband back.

And Mauli didnt deserve Kunal, she deserved Ishaan who's the best guy for her and who treated her the way she should have been.

Just think about it, if Kunal had stayed then Mauli wouldn't have had a chance with Ishaan.

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

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Yup follow your heart because if you cant keep yourself happy you wont be able to keep any one else happy. In season1 end Mauli followed her heart.Ishaan set her free from every commitment and 'ehsaan' yet she came back to him. It just goes to show the popular saying of love that you should always set your love free and if it comes back to you it was yours and if it doesn't it was never yours. Ishaan set Mauli free of everything ,Mauli could have had the perfect family every one was talking about but she left all that and came back to Ishaan. That is true love.I hope once Mishti does fall for Ruhaan she comes and tells Veer honestly. And Veer should set her free like Ishaan did with Mauli .After that Mishti can decide her true love like Mauli did.

I loved Ishaan s dialogue when he set Mauli free. Pyar aur farz mein pyar ko chuno Mauli. And she did that. She didn't buckle under Dida s happy family pressure or Nandini s CD or even Pari s request for that matter.

She chose her love .

Don't compare parents character with child.already people posted many messages.lets sit and enjoy show.

In s1...I've supported Mauli. Not because only cheating because...

1. The way Kunan behaved with Mauli was cruel. They not only cheated with her but they insulted her like she is no body...not even a person. They kept sleeping together, going out even to mandir and ganesh chaturtji together and never bother to tell Mauli a thing. Does a friend , a wife, a mother deserves that.

2. A hubby/lover like Kunal who is just a jerk ...I personally feel very blessed if his kind of man leave a girl. Never liked him. But not this way. You want to break up. Fine. There can be a decent way. Call a meeting, talk, apologize. Kunal is not some Bhagwan from heaven that if he leave Mauli will die in heart attack. We know she survived. So when you are breaking up a relationship...act like a civilized person.

3. he is a hubby. They are married. Off course they may have a child. But he looked so shocked that it almost look like he can't belive it. Why? He wasn't impotent. So she may get pregnant. She was not cheating him ...so it is his baby. But his reaction on Mauli's pregnancy made me angry at him. We saw how Radhika reacted. Any woman will react that way.

4. He left her when she was needing him most. She was like Preety Zinta in "Keya Kahena". Alone in the street, pregnant, broken , insulted, sick, weak...when Kunal was promising Nandini happiness. Just destroyed promise with a woman 5minutes ago and promising to another woman...who wouldn't think of punching him?? 😡

5. Then came back for Nandu's request. Aya toh kaise? With his manhoos shaklal. When he a child specialist doctor...who should know how it harms a child growth. Mom in depression/mental pressure gives birth to abnormal child .

6. He believed the report instantly. As if he was ready to believe that Mauli is lying. Didn't even bother to double check .

If this was just cheating and then he confessed gently to her ...may be I would say kick his butt five times and leave. But that was never just only cheating. He kept dishonoring her , her child and proving her guilty even when he came back.

In here marrying without love will be more cheating than cheating before marriage. Feelings, etc whatever Mishti or Pari has...they need to release before marriage. As the commitment of love only comes true when you are married. Marriage is the document of commitment. Till marriage it is only love. If your love is committed...you have to prove it. And that prove is "marriage." If you are not sure of you can be committed or not...open your mouth and tell it. Because after marriage if you tell that you will not only be a cheater but a commitment breaker too. One crime is better than 2 crime.

Serial is not yet started ...its too early to take side or compare anything. Its just based on episode 3-4. The story might get in different direction...Ruhan a stalker...Veer murdered...police...action etc...ishq mein marjawan... We don't know. 😆

One can and should not be judged by their parents actions.