Originally posted by: divyadaya13
I might be hated for saying this. But i really dont like the melodrama over applying sindoor in india whether its reel or real life. Is a womens status solely based on her husband.Ican understand babitas sentiments. For whom,she dedicated crucial part of her youth life, they have betrayed her. It will be very difficult for her to accept this change in her life, as she was brought up in a so called protective environment. Soon realities of life that she is facing now and crying over presently will make her so strong for people around her to believe. It will not make her a difference to her that people will think of her as bechari pati ne chodi huyi aurat, for she will be beyond this pathetic thinking and live life at her own terms.
Divya, Babitha is from a small town girl, who married for a life time. So her upbringing and the society she is living thinks she will be good wife, didn't demand anything, just understand her husband and accept his wishes and responsibilities as her own and be there with him till the end of the life and NO DIVORCE.
I am saying this as my thinking and my mother & MIL thinking towards husband and everything is quite different, especially my MIL, she says and expect bahu like babitha, as she is like that only, even my SIL is also like that don't question your husband as he is the owner of the family, while for me why can't as wife and husband as equal..Still now the thinking in that rural area didn't change that much .
I feel the society, friends, neighbours you are living influence your thinking and till now after marriage babitha didn't get out from that town, only might be with Ashok if any and I think as a daughter also her situation is not that much change.I don't think she has close friends and she hang out with them like Lovely..Her whole 17 years dedicated in the family itself and NEST of Khuranas..So her feeling on sindoor is quite shock as MIL support them and now she throw away from the NEST became alone except with MILI.
I think when she start of no RETURN to the house and now start the new life with especially MILI education, that responsibility make her grow. Also she should go away from Patiala to develop avoid all the reminders of her life..
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