Humari society Aur Hum ?????

Bhawna7 thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
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Ye jo dikhaya ja raha hai na. Ye humari society ka hi chahra hai.

parents apne bachcho ke liye lifepartner to lana chahte hai. Per aayega to sirf aur sirf unki marji se. tabhi to arrange marriage me bhi kha bachcho se kuchh puchha jata hai. Unhe sirf phaisla sunaya jata hai. Agar bachche kuchh bolte hai. To unhe beshram bola jata. Ye kaha jata hai, ki abhi bachche ho.

agar parents ko ye lagta hai, ki bachche apni life ka decision lene ke liye abhi samjh daar nahi hai. To aap log kaise us waqt unke life ka decision le raho ho. jab we abhi samjhdaar hi nahi hai. Unhe pata hi nahi hai, ki unki life me jo ho raha hai wo sahi hai ya galt. Esa decision jo unhe life time ke liye nibhana hai.

Mera manna hai. Ki bachcho ko aur parents ko mil kar decision lena chahiye.

Aur bachcho ko samjhna chahiye. ki we humare parents, insaan hi hai, bhagwan nhi. Galti unse bhi ho sakti hai. Kisi pressure me aakar. society ke chakkar me. Ya kisi majburi me. Ya phir unki kisi bekaar si soch ke chalte.
( ghatiya soch wale bhi hote hai duniya me. Aur wo bhi parents hote hai. Ese log apne bachchon ke liye kaise sahi decision le lenge)
Agar kuchh wrong lage to Bachchon ko bolne ki himmat karni chahiye. Taki unki lifetime ka decision galat na ho.
Jis per kabhi bhi pachhtana na pade.

Aise kitne log honge jinhone apne parents ke wrong decision ko chup chap man liya. Ye jante hue bhi. Ye decision galat hai. We kabhi khush nahi rahenge.

Result kya nikla. Parents ne apne bachcho ka life time decision le liya. Aur baad me unke bachche us decision ko jhel rahe hai. Us waqt na to parents khuchh karte hai. Na society. Bas ye kah diya jata hai. Ki Ye hi tumhari kismat thi. Ab isse nibhao. Society kya kahengi. Aur na jane kya- kya... phir majboor kar diya jata hai. Us rishte ko nibhane ke liye. Chahe us rishte me ek din bhi saas lena bhi mushkil ho raha ho.



Note : society hum sab se hi banti hai.. hum kisi ke bhi baare me kuchh bhi bol jate hai. Bina puri baat jane. Ye jane bina, ki jis ke baare me hum bol rahe hai. Uski life me kya chal raha hai. Wo kitne dard me hai. Kis mushkil me hai. Kya uske saath galt ho raha hai.
Per hum kuchh bhi bol dete hai. Jaan bujh kar, anjane me, kuchh log to maje ke liye.
Ye nahi pata, uska asaar un logo per kitna galt padega. Jinke baare me bol rahe ho. Life tak tabaah ho jati hai.

Jaane kitni shaadi ke decision sirf society ke karan galt hote hai.

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88ammysag thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
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But some families just don't wanna listen anything Because they think about society most of the times.
I hope one day all these society thing would end.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: 88ammysag

But some families just don't wanna listen anything Because they think about society most of the times.
I hope one day all these society thing would end.


Society tabhi badlegi jab soch badlegi.
Hume kisi ki life ka decision lene se pahle, society kya sochegi, ke baare me na soch kar, sahi kya hai, galt kya hai. Aur uska future me kya result niklega ye sochna chahiye. Jiski life ka decision le rahe ho sirf uske baare me sochte hue decision lena chahiye. Na ki Neighbors, relatives etc ke baare me sochna chahiye.
Tabhi society badlegi.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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So true. This society is the sole reason for most failed arranged marriages
Prizi thumbnail
Posted: 7 years ago
#5
its true
i knw same things happened with one of friend... parents ne jabardasti shadi toh karwa di.. lekin that groom and his family was anything bt good..

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