AdiYa trying to be what their partners blamed them for...

Originally posted by: Doc.love

Ohhh my God! Such a beautiful post...and so well put!😊😊👏

I agree with you totally. Both Adi and Zoya have become what they were blamed of not being! Their psyche is affected badly...and where it is sad to know how badly they were influenced by PooSh's actions, it is heart warming too to see both AdiYa getting a 2nd chance in their lives... and the best thing thats going to happen is that they will fall in love with each other truly,madly and deeply in the process too! And where there is soo much bepannaah pyar, I dont think there is much relevance to who brings what in the relationship...because every ingredient of a successful marriage filled with love will come to them automatically...as they cant just live without each other anymore!😳😳😊

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

Yes both Adi and Zoya are trying to be what their partners would have wanted them to be but I am not sure if I can fully agree to the fact that Adi was not passionate or Zoya was not understanding. I wish PooSh too could take the blame for the fall, at least from their end for the failed marriage despite their obvious infidelity. Adi is suffering in pain coz he believes he is the reason Pooja aborted their baby. But in reality Pooja took a hasty decision just coz of his initial reaction. If Adi had really known about her pregnancy he would have accepted it and been an amazing father too. If there was no passion in their relationship, how did Pooja even get pregnant? 😛 Not saying Adi did not err, but he was not the reason why their marriage failed.

Zoya is accused of not being understanding n maybe to some extent it is true but Yash too had known the background Zoya came from. He never made an attempt to explain things clearly to her n instead blamed her for not being a friend. If Zoya could adopt to the lifestyle in Mumbai n put up all the crap she had face to from his family, she would have understood Yash too, if only Yash had tried.

So for me both AdiYa had the potential of being a friend n a lover if only PooSh had not caused the communication gap. It's nice to see Adi being passionate (more than his normal self 😆) and Zoya trying to be a friend in the true sense, without having any expectations. I don't think they need to change anything. They only need to explore what already exists in them 😊 What their partners failed to explore in them.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

Never did I say that AdiYa lacked something. But they were not given chance to explore that to this extent in their first marriage. They were blamed for the exact same reason even though they were not made aware of the differences their partners were having with them.

PooSh didn't try to communicate their differences with their partners & blamed them for not being understanding enough. They didn't give their partners chances to ponder upon certain things.

And in this particular relationship they are trying to fulfill what they couldn't do back then. They were not the reasons for their failed marriages but the fact that it failed has changed them very much in a complicated manner. They were blamed for the failure and it has affected them unknowingly.

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

Arrey when did I contradict you? 😆 I even liked ur topic. I stated my views on AdiYa that's all 😳 I agree to what ur saying here and what really annoys me is PooSh are blamed for infidelity alone but why not for failing in their marriage too? Thats y I am so frustrated. AdiYa ended up taking the entire blame. I wanted them both to probably give a closure n forgive their spouses par yahan toh they ended up seeking pardon for a mistake they never committed 😕 they were humans too n had their share of flaws n if their partners had any sense they would have realised that marriage also demands you to make certain compromises to make it work. When u truly love someone u never expect them to change who they r to make u happy. Not saying it's wrong to expect ur partner to do certain things u like. For instance if Pooja could accompany Adi to a match it was only fair that Adi too accompanied her to the poetry night. If she was so annoyed she could have put her foot down the next time Adi asked her to do something she wasnt interested in which would have made Adi realise that at times he too had to live up to her expectations. Instead she continues to make compromises allowing Adi to be totally oblivious to it n later finds someone who happens to share the same interest as she did n Adi becomes a bad husband even for a woman he loved more than his mother?

Zoya believed the world she grew up in and she had never seen how financial problems could impact one's life. When she bought an expensive gift all Yash asked her was what was the need to get a one yr old such an exorbitant gift but instead he should have told her that wasting money like this unnecessarily will cause him

problems. There was no need for Yash to maintain a house in Mussoorie n another in Mumbai. He should have brought her to Mumbai n allowed her to get adjusted. His mother though disapproved of Zoya was a compassionate woman n Yash should have known better. His mother would have eventually accepted her n taught her how to manage a house n its expenses. Instead he continued to make compromises on his part screwing his own life n later he found d a lame excuse to fall in love with another woman?

Though I love this show, this one track will always be a blemish not bcoz it dealt with a sensitive topic like infidelity but it messed up the characterization by bringing in unnecessary loopholes.