Aligarh to Padmaavat: Are we now ready to accept same sex relationship

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Aligarh to Padmaavat: Are we now ready to accept same sex relationships in Bollywood films?

Of course, detractors will argue that showing the villain as bisexual in Padmaavat doesn't legitimise homosexuality as much as demonise it.

Updated: Feb 11, 2018 10:30:00

By Indo Asian News Service

Few directors have touched the subject of same sex relationships in Bollywood

Few directors have touched the subject of same sex relationships in Bollywood.

In the West it's Armie Hammer and Timothy Chalamet giving interviews as a couple for their gay love story Call Me By Your Name. We haven't reached that stage in India. But Ranveer Singh and Jim Sarbh's homoerotic act in Sanjay Leela Bhansali's Padmaavat comes closest to obtaining a kind of legitimacy for same-sex relationships that this country has so far only seen in fringe films by Hansal Mehta (Aligarh) and Onir (My Brother Nikhil).

Of course, detractors will argue that showing the villain as bisexual in Padmaavat doesn't legitimise homosexuality as much as demonise it. Then there will always be those who will look at mainstream cinema's attempts to validate non-mainstream sections and relationships with suspicion and distrust. But the fact remains that Ranveer Singh playing a man who is sexually attracted to another man is a big deal in Indian cinema.

He even gets into a bath-tub with Sarbh and at one point in the nubile narration, Sarbh gestures to ask if he can join his lord and monster..., pardon me, master, in bed. Says Onir, "I love the chemistry between Ranveer and Jim Sarbh. I really like the shades that Sarbh has brought to his gay character.



We can now tell you that there was a lot of debate on the sets of Padmaavat as to how Sarbh should play Ranveer's "doosri begum, the first one being Aditi Rao. The director wanted the character to be ruthlessly macho and not the least effeminate, so that when Sarbh bursts into an evocative erotic number about unrequited love we almost feel the stretched-out strains of a gender-free love that has no definition or demarcation, only rejection and ridicule.

And then there is the tenderness between the two men. There is a sequence where Sarbh takes Ranveer's hand and places his face in it... the tenderness and anguish of that moment are clear. Call him by any name, but the gay lover is finally here to stay. Indeed, there is more chemistry between Ranveer and Sarbh than there is between Ranveer and his screen wife Aditi Rao.

In the global cinema, though, the movement towards mainstream legitimisation of same-sex relations has been in the making for years, with the mould being perhaps broken by Brokeback Mountain in 2005.

In the new flamboyant franchise film Maze Runner: The Death Cure we see another homoerotic relationship being given a healthy fillip -- in the intense relationship between Thomas (Dylan O'Brien) and Newt (Thomas Brody-Sangster). Not that anyone says they are gay. But their passionate friendship runs through the course of this sinewy tale of dystopian derring-do, almost topping the hero's passionate relationship with the film's official female lead. The film ends with Dylan reading a posthumous love letter written to him by Newt which very clearly states the passionate nature of their mutual affection. All this is in the domain of the forbidden being forced out of the uncapped tube of moral freefalling that would have been frowned at by the moral police in the past.

Now that there is, what shall I say, more acceptance, a forthcoming film, Surmayee Sham directed by Sridhar Rangayan, talks about a young man coming out of the closet on the eve of his marriage. Just two years back, it took a Fawad Khan from another country to play a gay son of Delhi business family in Kapoor And Sons.

Given a chance, would Karan Johar have cast Ranveer Singh in Fawad's role? And more importantly, are we ready for the long-delayed sexual revolution in Hindi cinema?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Is the govt. though? Isn't it illegal in India? Aligarh is an extremely well made & well acted movie. Manoj Bajpayee deserved National Award.
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There was no same sex relationship in Padmaavat. They only showed Jim's longing and insinuated that he has feelings for Khilji. Other than that there was nothing.
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Nope.It would take at least 50 more years for India to accept gay people as human.I'm a gay myself.My parents know it. Yet they are pressuring me to marry a girl. If someone like my family who are highly educated cant accept me for who Iam, just the imagine the plight of gay men who are born in conservative/poor families.According to statistics almost 90% gays in India end up marrying girls due to family/relatives pressure or fear of being ostracized . But then u can't just blame the society for it. In Straight relation most look for marriage and living with the single partner all their life but when it comes to gays, majority of them sleep around with multiple partners and its normal way of life.So thats one of the major reasons why films portray us as S*X hungry or feminine ppl.I do hope the mindset of the common ppl changes soon and hope they do accept us as normal ppl !!!
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Originally posted by: desiking3

Nope.It would take at least 50 more years for India to accept gay people as human.I'm a gay myself.My parents know it. Yet they are pressuring me to marry a girl. If someone like my family who are highly educated cant accept me for who Iam, just the imagine the plight of gay men who are born in conservative/poor families.According to statistics almost 90% gays in India end up marrying girls due to family/relatives pressure or fear of being ostracized . But then u can't just blame the society for it. In Straight relation most look for marriage and living with the single partner all their life but when it comes to gays, majority of them sleep around with multiple partners and its normal way of life.So thats one of the major reasons why films portray us as S*X hungry or feminine ppl.I do hope the mindset of the common ppl changes soon and hope they do accept us as normal ppl !!!


Hope things turn out great for you. 👍🏼
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Originally posted by: desiking3

Nope.It would take at least 50 more years for India to accept gay people as human.I'm a gay myself.My parents know it. Yet they are pressuring me to marry a girl. If someone like my family who are highly educated cant accept me for who Iam, just the imagine the plight of gay men who are born in conservative/poor families.According to statistics almost 90% gays in India end up marrying girls due to family/relatives pressure or fear of being ostracized . But then u can't just blame the society for it. In Straight relation most look for marriage and living with the single partner all their life but when it comes to gays, majority of them sleep around with multiple partners and its normal way of life.So thats one of the major reasons why films portray us as S*X hungry or feminine ppl.I do hope the mindset of the common ppl changes soon and hope they do accept us as normal ppl !!!

Sorry to hear that. I agree with you, it will take forever for gays to have rights and be treated equal. The mentality is disgusting and I hope you can find peace one day.
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Aligarh and Padmavati are a start.
Kapoor and Sons was also good.

We need more strong characters for Gay , Lesbian and Asexuals out there.

The movies should be normal and not be made some psycho sex thing
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Deepa Mehta's film Fire too was based on it which released 2 decades ago...
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From crap like Dostanna to Aligarh... Yea we have come miles ahead..
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Sorry to hear that. I agree with you, it will take forever for gays to have rights and be treated equal. The mentality is disgusting and I hope you can find peace one day.


Thanks for the support!

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