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Posted: 8 years ago
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What to say about them? Brothers are like shield to their sisters no matter elder or younger.

Arjun did a mistake of stealing the paper. Big mistake. But no one in their wildest imagination would have thought that it could lead to Sam getting into a bet that too that would involve Naina. When Arjun came to know about the bet, he confronted Sam that he should have fought with him instead of placing a bet involving his sister. For any brother to take that his sister was manipulated and made to confess love is not a small thing. Even if no bet was involved the whole love thing would not have gone down well with Arjun.

How to expect a gal to stand for a guy in front of her family? Who wants Naina to confront Arjun? Like really? Inspite of knowing the whole bet fiasco, there was no direct talk between Naina and Arjun except Arjun asking tits and bits in anger. They do not share or probably no one shared the open talk repo with their siblings in those days. Who wants her to stand up and say that Sam was right, and her brother was wrong and to whom she should tell? She is the same gal who can't even request her dad to come to PTA where she would be given a prestigious award.

Also, a gal stands up against her family for a guy only when she is married to that guy. Whether there is a relationship between Naina and Sam or not, she will not be able to stand up and ask her Brother or Dad not to say anything to Sam. It is not about right or wrong, its about that time that era.

I have an elder brother. I had an affair in 90s, teenage love which dint go any further though I was very serious. The whole thing made me so reluctant to even develop a feeling of love that it took my now husband, who was my best friend then, 5 years to make me say yes to even start dating.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree with u... two wrongs don't make it right.. Arjun being culprit of paper stealing doesn't make sameer right.. sameers mistake is bigger one, he played with someone's life and damaged girl for life.. Arjun has every right to be angry on sameer for that. Every normal boy would. As u said even without bet he won't like love for his sister and that too a guy like sameer who has such a bad reputation..

Arjun did not ask sameer to be his nurse , Rakesh did.. and here everyone is forgetting that Arjun is also a teenager and is as old as sameer.. if sameer can do mistakes and deserve second chance doesn't mean Arjun cant..

What I want to see is cv addressing real problem which is parental pressure ruining child that is happening in Arjun's case.. he is under a lot of pressure otherwise think which boy wants to be handicapped in his sister's wedding..

I am very happy that he is a good brother and there will be time when he will support naina even if it's sameer whom he doesn't like.. I am not really in favour of naina acting rebel and confront Arjun here. It won't go with her character and I dnt like such sudden change in characters. There needs to be gradual change in character and their relationship dynamics.. she will stand for him during their wedding I guess..

Yes I want paper stealing to come out but not for making Arjun guilty in front of sameer but to make Rakesh understand wat his son is going through. Everything does not need to be about samaina in show. Sameer will definitely understand Arjun as he has gone through it and he has his weak moment wherein a moment he thought of cheating but later he changed.

As of now, even if Arjun is guilty of paper stealing, he has right to be angry with sameer n protect naina. N I did see him feeling guilt after he became head boy. He was not ready to wear batch. So chill guys. He is also a boy and not a bad person. Being protective of sister is good trait of elder brother 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kankabhor

I agree with u... two wrongs don't make it right.. Arjun being culprit of paper stealing doesn't make sameers right.. sameers mistakes is bigger one whil played with someone's life and damaged girl for life.. Arjun has every right to be angry on sameer for that. Every normal boy would. As u said even without bet he won't like love for his sister and that too a guy like sameer who has such a bad reputation..

Arjun did not ask sameer to be his nurse , Rakesh did.. and here everyone is forgetting that Arjun is Alla teenage and is as old as sameer.. if sameer can do mistakes and deserve second chance doesn't mean Arjun cant..

What I want to see is cv addressing real problme which is parental pressure ruining child which is happening in Arjun's case.. he is under lot of pressure otherwise think who boy wants to be handicappped in his sisters wedding..

I am very happy that he is a good brother and there will be time when he will support naina even if it's sameer whom he doesn't like.. I am not really in favor of naina acting rebel and confront Arjun here. It won't go with her character and I dnt like such sudden change in characters. There needs to be gradual change in character and their relationship dynamics.. she will stand for him during their wedding I guess..

Yes I want paper stealing to come out but not for making Arjun guilty in front of sameer but to make Rakesh understand wat his son is going through. Everything is not need to be about samaina in show. Sameer will definitely understand Arjun as he has gone through it and he has his week moment where in a moment he thought of cheating but later he changed.

As of now, even if Arjun is guilty of paper stealing, he has right to be angry with sameer n protect naina. N I did see him feeling guilt after he becomes head boy. He was not ready to wear batch. So chill guys. He is also a boy and not bad person. Being protective of sister is good trait of elder brother 😆


I totally agree with your points... and one more thing I would like to highlight which goes with the show as well. Preeti is okay finding about love and bet thing because she is a gal who believes in love whereas Arjun is not though both of them see the same efforts Sam is putting to win Naina again. The point which my brother always jokingly says is that gals know what is love so a sister wud not mind sister's affair. However, a guy knows what other guys generally look for so a brother mostly has a problem with sister's relationship.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think Shefali will have a big role in all this... Only she can drill sense into arjun's head... He listens to her as well
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: angelic567

I think Shefali will have a big role in all this... Only she can drill sense into arjun's head... He listens to her as well


May b Shefali might help... however the brother-sister equations were different in those days. Hope for the best for Samina...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Loved your post👏
Comparing Arjun and Sameer's wrong doings is like comparing apples and oranges.

If we look at Arjun from a normal guy's POV then yes paper stealing was wrong. But if we look at him from an elder brother's POV, he is not wrong. He is bound to be possessive about his sister. It's not like Sameer had a great image in Arjun's mind and now he came to know that Naina was fooled by him. No brother is going to tolerate that. And expressing things openly was not a 90s thing. 90s people were never very open about their feelings to their family, or were never much able to take a stand.

Arjun's paper stealing was wrong, but that doesn't make Sameer's bet right. Arjun's anger for Sameer is justified.

It's just that he is an extremely meek character who finds it sometimes a bit easy to blast on Sameer.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: KashafZaroon30

Loved your post👏

Comparing Arjun and Sameer's wrong doings is like comparing apples and oranges.

If we look at Arjun from a normal guy's POV then yes paper stealing was wrong. But if we look at him from an elder brother's POV, he is not wrong. He is bound to be possessive about his sister. It's not like Sameer had a great image in Arjun's mind and now he came to know that Naina was fooled by him. No brother is going to tolerate that. And expressing things openly was not a 90s thing. 90s people were never very open about their feelings to their family, or were never much able to take a stand.

Arjun's paper stealing was wrong, but that doesn't make Sameer's bet right. Arjun's anger for Sameer is justified.

It's just that he is an extremely meek character who finds it sometimes a bit easy to blast on Sameer.



Thank you 😊
I think your name is Zaroon. Right?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dhruvi2608


Thank you 😊
I think your name is Zaroon. Right?

Oh no I'm Zulekha..forum people call me Zulu or KZ...I'm huge fan of Kashaf-Zaroon from the show Zindagi Gulzar hai...Dhruvi right?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very well said dear...!
Completely agree word to word...That era was smething n still those teachings,mannerisms r prevalant with some like me who was bought up that way...I m the eldest in my house n nxt is my bro who is jus a yr younger to me...Though being kids we shared a close bond but with age n maturity..wen v hit our teens..He clearly bossed n was protective around me...Mny had that impression he was elder to me who would often 24/7 shield me😆😆 ...The lines between us were drawn n v were nvr shared or discussed things openly cos that period was like that...We knew xactly wat was right to even mouth n wat not...😆.!!So i do get where arjun is coming from for his little sister ...I dont despise the fact that he is guarding her cos its his duty,respinsibility...
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Originally posted by: KashafZaroon30

Oh no I'm Zulekha..forum people call me Zulu or KZ...I'm huge fan of Kashaf-Zaroon from the show Zindagi Gulzar hai...Dhruvi right?
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Oh sorry I haven't watched ZGH... nice to talk to you Zulu and ya I m dhruvi :)

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