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Posted: 8 years ago
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Today news Mai aya shilpa sindhe commented about Tigershroof that he looks girlish. N many of us r finding this offended n negetive...lets bash shilpa Ok... Shilpa galti Kia..ek boy Ki look ko girl ke sath compare karke...
Agar iyea galad hai to hum aksar jis girl KO tomboy Ba boyish look bolte hai society Mai then woh bhi galad hona chiye.. But aksar people think tomboyish or mard jaise hai powerful bla bla is a complement
... Then girls Ki look Mai kharabi Keya hai?

Agar boy ka look girl Ki look ke sath compare karneke bad hum sab offended Ho jate hai then why not this is happened with girl also who r called Tomboy ?

I don't defend here shilpa . Mere hisab se she is judgemental here. But in society why this is discrimination?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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going by the same to fhir jab aunty ko autny bolte hai to problem kya hai ?
Edited by kirti31096 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Tomboy generally pant shirt wale dress up ko bolte hai
I was a tomboy in kids age
Calling a person on base of how he or she looks as girlish /mard is wrong
N jo yeh bolte hai wo Bhi theek nahi
Agar koi Shilpa ko mardana bolde ya Sapna ko ya arshi ko Ya koi Bhi to Bhi wrong hai
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kirti31096

going by the same to fhir jab aunty ko autny bolte hai to problem kya hai ?

you cant say anything to anyone unless you have saaf dil 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mix_of_emotions

Tomboy generally pant shirt wale dress up ko bolte hai
I was a tomboy in kids age
Calling a person on base of how he or she looks as girlish /mard is wrong
N jo yeh bolte hai wo Bhi theek nahi
Agar koi Shilpa ko mardana bolde ya Sapna ko ya arshi ko Ya koi Bhi to Bhi wrong hai

usko mardana bolenge to bawal macha denge lol
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kirti31096

going by the same to fhir jab aunty ko autny bolte hai to problem kya hai ?

it depends ur situation..agar 32 age Ki koi larki without any relationship 40 years Ki kisiko aunty bolte hai then it is a problem.. N it also depends on ur telling criteria..if u want to mock someone by telling aunty ..then it will be offended..n aunty is not a gali...like girlish / boyish..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Legend-killer

you cant say anything to anyone unless you have saaf dil 😆

are haa saaf dil ye bhul gai thi me 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kirti31096

going by the same to fhir jab aunty ko autny bolte hai to problem kya hai ?


calling someone aunty is not an insult but passing remarks such as iss umar mn hadiyan ni judegi is.
Also, imagine a 30 yr old calling a 40 yr old aunty 😆. I won't say its insulting but Arshi's way definitely is. She is calling her aunty in an insulting sort of a way (her statement - Vikas cant accept her love bcoz uske maa ki umar ki hai and all).

Also, Shilpa calling tiger girlish wasn't needed (should have been avoided). But why is it considered demeaning for people.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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There should be a topic on phuppo shilpa which summarizes her actions

- instigating all on vikas being gay
- spreading terms like gu gud
- problem with foreigners
- calling a boy girlish..girlish is not a gaali but to man its wrong because no one wants to be called girl. its just because they are not a girl
- telling unsubstantiated crap like Kajol corrected Amitabh Bachan of all people..creating ill will against Kajol

I mean can someone do this topic and update us ...the list seems endless and its only a month
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't think addressing someone as feminine is a bad thing as long as it is not said in a bad way or to make fun of that person. Bani was called manly around the forum just because she had more muscles then an average woman..leave even celebrities i started lifting as a part of new year resolution thins year & people always come n tell me that i should stop because it will make me manly when all that is happening is me getting stronger & looking better day by day. Society have this very strict notion about what's normal for a man & woman. But as much as i dont like shilpa most of the time i don't think she was making fun of him, he does look feminine sometimes but does that have to be a bad thing? Why is that treated as an insult.

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