I completely disagree with you! Simply because when he hugged the women in the window he referred to her by the name MEERA...so he was obviously feeling sorry for his actions. The other thing that you said about emotional connection, it could have been triggered by the socks that bani was holding (pay real close attention to what mr. walia saying when he see the socks).
My over all point is it is was never fair when mr. walia kicked bani out neither is it now fair to meera. Cause in reality, if he really loved bani so much, he should have taken the inicitive to find out the truth. It was even more necessary when he married meera becuase in this entire cat and mose game where was mera to blame.Please don't hope for jai and bani to come togather cause what would happen with meera then. Why do we have to always blame the women when in reality the biggest ass was mr. walia.
(going back to when the children died:)I don't understand how can you guys want jai and bani to come togather again especially after what happened on that rainy day. Especially the way he treated her and questioned her character; how dare he accuse a mother of murdering her own children. For men is it not enough that a women pushes his children out and on top of that she is responsible for taking caring of them, etc... Especially after going through all this how can a man point his fingure and say that you went wrong. Because if you were to think about it, it was really mr. walia who abandoned his daughter!!!
If this was for really, a man like walia should have never had the fortune of a second wife especially after treating the first one like shit.
Anyways: Now that bani and jai angle is over i think it is time for us to let go of it as well, because from a moral point of view now mr. walia belongs to meera and meera only. Be a little considerate meera is doing everything in her power ot make mr. walia happy! she is is doing everything for him and for her self interest.
I might have gone of topic...for which i apologize but i really truely believe that bani should not come back to mr. walia no matter what. As long as meera is concerned, STOP trying so hard. Have some self respect!