Addiction & Habit - Page 2

Originally posted by: Bollyfan44

If you cannot live without it; it can become an addiction, like the book. Sara was going through withdrawals searching for it, so much that it stopped her from wanting to do anything else until she had it. I understand using their habits against them, but Kanak is delusional. If you must change so yourself so much to fit, or change their way of thinking to accept her, the home is not for her as Vansh said. This lust she has Uma cannot be termed love; poles apart for sure. I cannot even see how he likes her for her.

Originally posted by: zazu123

@Desigal 2017your point ...episode was about .' can she do things in that family what she like usually' ..good point.

Its purely cultur conflict..he drinks kaad and she drinks tea.simple is to 'accept' the way it is.

In case of kanak at this point..she won I or me vs family,but her role is also part of her identity in that family has its own influence on values.now Kanak rathe vs kanak bhinisa . so..can't she do things she like..? with the tea episode. she will lose the battle as kanak bhinisa,because she needs to prove in the family that her addiction is bigger/imp than family culture values,.though she won as kanak rathe.

now, what is important..she has to show us.

just like nocry said..tea has nothing to do with identity...just food choice, preference like u said. yes,collectively habits make us who we are but not all of them require attention to frame. my point, tea is not among them.

Happy to hear your views guys..do correct me if i'm wrong.

Originally posted by: desigal2017

Right.. May be tea was not a good example.. I agree with that.. But sometimes it is difficult to accept simple things esp when you are away from your family and adjusting to a new environment.. I think in Sasuraal one usually loses perspective.. And doesn't choose their battles wisely.. :)